Appropriate quarrels are beneficial to Zou Weijun's physical and mental health.
The psychologist suggested that Zou Weijun could be a little more aggressive. When encountering unreasonable people, don't try to reason with them. It would be more satisfying to deal with it as you please.
There is no shame in still having feelings for your cheating husband.
Love and hate are not two opposites. These two emotions are sometimes intertwined. The psychologist does not necessarily have to persuade Zou Weijun to divorce, but as the party who has been cheated on and hurt, Zou Weijun will sooner or later develop problems if he does not vent his anger.
Only after venting his anger can Zou Weijun completely let go of the hurt and start a new life!
The couple has been married for almost 20 years. Even though there is no love, there is still family affection. It is not easy to let go. As long as Zou Weijun is strong enough in her heart, the negative impact that Xie Jinghu has brought to her will eventually fade away.
The whole process will not take one or two days, and may even take longer than Zou Weijun's treatment of depression. After all, it is about separating from a partner who has occupied your life for nearly twenty years, which is not easy.
To persuade Zou Weijun, the psychologist used a well-known saying in China: "Let alone someone you've lived with for so long, even if you keep a dog for a long time, you can't let it go."
Zou Weijun was indeed comforted, and even had a sudden realization. He stood up and thanked him:
"Thank you, doctor. I think I understand now. I will never punish myself for other people's mistakes again. Whoever does something wrong should be punished."
It's not her fault, nor is it shameful, that she still has feelings for Xie Jinghu.
Xie Jinghu let her down. It was Xie Jinghu's fault. Xie Jinghu was a dog, and she was a human being. She had normal human emotions.
Just as the doctor said, she needs an outlet to vent her negative emotions!
Zou Weijun can scold or punish a cheating dog whenever he wants. There is no need to be patient or feel any psychological burden!
Zou Weijun turned and walked away with her bag in her hand, her high heels tapping on the ground. The psychologist touched his nose.
——Ms. Zou’s understanding seems to be a little different from his original intention.
——He absolutely did not encourage Ms. Zou to take revenge!
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