Chapter 349 Money is not everything, but without money you can do nothing
349 Money is not everything, but without money, you can do nothing.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year, Tang Xu brought the children here.
Since Tang Hui didn’t come back this year, he didn’t come, but since Tang Xu was at home, of course he had to come and visit.
Not only Tang Xu, but also the cousins from Uncle Tang's family came to visit.
When they got back, Qin's mother talked about Tang Xu's development last year. It was quite good and he even got a welfare house.
Although it is not big, it is a new house, which also represents that Tang Xu's work is recognized by the unit.
Qin's mother was very optimistic about her nephew, who was honest, down-to-earth and hardworking.
Shen Yiyi smiled and said, "His wife should be satisfied, right?"
Mother Qin curled her lips, "You are still the same as always, thinking about trying to find something from your second uncle and second aunt!"
It’s not like I haven’t given subsidies before, but in the end, what happened? Nothing in return.
The old lady was hurt too much. Now she has become more open-minded. Filial piety will be filial no matter what. Everyone has a bottom line as a human being. But the unfilial one will give her his heart and still be fed to the dogs.
So why bother?
The old couple keeps the money in their own hands, and in the future the capital will be given to whichever child is filial to them. By then, no matter whether it is sincere or not, who would not rush to show filial piety?
When Qin's mother talked about her eldest niece's wife, it was just like she was talking about her eldest brother's ex-wife, with complaints flowing endlessly like a torrent of water.
"She always wanted Tang Xu to start a business and make a fortune. She thought it was so easy to find a job outside. If she had the ability, why didn't she just go and do it?"
My nephew's job is so stable and secure, how could he give it up so easily?
Qin's mother also compared Qin Sangu's second son Zhao Erxi.
Isn’t Zhao Erxi teaching steadily? The salary for teachers is very low, much lower than Tang Xu’s.
Seeing that Erxi was teaching at school, Erxi's wife bought a store and started selling stationery, and her business was doing very well.
Because she had Erxi's job to back her up and didn't have to worry about the business failing and the family going hungry, she dared to take on the job and also supported the family for the other half of the day.
This is a capable woman.
"You have no ability at all, but you are jealous of others. You are simply sick." Mother Qin was very contemptuous: "Tang Xu must be unlucky to marry such a thing."
If her children hadn't repeatedly said that divorce was unrealistic, she would have supported her nephew's divorce. Having a daughter-in-law like this would probably shorten his life by ten or eight years.
Shen Yiyi knows about this one.
This kind of woman who doesn't work hard herself but just uses her strength to bully men and women is really terrible. Men and children are investments, and if they don't meet her demands, the whole family will be in turmoil.
They especially like to compare, comparing family conditions, husbands' salaries, children's academic performance, and then comparing their children's salaries when they grow up.
But the only thing left on her body was her mouth, which was particularly scary.
But I won’t say too much about their affairs. Anyway, divorce is really unrealistic, as they have several children.
All I can say is that whether you are a man or a woman, you have to keep your eyes open when looking for a partner.
If a girl ever finds someone like Tang Xue's ex-husband, Tang Hui's brother-in-law, or Qin Zhu, the domestic violence man who got drunk and froze to death outside MLZL in the middle of winter, she should never hesitate and leave as soon as possible before she has children.
The same goes for boys. If they find someone like Tang Xu's wife, or Yang Fengxian or Li Mingxia, they should leave as soon as possible.
Because not only will you suffer, but your children will also suffer.
Its power is absolutely beyond imagination.
In the afternoon, Zhao Sixi and his brothers came over to sit with us.
Originally there was also Qin Xiaogu's son, but because of the Zhou Xuan incident, the two families had a falling out and had not had any contact for several years.
However, they still keep in touch with Zhao Sixi and his other cousins.
They just knew that they had a bad relationship with their second uncle and aunt, so Zhao Sixi and the others would not talk much about the Zhou family.
Speaking of which, the Zhao family has had a lot of happy events this year.
For example, Zhao Daxi built a two-story house outside. The second floor is used as his residence, and the first floor is used directly for business!
Of course, he was able to build a building like that only because he borrowed a lot of money from his younger brother Zhao Sixi, otherwise his money alone would not be enough.
But the second floor is also very bright.
Not only Zhao Daxi, but Zhao Erxi also moved out.
He took his wife and children to live in the teacher's dormitory assigned by the school. Although the family lived in a rather crowded place and not very spacious, it was much better than the old house.
Zhao Erxi received a stable salary, while his wife took care of the household and also ran her stationery store outside the school.
I borrowed a lot of money from my brother-in-law Zhao Sixi to buy this stationery store, but I have paid it all off this year.
Life is going well.
The last one is Zhao Sixi.
Needless to say, Zhao Sixi's life was easy. His household registration was moved to the provincial capital, and the three brothers separated. He gave each of his two elder brothers 200 yuan in subsidies, and the old house was given to him.
Because Zhao Sixi had no plans to come back to develop, he just wanted to have a place to stay when he went home during the New Year and other holidays.
As for the care of Aunt Qin Sangu in her old age, that will be left to her youngest son. When she gets older, both families can give her some living expenses.
The problem was solved without any arguments.
Qin's mother was very emotional and kept praising her third sister for being lucky. She said her third sister's husband was less lucky because he passed away early, otherwise he would have also enjoyed a happy life.
Shen Yiyi smiled and said, "You still have to have money. If everyone's conditions are good, they won't care too much."
As the saying goes, poverty breeds evil schemes while wealth breeds consciences.
When things are poor, everyone is busy trying to make a living. They are tired, exhausted and annoyed, so they tend to be more calculative about many things.
But after having money, easy things can be discussed and harmony is the most valuable thing among all.
The mentality will be completely different.
So you still have to make money, you still have to have money.
With money, no matter whether it is parents, spouses, brothers or sisters, everyone becomes a person of value, and the way they speak and do things will be different.
This is not bragging about being rich, but a very realistic thing.
"It's true that a man with money is a man, but a man without money is a man without money."
Mother Qin also smiled when she heard her daughter-in-law's words.
But isn't that the case? Money is very important. Although money is not everything, without money, nothing is possible.
Those people who have a peaceful life all have someone who helps them carry the burden and move forward.
People who don't treat money as money are destined to be in trouble.
Take the boss’ ex-wife for example, that thing is worthless. Fortunately, the boss has divorced her now, otherwise he would have been dragged down by her for the rest of his life!
She had asked the eldest brother the reason for his divorce, and he had not hidden it.
Without even saying hello, he took away the 20,000 yuan that the boss needed to turn things around!
First she lost the boss's job, and then she destroyed his chance of making a comeback. How could she not go to heaven?
As for the reason that she did it to save her brother, Qin's mother did not accept it. She thought it might be a self-written and self-directed trick to defraud money!