"...Okay, I just finished using the restroom, I'll go tell him right away. But Ji Nianqin, I also saw a news story about a girl who got pregnant before getting married. The reason was that she wanted to marry her boyfriend as soon as possible, but her boyfriend said, 'We'll get married once you're pregnant.' As a result, the girl did get pregnant, and her boyfriend said he'd marry her because of the pregnancy. He acted very sincere, but in the end, he used the child as leverage, saying, 'You're already pregnant with my child, so if you don't marry me, who else will want you?'"
"What's the result?"
"The man repeatedly asked the woman's family to give up the bride price before they agreed to get married. In the end, the woman resolutely had an abortion."
"Cao Hanhui, what you said is completely inconsistent with my current situation. Let's stop talking about it. After all, the child has already been born. I can't abort it. Otherwise, I don't want the monkey, no, the child."
"Ji Nianqin, I'm not trying to analyze this for you right now. From a psychological perspective, when a man says he wants to get pregnant before getting married, it's usually for three reasons. They're testing your limits. If you compromise one step today, it means you'll compromise ten steps tomorrow. If you get pregnant before marriage, your fate could be to marry without a husband, pay the price, quit your job, become a nanny, and serve their family. Because pushing for more is their usual tactic."
"No way, that sounds scary."
"Another reason is to get on the bus first and buy the ticket later. But there's also the risk of fare evasion. By getting the woman pregnant, they can gain control of the relationship. If you get pregnant, they'll call you shameless; if you have an abortion, they'll call you inhumane."
"I now feel that I am irreconcilable with the Crown Prince. The key is, Cao Hanhui, haven't you been watching me the whole time? Why did the Crown Prince have a child with me? Now you and I don't understand."
"Ji Nianqin, don't forget, it's possible that we are being manipulated by Miss Chai Dai's screenwriter. In other words, no matter what you do, someone will help you change. What you need to do is to try your best to collapse and leave no handle for others. Because the third reason I just mentioned is that after getting pregnant before marriage, men tend to objectify women. Women with children are worthless. If you don't live with me wholeheartedly in the future, you will have to endure any shortcomings of mine. Everything you have is mine."
"Are all men who get pregnant before marriage such scumbags? Are all women who get pregnant before marriage never happy?"
"Of course there are, because there's another type of man who is incredibly tolerant and compromising when it comes to unmarried women getting pregnant. Once they discover the pregnancy is unexpected, they'll definitely plan to keep the child. Their first thought is to propose. But the man worries the woman will misunderstand, thinking he's proposing just for the child, which would inevitably make him feel a little disappointed. So, he holds back and doesn't propose right away. Instead, he meticulously cooks for her every day, applies anti-stretch mark oil, and does everything meticulously. Meanwhile, he's secretly planning a perfect proposal."
"Actually, I saw on TV that there's a blue wall of love in France with "I love you" written on it in hundreds of languages. It's the most romantic place I can think of. But the woman is pregnant and can't fly to France. Can the man make a wall of love at home?"
"sure……"
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