"After fourteen years of living together, and the courtship before that, all the joy, excitement, and excitement of love have long been worn away. Are we heading straight into the mode of an old married couple? So, do all your little surprises after marriage seem like childish play to him?"
"Miss, I'm not criticizing you, it's written in the book that living together for ten years without getting married is worse than getting married for the second time. After all, you've been in a serious relationship and married before. Even if it didn't work out and you got divorced, it's still a normal change in marriage."
"Let me ask you a question. Are you sure he can still have children after living together for ten years? I don't have any bad intentions, but he must have had abortions, right? How many have he had? It's terrifying to think about it."
"We don't have children, and I haven't had a miscarriage. Is it because I've been waiting for him for 14 years, but he keeps dragging his feet and not getting married? I can't think about this in detail."
"Then you can either ask clearly, which might just open the wound, or stop asking and just talk about the present and ignore the past."
"What Cao Hanhui said makes sense. The book also says that for men, there may be two reasons why they want to be in a relationship forever. One is to avoid taking on too much pressure too early. The other is to have high expectations for their future life. This is the mentality of most men. Such men are still acceptable. After all, they are responsible."
"Similarly, some girls prefer a freer life, wanting more variety in their lives, and therefore are reluctant to get married. Many men, on the other hand, believe that they need a career and financial resources to have the energy to take care of a family. These concepts can affect the timing of marriage."
"Thank you. I think my boyfriend just can't forget the happiness we had in the past. After all, if we get married, things might not be the same as before. Now that I think about it, will I be bound by marriage?"
"Many women, when making their marriage demands, always say that the man must have a house and a car, as well as a betrothal gift. Many women get married after their wishes are met, but not all women get married after their wishes are met. Some just keep putting it off."
"And that kind of girl?"
"Of course, you have to be more independent, and of course you can't learn from bad girls and try to cheat for betrothal gifts and so on."
"If a woman doesn't have a boyfriend, it's understandable she's holding off on marriage. But if she already has a boyfriend who's arranged everything for her, why doesn't she marry? I'm curious: what are the woman and her family thinking? Isn't their daughter's marriage important? They're living together, and their reputation isn't good, so why isn't she in a hurry? Is she not passionate about anyone, or is she afraid of marriage? Is she afraid of the burden of marriage?"
"Right? In my opinion, these girls are probably better. They're worried that marriage will add a little burden to their beautiful lives, so they can't make a decision. But often, these independent-minded girls have boyfriends who love and respect them. And every time I talk about this, my boyfriend seems to have no solution."
"Miss, if you really want a boy to have this kind of thought and only want to marry you, then it means that your life is successful."
"It's not that exaggerated, Ji Nianqin. Success or failure is not determined by this."
"Cao Hanhui, why are you talking about me?"
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