"...But it seems like we're not discussing the same issue. Aren't you asking me to act out for an ancient soldier how to pursue someone and not get them?"
"Ji Nianqin, don't you think the two things are very similar? You can learn a lot from them. For example, before, your pet was disobedient and scattered garbage all over the house, but now, you can throw a piece of paper in front of it and it won't bite it. Only then will you start to feel sad and start to reflect on whether it is our fault."
"Yes, it's usually because you spoil it that it becomes unruly. It's because you indulge it too much that it takes it for granted. In fact, its nature is not bad, but it's because we don't know how to get along with it."
"Well, at this point, you'll start asking about its latest news, even asking if the adopter is tired of it, carefully testing whether it can be returned to you, and finding all kinds of reasons to go to the adopter's home to see how well it's doing. Isn't this scene exactly like in a relationship?"
"Cao Hanhui, I wonder if you've strayed from the topic? Have you ever researched a tool for reconciliation?"
"Acting comes from life, Ji Nianqin. You can teach ancient soldiers to look towards you, a transformed, perfect man, but you still reject them. I guess only then will the prince think you are worthy of cherishing. In your heart, you think the prince is the most important person."
"Then how can I convey effective information to them so that they can change? They were all extras before, and I'm really not sure they can act well. After all, I only have a vague understanding of the role now."
"Do you have paper? A good memory is not as good as a bad pen, so take a pen and paper and write it down. In fact, changing yourself is not to win someone back, but to become a better person. This is very important. It must be clear that once you win someone back with a purpose, it is not a change from the heart, and it will often make you become a pile of loose sand, which will be scattered immediately with the slightest breeze. Because you can pretend for a while, but you certainly can't pretend forever. To a certain extent, the other person doesn't like you, and to a certain extent, it is due to problems on both sides. All you can do is change and improve yourself to become a better person, more worthy of being loved.
"That's easy. The prince said I wasn't considerate enough and didn't pay enough attention to him. I just need to change and become gentle and considerate, cultivate my body and have a good temper. Isn't that all I need to do?"
"But you have to keep in mind that your goal is to appear warmer in your interactions with others, not to win someone back. For example, if someone says you can't control your emotions and are always losing your temper, then you can try to be calm and not be easily upset by others' joy or sadness, so as not to look like a child with a bad temper.
"Once I've truly changed from the inside out, could it be that the initiative to redeem myself is already in my own hands?"
"Of course it is. Clinging to something will only work temporarily, and it will only resolve the situation temporarily. But changing yourself is the true path to salvation."
"Cao Hanhui, I've benefited greatly from what you've said to me. Now, I don't seem to be afraid that the prince will leave me again. I have a strategy to win him back. I even think that the more breakups we have, the better a girl will become. Suddenly, I'm full of strength. I want to live for myself. I, Ji Nianqin, am back."
"You may have misunderstood what I said..."
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