Chapter 45: Seizing the time to have a baby is also important
45 It is also important to seize the time to have a baby
Qin Hong was stunned.
Shen Yiyi sighed, "You don't know yet, do you? Before breaking up with my parents' family this time, I took all your third brother's allowance back to support my parents' family. Who else can stand a partner like this? Since we are married, we should build our own family together. How can we live a normal life if I support my parents' family alone like I did before?"
Qin Hong didn't know what to say.
Shen Yiyi said softly: "It was only recently that I realized that marriage is not a matter between two people, but a matter between two families."
"What do you mean?" Qin Hong was confused.
Shen Yiyi: "Your third brother and I are the best example. If something happens to the Qin family, your third brother can sit back and do nothing. Can I stay out of it? The same is true in reverse. What if there are a lot of things happening in my mother's family? In fact, there are indeed a lot of things. Today they come to me and cry that they have no money, and tomorrow they come to me and say that there is no rice at home. If your third brother is at home, can he, as a son-in-law, just ignore it? If I don't sever ties with my mother's family, the Shen family will drag down your third brother's and my small family to death, and even make the Qin family upset!"
After saying that, he looked at Qin Hong. Qin Hong obviously understood. She had heard from her mother that the Shen family had come to their house and knelt down to make a fuss because of this matter.
But since it concerns her sister-in-law's family, she obviously can't say much.
"It's normal for relatives to need help with something, but if you find someone like my third sister-in-law's family who is always causing trouble, how can you and your wife live a peaceful life?" Shen Yiyi: "So I said that if your third brother wasn't around, we would have been unable to live long ago."
"But didn't you come to your senses in the end, sister-in-law?" Qin Hong smiled.
"..."This naive and worrying sister-in-law.
"Third sister-in-law, do you think that there will be endless troubles in Zhou Lang's family in the future?" Qin Hong asked.
Shen Yiyi just said in her heart that she was naive, but then she saw how smart she was.
"Do you think Third Sister-in-law is meddling in other's business?" Shen Yiyi asked with a smile.
Qin Hong shook her head. "Third sister-in-law told me this because she cares about me."
Shen Yiyi said, "Little sister, you are the youngest in our family. When I got married, you were only in the second year of high school. Although I was confused before, I have always treated you as my sister. I hope you can find a good husband in the future, and you can be in love with your future husband, love each other, and grow old together. I don't want to see you being entangled in trivial matters, and in the end not only there is no so-called love, but also a mess. So when you are dating your country classmate, you must think it over and make a decision. Don't rush into marriage, understand?"
Qin Hong could feel her third sister-in-law's concern for her, and nodded: "Third sister-in-law, I know, don't worry."
Shen Yiyi didn't say much.
Because Qin Hong didn't know that her future with Zhou Lang would be like that.
She could only guide her, and could not be so decisive as to ask Qin Hong to leave quickly. Not only would this fail to achieve the desired effect, on the contrary, it would be counterproductive.
Qin Hong is very smart and will take her third sister-in-law's words to heart.
While chatting, the aunt and sister-in-law had already arrived at the mall.
Qin Hong is only twenty years old this year. She is pretty and has a good temperament. It is easy to pick clothes for a girl like her.
Shen Yiyi looked at several sets in a row, and the effects after putting them on were all exceptionally good.
So Shen Yiyi took all of them.
"Third sister-in-law, don't buy so many sets. I can't wear them all." Qin Hong said hurriedly.
"There are only four sets. They will all look great on you. Buy them and switch them up." Shen Yiyi asked the clerk to pack them up.
Qin Hong was very embarrassed.
When Shen Yiyi took her hand and walked out, she whispered, "Although Third Sister-in-law finally got all the money back from her parents' home, not a penny was lost, but Third Sister-in-law still feels sorry for your Third Brother. Please help me put in a few good words in front of your Third Brother."
Qin Hong burst out laughing, "Third sister-in-law, what are you talking about? Third brother doesn't know these, and we won't tell him."
"Then you should tell your third brother more about how kind and virtuous my third sister-in-law is, so that he will be more friendly to me when he comes back next time. Last time he came back, he didn't even smile at me. He was like a stern-faced Bao Gong, and I was so scared that I didn't dare to talk to him." Shen Yiyi started to blame others.
Qin Hong said hurriedly: "Don't be offended, Third Sister-in-law. Third Brother has that kind of temper, but he has you in his heart."
Shen Yiyi smiled and said, "Of course he has me in his heart, otherwise how dare he have someone else? Let's not talk about him anymore, let's go buy some shoes."
"No, I've already bought so many clothes."
"It's been three years since I came to your house. I brought you here this year to buy some clothes. I want to give you a chance to spend some money." Shen Yiyi said, "One pair, just buy one pair."
Qin Hong nodded, but she bought two pairs instead of one.
After carrying a lot of bags home, the aunt and sister-in-law didn't eat at home. They took Qin's mother out for a meal. After that, the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, aunt and sister-in-law went to see a movie together.
In the evening, we waited for Qin's father to get off work, and then we ate the pork belly and chicken that had been stewed for the whole afternoon. After the meal, we also had a big watermelon.
But happy moments are always short-lived.
The next day, Shen Yiyi and Qin's mother sent her to the station to take the bus.
"Little sister, come back next time you have a holiday. Study is important, but your health is equally important. Don't work too hard." Shen Yiyi said.
"Your third sister-in-law is right. You have to take good care of yourself. Everything else is secondary." Mother Qin said reluctantly.
"I know, Mom, Third Sister-in-law, you guys go back." Qin Hong nodded.
As the car started, Shen Yiyi came over to the car window and whispered, "Sister-in-law put some pocket money in the clothes in your suitcase, remember to take it."
Qin Hong was immediately helpless.
But there was nothing to say. After Shen Yiyi waved her hand, Qin Hong took a bus back to the provincial capital to continue her studies.
Mother Qin could hardly hide her depressed mood.
"Summer vacation will be here soon, and my little sister will be back soon." Shen Yiyi comforted.
"The children have grown up and are no longer around. They each have their own ideals and careers," said Qin's mother.
Shen Yiyi smiled and said, "I am still by your side."
Mother Qin glared at her and said, "You have to go with the third brother to join the army. I don't want you to accompany me."
"Mom, this hurts my heart so much. I don't want to leave you, but you don't want me?" Shen Yiyi looked heartbroken.
Mother Qin said angrily, "You know what I mean."
She just wanted the third son's wife to go to the camp with him and live a normal married life. What's the point of this now?
Living separately in different places doesn't look like a couple at all.
When Yi Yi gives her a big fat grandson, she will be really satisfied.
Shen Yiyi smiled and said, "Then we have to wait until Qin Lie gets promoted. Otherwise, I won't be able to go without the qualifications."
"I don't know how long the third brother will be on this mission." said Qin's mother.
Shen Yiyi understood the old man's thoughts, "As long as he is safe, nothing else matters."
"It's also important to hurry up and have a baby with you," Qin's mother emphasized.