Chapter 351: Life is like this, be carefree!
351 Life is like this, be carefree!
Qin Ningning left with her father by car the next day.
After arriving in the city, we quickly boarded a train heading south.
"Are you reluctant to leave your grandparents? Wait until summer vacation, and dad will see if he is free. If he is free, he will bring you back to stay for a few days." Qin Feng said softly when he saw that his daughter was silent all the way.
Qin Ningning looked up at her father, "Dad, are you divorced from Mom?"
Qin Feng was stunned for a moment, and Qin Ningning's eyes slightly reddened, "Dad, you don't have to hide it from me. I heard everything you said to grandma in the room."
She didn't mean to eavesdrop, she just happened to go over to get money and wanted to treat her friends from home to some snacks because she was leaving today.
As a result, I heard about the divorce at the door.
Even though grandma spoke in a low voice, she still heard it because of her good hearing.
Qin Feng sighed, "Dad wanted to tell you slowly, but I didn't expect you to hear it. Yes, your mother and I divorced last November."
Qin Ningning burst into tears, "Dad, did Mom do something unforgivable?"
Qin Feng: "She crossed my bottom line, but the biggest reason is that she and I have really come to the end. Even if this incident had not happened, we were still incompatible. It was not only her problem, but also my own. Our problems could not be resolved, so in the end our marriage came to an end. Ningning, Daddy is sorry for not telling you until now."
Qin Ningning choked for a while before trying to calm herself down and said, "Is it because of grandma's family that Dad lost his job?"
"That's one of the reasons, but the biggest reason is still because of me and her. Things in the outside world are all external factors, and external factors are secondary. The most important thing is that the two of us can't go back." Qin Feng explained patiently.
He couldn't get over the fact that his work was messed up, but if she had apologized to him properly, he wouldn't have felt so strongly against it.
But he knew that her temper was due to her innate nature, but it also had something to do with him.
In his early years, he was too bottom-line-less. Even if she was wrong, he was the first to bow his head.
This makes her take it for granted more and more, and she feels more and more that she is always right. She becomes extremely self-centered and thinks the whole world revolves around her.
They never reflect on their own mistakes.
As for him, after his career was ruined, he was no longer willing to live in poverty as before, so conflicts were inevitable.
But he still held out hope.
In the hope that she would reflect on how big the conflict between them was.
But in the end he was overthinking it, she was still the same as before, without any change.
She couldn't understand why Qin Feng wouldn't talk to her about these things. Those who can understand will naturally understand, and those who can't understand will be useless no matter how much they talk.
She has had that kind of personality for a long time. How easy is it to change her?
Just muddle through, he doesn't expect that much.
But the 20,000 yuan and her subsequent reaction really touched his minefield, allowing him to use the 20,000 yuan that he wanted to turn things around to completely buy out this relationship!
Qin Ningning's eyes were red.
"Dad knows this is a huge blow to you, but even if your mom and I are together reluctantly, you will still feel bad for us. It's better to suffer a short pain than a long one. But you don't need to care too much about us. Even if we get divorced, I'm still your dad and she's still your mom. When you have time, you can go shopping, eat out, or play with her. You just live with dad."
Qin Feng certainly would not stop his ex-wife from getting close to their daughter, because after all, their daughter was born after ten months of pregnancy, and she could not be separated from him no matter what.
Qin Ningning knew what her father meant and just said, "Is there no possibility of reconciliation with Mom?"
"No." Qin Feng shook his head. "Your mother has also started her new life. When you meet her, just wish her the best."
Qin Ningning couldn't help wanting to cry.
She was going to the south to see her mother with great joy, thinking that the family would finally be reunited.
But who would have thought that her family had already broken up and her parents had divorced.
Seeing his daughter sad, Qin Feng sighed, but didn't say anything else.
For adults, this is considered to be completely normal, but for children, it is impossible to accept it easily.
That's her mother. Even if her mother has many shortcomings, which child would despise her own parents? No matter how bad she is, she is still her mother.
Unless you are born cold-blooded, it is difficult to accept this fact.
So Qin Feng let his daughter calm down on her own for a while.
I brought oranges, apples, boiled eggs, and two packs of cakes from home.
"Eat something to fill your stomach." Qin Feng took it out and said.
Qin Ningning shook her head, "I'm not hungry."
The road from here to the south is not short. Even by train, it takes two and a half days to get there.
Qin Feng asked his daughter to adjust herself.
However, I also tried to divert my daughter's attention, for example, by asking her what skills she had learned when she was with her uncle and aunt.
Hearing about going to the swimming pool, Qin Feng smiled and said, "We also have a swimming pool over there. When summer comes, I'll take you there to swim. Learning to swim is a very good thing."
Thinking of Hengheng and Fantuan, Qin Ningning felt much better.
"Hengheng and Fantuan can both doggy paddle."
"Ah? Hehe, how come Rice Balls can do this? They are still so young."
"During the summer vacation, my grandmother and I went back to our hometown to visit my grandfather. They were brought there by my aunt to learn how to do this. Although they are still young, they are very smart."
"Will they be bullied by other kids in the camp?"
"How is that possible? They are so fierce, who dares to bully them? Children who are a head taller than them don't dare to mess with them." Qin Ningning smiled and said, "They are still protecting me. They told me that if someone in school bullies me, just tell them and they will help me!"
Qin Feng asked, "Has anyone bullied you at school?"
"I'm the vice-class monitor, and my grades are very good. No one dares to bully me. It was Lu Xiaojun who was bullied by her classmates. Her brothers told her, and Hengheng Fantuan told me after hearing it."
Qin Feng smiled and asked, "You're living so well at your uncle and aunt's house, will it be a bit sad to go to the south with your dad?"
Qin Ningning: "Of course I am a little sad. I can't bear to leave Hengheng and Fantuan, my best friend Xiaoxi, my uncle, aunt, grandpa, grandma, and sister Xiaoyan. But I will always be with my parents. My aunt said that all good things must come to an end. We should all be full of energy and grow up. There is no need to be too sad. This is how life is. Sometimes you have to be casual."