"...are you afraid that love will turn into family affection? If Ji Nianqin and the Crown Prince never develop a close relationship, that would be truly terrifying. My understanding of the honeymoon period is the combination of novelty and restraint. After a year or two, the novelty is gone, and if the restraint persists, it means that the trust between Ji Nianqin and the Crown Prince is extremely fragile. This will make them cautious and exhausting in their interactions."
"That's right. This is what Ji Nianqin mistakenly believed was the sense of freshness. However, this kind of behavior will only wear down the other person's feelings again and again, making them increasingly powerless. Only couples with a trust as strong as that of close family members can speak freely and talk freely, even if someone tries to sow discord between them. "
"Strategist, you've made so many inventions, and many of them are related to love. Have you ever found one that you never get tired of?"
"Of course, for example, I met a couple who were colleagues, a typical office romance. They were also locals, spent time together at work, spent some time together after get off work, and basically spent most of the day together. In the first year, life was so happy, every day was Valentine's Day. In the second year, life was pretty good, and they could see each other whenever they wanted. In the third year, life was a bit boring, but it felt like we just met yesterday, so how could it have been three years? In the fourth year, life had to go on, and the parents were urging them to get married. It was not a good idea to keep dating without getting married. In the fifth year, life was unbearable, so they had to get married quickly. The relationship was almost over, and after getting married, they would be a couple and could live a simple life."
"And finally?"
"It's been a blink of an eye, and we've been married for seven years. Our child is five. Time flies. I suddenly remembered what we said to each other back then. I've been with you for over a decade without realizing it. Many people around them ask them about their experiences with love and marriage, and they just say one word: get married soon. For those of them who've been in a relationship for five years, it's no longer about love. They're just lazy and think marriage is too much trouble."
"That's not right, Advisor. If you've been in a relationship for a long time, holding each other's hands is like holding your left hand with your right hand, isn't it?"
"That's nonsense, Cao Hanhui. If you hold someone's hand for thousands of days, anyone would get tired of it. It's human nature. But if I asked you to chop off your left hand, could you bear it? Left hand holding right hand is the highest realm of love, do you understand? In fact, many couples who have passed the honeymoon period and are in long-term stable relationships have passed the initial passionate state of love. Gradually, there are fewer topics to talk about, and they will feel bored with each other and start to doubt each other. Is love like freshly cooked food, always hottest when it comes out of the pot, but will slowly cool down over time? It's a pity to throw it away after it's tasteless? Is it really true that the peak is the confession, and it will always go downhill after that?"
"Advisor, what you've said seems to have made me understand everything. I don't think that's the case. In a good relationship, there will definitely be periods of intense affection and dark periods when you want to beat the other person up. But generally speaking, feelings should fluctuate, not decline. Passion may fade, but love will never diminish. Advisor, we're all talking about the love between the Crown Prince and Ji Nianqin, but the true situation of their relationship is something only they themselves know. So, since we've learned so much theoretical knowledge, why don't we also have a romantic relationship?"
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