She has no objection to whoever her mother-in-law wants to give the money to, but she will not give money to her parents-in-law unless it is a matter of life and death.
Her mother-in-law helps her take care of the children, so she will definitely not let them suffer any loss in terms of food, but if she is asked to give out money every month, she will definitely not give it.
No matter how much you take, it will all go to other people. When Zhong Lingshan wrote to say she was pregnant, her mother-in-law went to the supply and marketing cooperative to buy a bunch of nutrition bottles and some fabrics and sent them to her.
Su Yan wasn't sure whether they had sent money or a check, but she knew they had sent nutritional supplements. As for the daughter-in-law who was around her, she was definitely not as precious.
Although Su Yan is open-minded, she still feels uncomfortable being compared to others.
Hua Min is nice to Lu Shu because she is her only daughter. Hua Min cares about Zhong Lingshan because she wants to take care of her pregnant daughter-in-law on behalf of her son.
If the Air Force was not far away from them, and if her three children were not left alone, Su Yan would have suspected that Hua Min would have taken a car to go there in person.
Even though Su Yan knew that Zhong Lingshan was pregnant, she didn't send her anything. After all, Zhong Lingshan didn't buy her anything when she was pregnant.
Even though it was her first visit, she had never bought her son a piece of candy, so such a brother-in-law could only be treated as a stranger.
It is said that people will naturally develop feelings for each other as they interact with each other for a long time. Zhong Lingshan will never be able to live with them in this life, so they can just treat each other as ordinary relatives.
Lu Shu returned home and apologized to her husband, saying that she would never send her Xiaoyu away again.
When Old Lady Qin saw her daughter-in-law brought back one hundred yuan, fifty eggs, a chicken, a bag of milk powder, two dried hairtails and a bag of dried shrimps from her parents' home, she was so happy.
They persuaded her son not to divorce Lu Shu, and asked Xiaoyu and the others to help take care of the child and sleep in their bed at night. They also added another door panel to the room and propped it up with stools, and let the sisters Qin Shuang and Qin Xue live in their room as well.
The couple just needs to sleep with their son Qin Siming.
Lu Shu looked at the little girl in her arms and sighed, "Hey, little girl, why don't you reincarnate into my sister-in-law's belly? You've come to the wrong family. Although I am a daughter of the Lu family, I am not a son of the Lu family!"
"Mother, I forgive you this time. If you want to throw my daughter out again next time, you might as well go back to your parents' home and never come back."
Lu Shu looked at her husband, feeling miserable. She didn't want to throw the child away. She also wanted to give him a son, but having another child would only put more pressure on them.
"Siming's father, my mother said that my eldest brother has sent Yiming to first grade, so why don't we send Shuangshuang to school too! My mother gave me this hundred yuan just to make me treat Xiaoyu and the others better and to send Shuangshuang to school."
"Shuangshuang is older than Yiming. She should go to school instead of staying at home and fighting with her younger siblings all day."
"Fortunately, we only have one child going to school now. If we had four children going to school at the same time, it would be difficult for us to save money."
Not only do they have to raise four children, but they also have two elderly people at home to support. The combined salary of the two of them is not as high as her eldest brother's.
Lu Shu really envied her sister-in-law. Not only could she not save any money, but she either didn't have children or gave birth to three children at a time, two of whom were sons.
Her life is completely opposite to that of her elder sister-in-law. She wanted a son but gave birth to a daughter. Her elder sister-in-law wanted another daughter but gave birth to two sons.
Dad wants to leave the ancestral home to his eldest grandson Lu Yiming, and her eldest brother has his own courtyard house. It's really enviable!
Unexpectedly, this time because of the child's matter, her mother took the initiative to give her money. Next time if she goes home more often and complains more about her difficulties, will her mother still give her money?
Although her mother is retired and her salary is only 40% of her previous salary, her father is a full-time division commander and earns over 100 yuan a month. Her eldest brother, second brother, and third brother are all married, leaving her youngest brother as the only one who is still single.
Now the family's living expenses are all subsidized by her eldest brother, and her parents have saved a lot of money. It is normal for her to subsidize them a little as they are the only daughter in the family.
Lu Shu was not ashamed but proud of it. She used to think that children should support their parents, but her parents lived much better than the Qin family. Isn't it normal for parents to subsidize their daughter?
Lu Shu took everything for granted. Her mother gave her a hundred yuan for the birth of her child, her eldest brother gave her fifty, and her sister-in-law Chen Yuhe didn't take any money. She wouldn't give her any money when she has her own child either. As for her eldest sister-in-law, she had money and wouldn't care if she gave her a few yuan.
In the evening, Su Yan talked to Lu Ting about Lu Shu returning to her parents' home with her child. "Lu Ting, your sister brought Xiaoyu here today."
"I heard from Dad that she wants to divorce her brother-in-law, is that right?"
"Your sister is so cruel that she wants to send Xiaoyu away. Your brother-in-law has finally found the child. It would be better if he doesn't beat her." Su Yan was not afraid of offending Lu Ting, and bluntly said that Lu Shu was cruel.
Lu Ting seemed to have noticed that Su Yan disliked his sister. His wife had never had such a big opinion of his sister before. When did it start? It seemed that it started when his sister gave birth to a son and treated Xiaoxue badly.
"My sister is a confused person, don't bother with her."
"As long as she doesn't have any plans for my son, why should I bother with her? You gave them fifty yuan when you went to see her, but this time she didn't give her a dime when she came to see your son. When she left, your mother gave her a bunch of things and a hundred yuan."
"How do you know?"
"Just give it to your sister-in-law! I don't care. But isn't Zhong Lingshan pregnant? Your mother sent her a lot of nutritional supplements and probably money as well."
Lu Ting understood that his daughter-in-law was jealous and felt that her mother was nice to her daughter and other daughters-in-law, but not to her.
His wife is obviously very generous and treats both sides of his parents very well. Why would she care about the food, let alone the money? Who has a richer wife than others?
Lu Ting knew that what his wife wanted was an attitude, the care and concern of her family. Perhaps it was because they were so generous and used to giving that everyone thought they deserved it, not realizing that they also needed their family's care.
"Yan Yan, when Zhong Lingshan gives birth, my mother won't be able to take care of her, so I sent her some food!
Think about it, Mom is helping us take care of the kids day and night, she must love us more than them."
"I know your mother has worked hard to help us raise the children, so I'll give them some of the goodies I have. Everything your sister brought from home was prepared by us."
Su Yan didn't expect Lu Shu to be grateful, but she just hoped that she wouldn't become an ungrateful person and bite them back.
A few years ago, they were diligent, honest and hardworking people. Why do they become more confused as they have more children?
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