"...Now let's address this girl's issue. From a traditional perspective, there's no way out. But think about it, the girl in the previous case had an unconventional attitude towards marriage. But how can one explain this? It should be uneventful. But considering the man's long-term love for his girlfriend, there doesn't seem to be any conflict between them. So, it can only be a matter of perspective. If we really want to understand what the woman is thinking, the easiest way is for everyone to sit down together and have a chat. Miss, do you understand?"
"You still want me to sit down and talk with my boyfriend, but he hardly communicates with me. Our two families have hardly ever sat down and talked together."
"Under these circumstances, if you both continue to drag things out, it will definitely remain the same. It's just like the case just now. If you can't do it, everything will be back to square one, even if there's nothing to talk about."
"What if he really wanted to marry me from the beginning? When we first started dating, we must have talked about it more than once, and each time it ended in a result. Anyway, I'll just assume he's afraid of marriage. Anyway, I'm also very conflicted now. I think I understand what you're saying. Everyone is different, so I can't make a general analysis."
"It's understandable to be afraid of the burden of marriage. However, whether marriage is truly too much of a burden should be considered realistically. You two have been together for 14 years, and you've certainly experienced times of burdens, but haven't you made it all the way? Sometimes, saying the burden is too heavy is just a self-deception."
"In short, the only way to achieve a happy ending right now is to sit down and talk things over, allowing your perspectives to collide and converge. Otherwise, if the two of you drag it out, and your families passively accept your decision to not get married, nothing will ever come of it."
Just then, the girl's boyfriend suddenly walked in.
"Because you lose your freedom after marriage. Men and women have different psychological approaches to cohabitation. Women who are willing to cohabit usually love the man deeply and are ready to be with him forever. As they live together for a long time, women will want to enter the palace of marriage. Men, on the other hand, may have a slight desire to get married when they first start living together, but most men will become less interested in marriage the longer they live together."
"Look at the picture I photoshopped for you. If it were in the past, wouldn't we be a perfect match?"
"Don't show it to me. I don't care about this kind of fake stuff. If you really want to take a picture with me, you can just call me. I was sleeping at home and noticed you were gone. Don't do this kind of thing again in the future. Do you hear me? It's very annoying."
"Hey! Why are you talking like that? You've been listening outside for so long, don't you know you're wrong?"
"Don't bother talking about my boyfriend. If he wants to take a picture, please help him get ready. I also need to put on my hairpin properly. Thank you for your help, ladies."
"I can give it to you, but not to this man. Look at his attitude."
"marry me."
The man knelt on one knee and took out a ring. "Actually, I've wanted to propose to you for a long time, but I accidentally saw your diary and you're afraid of marriage..."
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