The internal circulation suddenly befell Deng Shangwei, and he was at a loss.
It is already difficult to become a boss from selling fish. After becoming a boss, one has to improve himself. Deng Shangwei is trying hard to adapt.
Deng Shangwei hadn't achieved much in his studies, and he still had to tutor his children. He was so exhausted he wanted to lie down, but Qin Xianming lectured him: "Do you think that if you pay tuition for your child and send him to various cram schools, he will become a successful person on his own?"
Ah, what else?
Deng Shangwei feels that he has done a lot.
When many small bosses were partying every night, Deng Shangwei knew the concept of "school district housing". He knew that the living environment had a great impact on the growth of children, so he bought a house in a high-end community.
If Deng Jie and Deng Hao ask Deng Shangwei for money to buy toys, they will succeed at most eight times out of ten. But if the two brothers say they want to buy books, no matter what type of books they are, Deng Shangwei will not even stutter when he takes out the money!
Qin Xianming took his own son and daughter as examples. Qin Yi was admitted to Shanghai and Qin Jiao was in Beijing. Both of them went to famous universities in China. It would take more than just spending money to cultivate two such children.
When Qin Yi and Qin Jiao were young, Qin Xianming's wife kept an eye on their studies all the time, and only let go after they graduated from junior high school.
The habit of studying has been formed, and Mrs. Qin only needs to focus on the big things and not worry about everything. Deng Shangwei met Qin Xianming during this period and secretly imitated the way Qin Xianming and his wife raised their children - Deng Shangwei only saw the second half and did not learn the first half!
Without years of persistent worry, the Qin brothers and sisters would not have been able to get into prestigious universities with such ease.
"Relaxation" is for outsiders to see, and what outsiders cannot see is the extent of the parents' efforts.
There are certainly children in this world like Xie Qian who have extraordinary IQs and can get first place in their studies easily, and who seem to require no worries from their parents at all.
But how many people are like Xie Qian who are born with superior IQ?
Most of them are ordinary children with average IQ!
The first half of an ordinary child's life is all about competing with their parents.
Comparing the parents' work does not mean comparing assets and positions, but the energy parents put into raising their children. This is like a farmer planting a field. The field that is cultivated carefully may have a reduced yield due to natural disasters or man-made disasters. Such an unfortunate poor harvest is a low-probability event. The field that is not cultivated carefully will most likely have a low yield!
Qin Xianming said bluntly, "Even for Xie Qian, I imagine he must have been held in high regard by his family when he was young. The marks left by childhood can affect a person's entire life. Xie Qian's overall qualities are very high. You can tell he comes from a very impressive family background, right?"
If high IQ is not cultivated, the talent will be wasted, let alone ordinary children with lower IQ.
Oh, it turns out that smart children also need such dedicated training from their parents. Deng Shangwei, who had been taught another lesson, felt ashamed: "Brother Qin, I used to only learn the basics and regarded them as the truth. I am really fake smart!"
Qin Xianming felt that Deng Shangwei was already very smart, and the real "fake intelligence" was being stubborn and refusing to admit that he was wrong even if he was beaten to death.
After talking with Qin Xianming, Deng Shangwei decided to take the responsibility of tutoring his son.
Can’t do the exercises and have forgotten the knowledge in the textbook?
What are you afraid of? At worst you can just start over!
I’ve never lost money in business, so I don’t believe I can’t solve elementary school students’ math word problems!
Deng Shangwei didn't want to be so enthusiastic either, mainly because Chen Li and he were tutoring their two sons separately. Deng Shangwei was worried that when the two sons were compared together at the end of the semester, the eldest son Deng Jie, whom he was responsible for tutoring, would be too far behind, and his wife Chen Li would not forgive him... Another person whose family status was precarious was Wen Dongrong.
The two families live in the same community and the brothers-in-law are close, so Lao Wen has full control over Deng Shangwei's movements.
Deng Shangwei's behavior hurt Lao Wen.
Lao Wen doesn’t need to tutor Wen Ying now, but Lao Wen still has his own exams!
In the blink of an eye, the exam that I failed last year is about to be taken again. I was full of confidence in the first year, but I became nervous in the second time.
If I fail the exam again this year, I will have no status at home at all!
The two brothers-in-law studied together and sighed together.
When he felt depressed after studying, Wen Dongrong could only seek a sense of existence from Lao Li. In Lao Li's eyes, Wen Dongrong is now a complete winner in life, and Lao Li is in a state of lying down and being ridiculed.
But Lao Li's surrender did not make Wen Dongrong feel happy.
As for competitors, it would be interesting only if they were evenly matched. The gap between the two sides was too big, and Lao Li was beaten by him in all aspects. It was interesting once or twice, but it became boring after too many times!
Wen Dongrong tries to find new excitement in life.
He didn't expect this excitement to come so quickly!
On Saturday, Chen Ru invited Song Shao to dinner. The three members of the Wen family arrived at the reserved restaurant early, while Song Shao and Song Foxiang arrived later.
Song Foxiang still has long hair draped over his shoulders and wears white clothes, exuding the temperament of a middle-aged intellectual.
Song Shao was wearing a beige sweatshirt, looking like a handsome young man, and he also had a good appearance.
Brought to the dinner by his nephew, Song Foxiang looked quite honest.
There is no way to be dishonest. Song Foxiang wants to take this opportunity to ask Wen Ying for advice on how to grasp the best-selling book market. In order for his daughter Song Chan to study abroad without worries, the great poet decides to bow down for a few pieces of silver - if you want to ask for help, you must have the attitude of asking for help. Song Foxiang is just casual, not stupid.
Chen Ru had met Song Foxiang as early as when Wen Ying went to Shanghai to participate in the semi-finals of the New Concept Writing Competition.
Song Foxiang was deeply impressed by Chen Ru.
——This is a lady whose words are a bit choking, so you should keep a little distance from her.
Song Foxiang's first impression of Wen Dongrong was actually quite good. Wen Dongrong looked presentable, but as soon as Old Wen opened his mouth, the old-fashioned tone of a government official came over him, almost suffocating Song Foxiang.
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