Chapter 163 The Woman of Daqi Awakens
Jian Yunsang's eyebrows jumped. Jian Panpan's idea was very dangerous.
"Who said that you shouldn't exist in this world?"
"But I'm so tired. I've always felt so tired since I was a child. My parents and brother seem to treat me as a tool to do work. I can't have my own ideas and I have to listen to their arrangements for everything. I thought it would be different after I got married, but it wasn't. Getting married made me realize the fact that no one in this world really cares about me. My in-laws think I'm useless and can't help with anything. I haven't had children, I quit my job, and I can't help my husband with his career. They also have to be responsible for my food."
"Recently, my husband started his own business and made money, and bought a bigger house. My brother found out about it. My parents wanted me to borrow money from my in-laws, but I couldn't, so they felt that they had raised me in vain. My parents, my brother, and my husband are all on guard against me. I feel like there is no place for me in this world. I am wrong no matter where I am, and everything I do is wrong. My entire existence is wrong. It is wrong. No one in this world loves me."
"No." Jian Yunsang held her hand, frowning, "Panpan, it's not like that. You made a mistake."
Jian Panpan was stunned for a moment, then looked up blankly, "What?"
"You have to understand one thing first. You have to love yourself first." Jian Yunsang's voice slowed down, but his tone was particularly firm. "You are not wrong. They are wrong. Your parents treat you badly because they have been poisoned by the feudal idea of favoring boys over girls since they were young. Their values, education, and exposure to limited things are shallow, and their own ideas are problematic. So their way of guarding against you and treating you badly is wrong. They have done something wrong and refuse to repent, so what you have to do is stay away from them and don't let their mistakes infect you. Instead of thinking about integrating with them and becoming like them, understand?"
Jian Panpan widened her eyes slightly and looked at Jian Yunsang in surprise.
The latter hadn't finished speaking yet, "Let me ask you, when your husband was pursuing you, did he ever praise you?"
Jian Panpan nodded subconsciously, "Yes, he said that I was kind and sincere, and that I was careful, thoughtful and patient in my work. He also said that I was very talented and that the poems I wrote were very beautiful and warm. He also said that I was very self-disciplined and could arrange everything in an orderly manner. In the future, I will definitely be an employee that many companies will be vying to hire..."
As she spoke, she was stunned and her voice gradually stopped. It turned out that she had so many advantages.
Jian Yunsang smiled, "You see, he actually discovered how good you are a long time ago. He knows that you are very good, but he still treats you like this. After marriage, he has been suppressing you, denying you, and imprisoning you from going out to work. What does this show? It shows that his character is problematic. You are such an excellent person, why should you care about what a bad person says and does? Is it important that a bad person doesn't care about you? You still have to be obsessed with it and think that you should not exist in this world? Are you crazy? There are so many qualified and capable people out there, you should listen to what they say. Anyone who says something bad about you either has a problem with his vision, or has evil intentions, or has a narrow vision, you know."
Jian Panpan swallowed hard. Yes, why should she care so much about what these people said.
Obviously, the most capable person in the Jian family is right in front of her, her sister, so why doesn't she listen to what she says.
"You should fight against people who make you unhappy. If you can't fight them, throw them away or stay away from them. Don't waste your energy on yourself, or you will get breast nodules. What you need to do now is to love yourself and think about how to make yourself feel comfortable and happy. No one else's opinion is important. I am definitely on your side."
Chaochao looked at her mother with shining eyes. Although she didn't quite understand a lot of what her mother said, she felt that what her mother said made a lot of sense.
Therefore, as soon as Jian Yunsang finished speaking, she immediately followed up, "Aunt Panpan, I'm on your side too."
Jian Panpan couldn't help laughing, and she laughed while crying.
But at this moment, the Daqi Dynasty under the sky was exceptionally quiet.
Jian Yunsang's words were so enlightening that many people felt suddenly enlightened after listening to them, especially the women, who felt as if they had been taught a lesson.
So that’s how it is. It turns out that you can think this way.
They are despised and oppressed not because they are bad, but because those people have no vision or bad intentions. Their parents do not love them because they are narrow-minded and shallow-minded.
Yes, that's right, what's wrong with them?
They are obviously very hardworking, can have children, earn money to support the family, and keep the house clean and tidy. They are excellent, so why are they not liked? Because they met bad people.
Yes, if they met people like He Nanzhou, Jian Zhengqing, He Pu, or even the younger He Zheyan, they would be respected and understood.
At this moment, thousands and thousands of women in Daqi seemed to begin to awaken.
No, perhaps from a long time ago, from the fact that women could read, become officials, and get divorced, and that women could force men to leave the house with nothing after divorce, and that the gender of the baby was decided by men, these things had taken root in their hearts, letting them know that life should not be dominated by men, that they can also be the sky, and that they must first love themselves and respect themselves.
From that day on, many men in Daqi Dynasty found that their wives and daughters were no longer doing the same things numbly as before, and no longer swallowed their grievances. They would resist, and if they couldn't resist, they would ignore them, do all kinds of small things in secret, and no longer take care of their lives in every aspect. They were more concerned about taking care of themselves.
Jian Yunsang didn't know that his words had caused a drastic change in the woman of Daqi.
Jian Panpan had already heard it. She took a deep breath and said, "Sis, thank you. I will think carefully about what to do in the future. If, if..."
"If you encounter any difficulties, you can always come to me."
Jian Panpan nodded vigorously, "Okay."
"Okay, it's getting late, let's go upstairs to eat first." Jian Yunsang saw He Nanzhou had come in and sat not far away.
There was also a message on her cell phone from her father, asking her where she was.
Jian Yunsang replied, "I'll be there soon," and stood up with Chao Chao.
After meeting up with He Nanzhou, they got into the elevator and headed towards the box on the third floor.
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