Chapter 208 Jian Yunsang's Proposal
Ren Zhenzhen raised her head, tears still hanging in the corners of her eyes, and asked blankly, "What suggestions?"
"You are worried about leaving your child with someone else, right? But if you take care of the child yourself, it will affect your sleep."
Ren Zhenzhen nodded. "I've seen many people online say that sometimes when babysitters and confinement nannies are tired of taking care of children, they abuse them and feed them medicine to make them behave better. Especially at night, they won't feed the children if they are hungry, and just let them cry if they cry. I can't stand the thought that my child will also experience this."
Jian Yunsang nodded, "I understand. It's normal to protect your cubs. When I had just given birth to Chao Chao, I wanted to keep him by my side 24 hours a day. I always felt that no one cared about him more than me."
Ren Zhenzhen seemed to have found a soulmate and nodded repeatedly, "Yes, yes, yes, they are very perfunctory in taking care of the children."
Jian Yunsang smiled and said, "But you need to rest after all, right? Are you easily awakened at night? Do you wake up as soon as the child moves?"
"yes."
"But in fact, the child was sleeping soundly and didn't wake up at all, right?"
"right."
"But once you wake up, you will touch him, feel him, check if he is hot or cold, if he needs feeding, or simply change his diaper. But this will wake the child up, right?"
Speaking of this, Ren Zhenzhen was also distressed, "Yes."
"So, you are not taking good care of your child at night, but destroying his sleep quality and ability."
Ren Zhenzhen was stunned. She, she destroyed the child's sleep quality?
So, she was the one who actually failed to take good care of the child?
"In fact, the baby is already three or four months old now, and two meals at night are enough. You can hire two nannies, one for the first half of the night and one for the second half. If they only feed the baby once, they won't be very tired, and naturally they won't feed the baby medicine or anything like that in order to get enough rest, right?"
Ren Zhenzhen felt that what she said made sense, "But..." She was still hesitant.
Jian Yunsang smiled and said, "Don't worry, if you are worried at night, then start during the day."
"What do you mean?"
"You are worried about the confinement nanny, but are you worried about your mother?"
Ren Zhenzhen nodded hesitantly, but in fact, she was a little worried.
"Then, you can ask your mother to help you. During the day, you can coax the child to sleep and let your mother stay with him. You can try to stay outside the room, or in the next room, close to the child so that you can hear any noise. Then, you can play with your phone or read a book. When you miss the child, you can go into the room to check on him. Then, you can slowly extend the distance and time. After the child falls asleep, you can go to the small living room, downstairs, or the yard to find something to do."
Jian Yunsang is not a psychologist, she can only give her advice based on her own experience.
At least, let her feel at ease to hand the child over to her parents or husband and mother-in-law. This is a painful process of "separating" her from the child, but the child and the parents are not a whole and should be separated.
Ren Zhenzhen was in deep thought, slowly distancing herself from him?
Don’t you have to watch over it all day and all night?
She actually knew that her current condition was very bad. She had listened to what Jian Yunsang said, but she was not sure if she could do it.
She also knows that her husband and mother-in-law love their children very much and do most things themselves, but she is always worried.
Just as she was hesitating, the eldest son of the Tang family rushed in.
"Zhenzhen, are you okay?"
Ren Zhenzhen raised her head, tears falling uncontrollably again, "I'm fine."
Seeing this, Jian Yunsang quietly stood up, waved to Chao Chao, and whispered, "Let's go."
The mother and daughter left the small living room and walked slowly downstairs.
He Nanzhou saw them and came over to ask quietly, "Just now I saw that my sister-in-law didn't look very happy. She and the eldest and second sons of the Tang family went upstairs. You just came down from upstairs. What happened?"
Jian Yunsang raised her eyes. It seemed that the eldest sister-in-law of the Tang family had no intention of making a big deal out of this matter.
Yes, there were many guests today, including relatives of relatives, and even invited reporters. If the matter became known to everyone, it would be another matter whether the reputation of the two women would be ruined, but Ren Zhenzhen's postpartum depression would definitely spread everywhere.
Originally, her affairs were just rumors in a small circle, and had not even been confirmed.
She was already under tremendous pressure. If something like this were to be discussed by others or reported in the media, who knows what kind of verbal attacks she would endure.
How could Ren Zhenzhen bear it?
Therefore, it is normal for the Tang family to deal with it privately.
She briefly told He Nanzhou what happened. Upon hearing this, the latter couldn't help but touch the little girl's head and said, "Chao Chao is awesome."
Chao Chao tilted his head back and puffed out his chest. "I, I was actually a little scared at the time, but when I thought someone was going to hurt me, I rushed forward. And with my mom by my side, I was very brave."
If she hadn't met Jian Yunsang before she rushed upstairs, Chao Chao felt that she might not have the courage to confront him.
Even if I had brought Brother Yuanyuan with me, it might still be...
Hmm? Wait, where's Brother Yuanyuan?
Chao Chao suddenly widened his eyes, "Mom and Dad, I, I forgot about brother Yuanyuan."
Jian Yunsang and the other looked at each other, "Where is he?"
"It's under the table over there. I'll take you there." Then he pulled the person to the corner.
But when she lifted the tablecloth, there was no one inside.
Chao Chao was so anxious that she was about to cry, "It's gone, what should I do?"
He Nanzhou said, "Don't worry, this is the Tang family. Yuanyuan has grown up here for most of his life, so he definitely won't get lost. Maybe, maybe he saw that you were not here, so he went to look for you."
"Then where will he find me?" There are so many people here, and Brother Yuanyuan is so young that she can't see him.
He Nanzhou thought for a moment and said, "All kinds of nooks and crannies."
With the way his brain works, he would probably look for it in various bushes and corners.
Thinking of this, He Nanzhou led them to the door and said, "Let's go to the yard and take a look."
Who knew that as soon as I walked into the yard, I ran into Yuanyuan who was running towards me panting. There was a grass on his forehead and his clothes were wrinkled.
After seeing this, He Nanzhou felt that his guess was indeed correct.
When Yuanyuan saw Chaochao, he let out a long sigh, "Where did you go, sister? Luckily I asked the guards and they said they didn't see you go out. But I even looked in the dog house and couldn't find you."
Chao Chao: "…" Who would go into a doghouse for no reason?
Yuanyuan was relieved to see that Chaochao was fine. He held up the phone in his hand and said, "I'm telling you, I finally cracked the password to my brother's phone."
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