Why don't you agree? They've been dating for two years; there should be a foundation of affection between them. It won't be so easy for you to make your daughter separate.
Haven't you seen the example of Gesang flower? Don't easily ruin other people's marriages, even if it's your own child's.
[The premise of a bad marriage is that the marriage itself is good; if it's a karmic entanglement, it's best to end it as soon as possible.]
Upon hearing this, Wulikanhua sighed, "Actually, we agreed at first."
Why did they disagree later? Did they find out he was poor or incompetent?
"No, that's not it. Although his family's conditions are a little worse than ours, we are still a good match. Besides, my husband and I are not the kind of people who value money. As long as my daughter marries the right person and is happy, that's all that matters."
[Does your lack of concern for money mean he's not good enough?]
"It's not that simple," I said, as if looking at flowers through a fog.
“He is a PhD student who earns millions a year at a young age. We were quite angry at first because my daughter didn’t tell us she had a boyfriend and they had been dating for two years. But after meeting her boyfriend, we were initially very satisfied with this future son-in-law.”
"Later, her father and I agreed to their engagement and even picked out a wedding date. After the engagement, my daughter brought him to live at our house for a while, and gradually we stopped liking this son-in-law."
Why don't you like him anymore? Did he do something?
“Although my son-in-law is excellent, he is very lazy in life. Last time, his father was cleaning fish in the kitchen, and my son-in-law saw it but did not help. While I was cleaning the windows, he was lying on the sofa scrolling through his phone and playing games.”
“We’ll let these things go. My husband and I think he’s not married yet and doesn’t understand these things. Apart from these minor flaws, he’s fine. We think he’ll understand the responsibilities of a family when he gets married in the future.”
[Actually, I think he's not even married yet, and he's already ignoring his girlfriend's parents like this. He should at least put on a show before getting married.]
[Actually, most men are like this, even after marriage. They do nothing after work but lie down on the sofa.]
[From what the aunt described, her husband doesn't seem to be like that.]
"Looking at flowers through the mist" laughed and said, "Yes, when my husband and I were dating, he was very hardworking. After we got married, he helped me with laundry, cooking, and housework. We both had jobs, but now we're retired, so my husband and I find things to do at home when we have nothing to do."
Oh my god, this auntie seems so lucky.
It's happier to be your aunt's daughter.
What happens next?
"It's not a big deal. He can change things when he matures."
"But... when my daughter was around, he was actually quite attentive, warm and friendly to us, and he even peeled apples for me."
【this…】
Even if he's lazy, as long as he loves your daughter and treats her well, that's enough.
Yes, as long as they're willing to be attentive and enthusiastic towards your daughter, that's fine.
"Looking at things through a fog, that's what I thought at the time too. As long as he's good to my daughter, that's all that matters."
"However, one time, when my daughter's father was washing clothes in the washing machine, he saw lipstick marks on his son-in-law's dirty clothes."
“We told our daughter about this, and she believed him without hesitation. She said she asked her boyfriend, and he said that he accidentally brushed against a female client while drinking with her.”
Is your daughter love-struck? It's fine not to stop her from dating, but you should also assess the other person's character. If they're not a good person, letting your daughter marry them would only harm her.
[...maybe it really was just freeloading.]
[But you still need to be careful. Don't be foolish enough to believe everything you hear, or you'll get betrayed without even realizing it.]
"It was like looking at flowers through the fog. In the end, we chose to believe our daughter, but we were also wary, afraid that we might have really wronged her."
But my husband felt that there was something wrong with this son-in-law.
That's a man's intuition, isn't it? Only men truly understand men.
"Looking at flowers through the fog, then another time, I overheard my son-in-law on the phone in the stairwell, talking about finding prostitutes at a nightclub. I immediately felt that my son-in-law was a bad person, and I told my daughter about it."
“My daughter believed him again. She said he was drinking with clients to discuss work, and sometimes the location was that kind of place.”
Why can't you be a little more careful with your daughter?
"It was all a mystery," she said. "This time we kept quiet until the very last time, when my husband was cleaning my son-in-law's room and found condoms and small cards under his pillow."
“My husband got angry and beat his son-in-law up badly. However, my daughter defended him, saying that he was the one who found the prostitute for his boss, not the one he wanted to find.”
Has your daughter been drugged by him? Why does she trust him so much?
While trust is important in a relationship, this is just too absurd. I don't believe a man wouldn't feel tempted or interested himself while finding someone for his boss.
I'm speechless. Your daughter is hopeless.
"Looking at flowers through the fog," Wulikanhua sighed. "Because of this, my daughter and her father had a fight, and they haven't been speaking to each other for the past few days."
[So what happened next? How was the fight resolved? What was your son-in-law's attitude?]
"Looking at things through the fog, he had a very good attitude. He apologized to my husband and sincerely explained, just like my daughter said."
Could it be that I've really misunderstood him?
【Then what? 】
"Looking at flowers through the fog, his sincere apology almost made me think that we had really wronged him. But based on my experience and my husband's first instinct, we just felt that this son-in-law was a bad person, but we were just struggling to find good evidence to expose him."
No wonder he came to the live stream to have his fortune told.
[This matter is left to the streamer; no matter how well someone tries to disguise themselves, they're like an emperor without clothes in front of a streamer.]
To be honest, what this auntie said made me a little unsure whether her son-in-law actually had any problems.
People, seeing things through a fog, pinned their hopes on the livestreamer.
“I only have one daughter. I hope she is happy and I don’t want her to regret it in the future. Actually, my daughter is not the kind of person who easily trusts others, but she trusts her boyfriend completely. Just the day before yesterday, my daughter even took it upon herself to get a marriage certificate with him.”
Bai Xi, "Send me his photo privately so I can take a look."
"Okay." Wuli Kanhua quickly found a photo of him and his daughter in his phone's album and sent it to the anchor.
At the same time, the phone rang, and I saw it was my daughter calling.
I accepted it, though I was only seeing things through the fog.
"...Mom! Where are you now?"
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