Chapter 159 Is there pure friendship between opposite sexes?
"Don't just talk about me. What's going on between you and Han Xiao?" Gu Qingyue looked at Song Ranran and changed the subject directly.
Song Ranran's expression was a little shy: "We agreed that we would meet the parents after we graduated from university."
Xu Youning said, "We're only in our junior year this semester, isn't it still early?"
Song Ranran said carelessly: "We are still young, there is no rush."
They are only 22 or 23 years old when they graduate from college. There is no need to rush into marriage. It is already early for them to meet their parents right after graduation.
Then, she seemed to realize something and changed the subject: "Of course, I definitely didn't mean to say anything about the president of Shang University."
Shang Yuze is already 27 years old this year. Compared with college students in their early twenties, he is indeed not young.
But Gu Qingyue didn't think there was anything wrong. Compared to the immature male college students in the school, she preferred mature and steady men like Shang Yuze.
Being with him, I feel completely safe.
Xu Youning asked curiously, "Yueyue, getting married so early, do you feel constrained by marriage?"
Now people on the Internet say that love is the grave of marriage.
If you get married, there will definitely be a lot of restrictions.
Gu Qingyue raised her lips and smiled: "Of course I don't think I will marry the person I love the most. Even if I get married, I can still do what I want. Marriage is not a bondage to me, but a warm haven."
Shang Yuze never interferes in her affairs and always respects her choices.
Xu Youning's face was full of envy and yearning: "What you said makes me want to fall in love."
Song Ranran smiled and asked, "There are so many boys chasing after you in school, don't you have any that you like?"
After all, Xu Youning is outstanding and beautiful, and there are many boys who have pursued her since childhood.
"No." Xu Youning shook his head, his expression very serious. "Actually, I think there's something wrong with me. No matter how outstanding a boy is, I can always find his flaws."
In other words, they have no interest in dating or getting married.
No matter how outstanding a boy is, as long as he says he likes her, she will immediately feel discouraged.
Is someone like her destined to be alone?
Gu Qingyue began to share her experience: "In fact, true love for someone means hoping that they will become better. If loving someone requires you to lower your bottom line and give up your ideals, then this person is not worthy of you."
"Between a man and your career, always choose your career. Your career will never betray you, but a man may not."
Many times you can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't expect a career-oriented woman to take care of every detail of the family, nor can you expect a housewife to have the competence and ability of a career-oriented woman.
It's not that strong women are superior to housewives, but even if they get divorced, strong women have their own careers and a way out, while housewives have long been out of touch with society and may not even be able to find a decent job.
So when love and career conflict with each other, you must consider it carefully.
Love is really illusory. You cannot devote all your energy to love and family. It is best to have a career of your own.
"Then do you believe Brother Shang?" Xu Youning asked Gu Qingyue with a gossipy look on his face.
Gu Qingyue smiled happily and sweetly: "I believe it now, and I will believe it in the future."
Healthy love is the result of the joint efforts of two people. Whether men or women, they must reject external temptations in marriage.
Xu Youning smiled and joked, "A woman who has met her true love is different. She is full of pink bubbles."
Gu Qingyue raised her eyebrows slightly: "You will understand when you meet her."
Xu Youning flicked her hair and raised her chin proudly: "I want to be a female boss. I have very high standards. Ordinary men are not in my eyes at all."
Gu Qingyue was chatting with her good sister here, while Shang Yuze was dragged out to a party by Xu Youan and Pei Luheng.
Night bar, private room.
"Brother Ze, this is a party we hold specially for you. After tonight you will be a family man." Xu Youan took the bottle and poured wine into the glass in front of Shang Yuze.
Shang Yuze was wearing a black casual suit. The man had a stern face and a pair of phoenix eyes as black as ink, with an unbreakable coldness in his eyes. His long legs were naturally crossed, lazy yet dignified.
His bony fingers gripped the wine glass on the table and he said calmly, "I've always had a family."
Pei Luheng waved his hand: "How can this be the same? You are getting married, and only a wedding can bring a sense of ceremony."
Xu Youan leaned back on the sofa, casually unbuttoning two of his shirt's buttons. As he moved, the collar of his shirt tilted, revealing a bit of a gentlemanly air: "Come back to the point, what was it about my sister-in-law that attracted you in the first place?"
God knows how shocked they were when they heard that Shang Yuze was married.
Thinking of Gu Qingyue, Shang Yuze's eyes also became gentle: "I don't know, but there is a kind of fate called destiny."
"To put it nicely, it's fate. To put it bluntly, it's lust at first sight." Pei Luheng made a precise complaint.
After all, Gu Qingyue's face is really rare in the world.
Shang Yuze said calmly, "You're too superficial to think like that. The key to being attracted by beauty isn't the beauty, but the intention. There are millions of beautiful women in this world. You can't love every one of them, right?"
No one can stay young forever, but there will always be young and beautiful girls.
He didn't know what others thought, but he felt that since he had chosen her, he had to reject all temptations from the outside world for her. If he couldn't even do this, then he shouldn't harm the girl.
Xu Youan nodded: "That seems to make sense."
Shang Yuze glanced at his two single friends and asked, "When are you two planning to get married? Yueyue and I already have a child, and you're still single."
"Isn't it that I haven't met the right one? I haven't met the one I like either." Xu Youan was also worried. Recently, his mother almost nagged him to death because of this.
They also introduce him to blind dates and force him to meet them every day.
During the holidays, relatives always ask, "Have you found a partner? When are you planning to get married?"
It makes me feel dizzy just listening to it.
Pei Luheng didn't say anything. He put his hand on his chin with a thoughtful expression.
"Pei Luheng, why are you silent?" Xu Youan looked at him with a scrutinizing expression. "Don't tell me you're dating behind my back?"
Pei Luheng raised his eyes, a little confused and bewildered: "No, I was just thinking about a question, is there pure friendship between opposite sexes?"
In fact, this problem has been bothering him for several days.
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