Chapter 438 Your choice is not wrong
Tao Sigu suddenly felt enlightened and immediately understood what Du Anrao meant.
His wife has been persuading him to move from the front stage to behind the scenes recently, thinking that this would not only solve his predicament but also allow him to put the experience he has accumulated over the years to good use.
But he was full of concerns and had not made up his mind.
Now it seems that he was too timid and could not see things as clearly as his wife, an outsider, and he held her back.
"I understand. Thank you Miss Du for your guidance. I am still working and have no way to express my gratitude to you. After the show, my wife and I will express our gratitude to you again."
With Liang Wanjuan and Tao Sigu as two ready-made examples, Chen Yefang, who was already eager to try, became even more excited. She stared at Du Anrao with eyes full of longing and uneasiness.
Duan Rao noticed her quickly, blinked, and spoke directly to the point: "Sister Chen, do you want to ask... about marriage?"
After Duan Rao said this, everyone present looked at Chen Yefang and... her seven-year-old daughter in surprise.
Chen Yefang's other half has always been a mysterious person, and no paparazzi has ever exposed his identity. But because of her daughter, everyone assumes that she has been married for a long time, but her husband may be a big boss or an ordinary person, which is why he has never appeared in public.
Now after hearing what Duanrao said, they became a little uncertain again. If they had really been married a long time ago, would there still be a need to calculate their fate?
"Your nose is slightly sunken, and the distance between your eyebrows is wider than that of an average person, which means you are a person with a strong sense of self-esteem but also a bit sentimental. Because of your strong sense of self-esteem, you often cannot stand being provoked, and you are prone to do things that you will regret for a moment because of your momentary impulse. Also, because of your sentimentality, you are easily deceived by a man's sweet words, and thus fall deeply into the lies woven by men."
Duan Rao paused for a moment and said sympathetically, "Your physique is more likely to attract scumbags. My advice to you is not to date anyone casually, and don't get married easily, otherwise... you will regret it."
Thousands of words can be summed up in one sentence: it is easy to be cheated when in love, and it is even easier to be left penniless and forced to live on the streets after marriage. The only way is to cut off love and stay single to stay safe.
Everyone: “…” How miserable!
After Duan Rao finished speaking, Chen Yefang froze. After a while, she gave up and slumped down. "Okay, I admit that you are right. I don't know why. I am so popular with scumbags. When we are in a relationship, we are forced to break up because of a series of reasons such as the other party changing their mind, cheating, cheating, backstabbing, etc."
"What about Qiuqiu's father?"
Tao Sigu blurted out the question, and only realized after he asked that it was a bit presumptuous.
Fortunately, Chen Yefang was not angry. She just glanced at her daughter. Du Hexuan and others understood immediately and asked the children who were almost full to play aside, and sent Chen Yefang's children away as well.
"He was a scumbag who played multiple women at once, had a human face but a beastly heart, and abandoned his wife after having sex with her! He only wanted to have a good time and didn't want to take responsibility. His mother was even more weird. She had feudal ideas in her head and thought that women couldn't escape after having children. She did all kinds of shady things. In the end, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I left the father and took the child away."
It can be seen that Chen Yefang was full of resentment and complaints towards her daughter's father, but for the sake of her child, she was relatively restrained. After cursing a few words, she closed her mouth again and said no more.
The live broadcast room at that time fell into chaos after Chen Yefang's self-exposure. Although she, like Tao Sigu, is considered an older generation outside the circle and is relatively out of date, her songs can still be regarded as the youth of a generation.
Hearing her say this, many people felt sorry for the adults and children, but there were also some people who took the opportunity to fish in troubled waters and said some dirty words, as if it was a very dishonest and heinous thing for a woman to be deceived and not marry obediently.
Duan Rao saw her resentment and sighed, "You did nothing wrong. The result of giving in for the sake of your child is that they squeezed all your value out of you, rubbed all your spiritual energy away, and finally kicked you out with your child, leaving you with nothing."
"You may have made a mistake, in that you didn't know the right person and gave your heart to the wrong person, but your choice at that time was not wrong. Leaving the scumbag early was to stop the loss in time. Otherwise, if you really entered their house, it would be difficult for you and your child to leave that quagmire."
Chen Yefang was slightly startled and her eyes suddenly turned red.
She revealed these things today in front of the camera and so many people, and she already had some self-loathing and self-abandonment in her.
Ever since the child was born, everyone around her has blamed her, blaming her for being too selfish and leaving the child without a father and a complete family.
Even her closest relatives regarded this as a huge scandal, and they spent all their time thinking about how to marry her off as soon as possible to silence those gossipers.
In the end, it was a stranger who she had only met once who told her that her choice was right, and that leaving decisively was a timely way to cut losses and was the best choice for her and her child.
A child can live without a father, but she absolutely cannot have a father like that.
"You came to me to predict your marriage today because your relatives and your parents introduced you to a blind date. After meeting him, you thought he was okay, but you were hurt by your previous relationship, so you couldn't make up your mind whether to be with him or not. But your parents were pushing you hard, so you were very distressed."
"Yes, that's right."
Because of the issue of being pregnant before marriage, Chen Yefang has been verbally abused and subjected to PUA by her parents over the years. This blind date was also the result of her parents' constant accusations and insults.
After meeting the blind date, Chen Yefang had given up on herself and thought that since her current situation was already like this, she might as well just find someone decent to live with.
But perhaps because she was concerned about her child, there was always a rope pulling at her in her brain, so that every time she wanted to sink into despair, she would be pulled back briefly by her reason and awakened briefly. This cycle repeated over and over again, causing her to constantly fall into negative emotions of entanglement and self-loathing, unable to extricate herself.
"You are right to be on guard. This person is not a good person. For the sake of you and your child, cut off contact with him as soon as possible. The longer you delay, the more disadvantageous it will be for you."
Chen Yefang's expression changed slightly, and she said in disbelief: "You mean, he is... a scumbag? But he... but he looks... and his reputation is..."
It wasn't that Chen Yefang had any unusual feelings for the blind date; she was simply surprised that the other person's true appearance was so different from what he appeared to be.
[What do you mean? Would a bad person carve the word "bad person" on his face to tell everyone that he is a bad person and everyone should stay away from him? And your blind date is probably not just a scumbag, but he might be a domestic violence murderer. ]
Du Hexuan: Wow!
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