Lu Guanshan doesn't want children.
He himself hoped to spend more time with Yu Li.
If you have a child, you have to put it in between. The time you spend alone at night chatting and loving each other has to be spent coaxing the child, changing diapers and feeding...
How can it be better to hold your wife in your arms and talk sweetly?
If only his job could be more stable and he could spend more time at home, he could help take care of the kids.
But now he has to go out on missions from time to time, and he can't bear to think of his wife staying up late at home to hold the child until her waist hurts.
Later, he learned about his own mother's affairs, and felt even more that giving birth was a life-threatening matter!
I secretly felt that it didn’t matter if I didn’t have children in this life.
On the other hand, he can take care of Yu Li for her whole life, and if he dies first in the future, the assets of the couple can be left to Yu Li's nephew on her mother's side in a will. The people in the Yu family are honest and kind-hearted, and the nephews and nieces will definitely not ignore Yu Li.
As long as you make more money, it's not a big problem not to have children.
So now that the thing was broken, he really didn't dare to continue.
But when I was in high spirits, there was only one raincoat left at home, and it was very difficult to force myself to get out.
Yu Li didn't expect Lu Guanshan to be so awesome.
How can you endure such a thing!
She grabbed his hand and took the initiative to hug him. The soft voice of a woman was beside her ear: "Well, that is coming soon, it should be safe..."
Lu Guanshan was defeated in an instant and took it off and threw it away.
Yu Li didn't expect that this sudden accident would bring unexpected gains.
Reason was instantly shattered, the blood immediately began to boil, and the heart in the chest began to beat wildly.
Physiologically, tears are streaming down my face...
At one o'clock in the morning, Lu Guanshan secretly changed the bed sheets and went to wash them.
Otherwise grandma will come into the room tomorrow to help them make their beds.
Yu Li felt so sore all over that she couldn't move, and she still felt embarrassed when she thought about it.
In order to avoid having children, Lu Guanshan took measures every time.
Suddenly, no action was taken and the feeling was completely different.
When Lu Guanshan finished dealing with the sheets and returned to the bed to hug her, Yu Li couldn't help but joked: "How about we not take any measures in the future when we are safe? Besides, that thing is not easy to buy. Every time you go to buy it, people look at you with a bad look, haha."
Lu Guanshan snorted lightly: "They have no ability, but they still have the nerve to laugh? Are the safe days you mentioned really safe? What if they are not safe?"
Yu Li analyzed the situation for him: "It's definitely not as safe as a raincoat, but there is still a certain probability. I think if we have a child, we will give birth to it."
On the contrary, if they get married, they will have children sooner or later.
Lu Guanshan hugged her seriously, looked at her fair and soft face and said, "How about we not have children? You know, it's very hard for women to have children. There will be a lot of discomfort during pregnancy, and giving birth is like the gates of hell. In fact, it doesn't matter if you two accompany each other without children."
Yu Li was a little surprised: "You really don't want a child?"
You have to know that this era is still very conservative. No matter how good a man is, he still has some ideas of favoring boys over girls, not to mention not wanting children. If you go out on a blind date and say you don't want children, the matchmaker will kick you out!
She was shocked for a moment, then suddenly an idea came to her mind: "You can't be infertile, right?"
Lu Guanshan: ...
He turned over and pressed her down, groaning: "Do you want to try again?"
Yu Li quickly begged for mercy: "No, no! I just think that having a child is good, and I want the child to look like you, so that I can see what the miniature version of you looks like? The miniature version of Lu Guanshan must be very cute too."
This really makes me excited.
But Lu Guanshan still held her in his arms, and said with a lingering fear: "I'm worried that something might happen to you. Compared to having a child, I care more about having you."
On the contrary, he really has no intention of having children for the time being.
In fact, Yu Li also understood. She touched his face and said, "Okay, if you don't want it, we won't have a baby. But I've told you in advance that there is a certain chance of pregnancy during the safe period. I agree that you don't wear a raincoat during the safe period. I have no objection to your choice. If you have a child by accident, you must give birth to it.
Pregnancy is indeed hard, but I think you will be a good father, and our child will be the cutest baby in the world."
Her words always made me feel tender. Lu Guanshan held her in his arms again, closed his eyes and sighed, "I can't care whether it's a child or not. I just know that I like you very much now. I like you to death."
The two of them talked in the quilt for a long time, which was so sweet that they were bubbling with sleep, until they fell asleep because they were too sleepy.
The next morning, Yu Li took time out to visit Captain Chen's home to visit Yang Ningruo.
Although Yang Ningruo came from the countryside, she looked very virtuous at first glance, with pretty eyes and eyebrows, and she looked pitiful and weak.
Su Qing was also pregnant. Early in the morning, Captain Chen cooked porridge and stewed eggs for Su Qing and her son, as well as Yang Ningruo.
But Yang Ningruo couldn't eat. Su Qing tried to persuade her for a long time, but Yang Ningruo just kept crying.
After Yu Li passed by, she felt sad and uncomfortable seeing Yang Ningruo like this.
For a woman like this, whose husband died while she was pregnant, her life would not be easy after she returned to her hometown.
A widow with a coveted pension and a delicate appearance would definitely be surrounded by trouble.
If we don't find a way out for her in time, she might indeed develop some extreme psychology and cause harm to those around her.
Although Yang Ningruo was very pitiful, it would not have much effect for her to just keep persuading her not to be sad.
The most important thing is to find a way to ensure her a smooth life in the future.
So, Yu Li sat down on the stool beside the bed gently and looked at her.
"Sister-in-law Yang, we are all very sad about Captain Lu's love. Captain Du's affairs are a hero. As a military wife, you are also a role model for us and a hero among us women.
You and your wife sacrificed your own interests in exchange for the lives of ordinary people. We all admire you very much. In the future, the families of us comrades-in-arms have the obligation to help take care of the child in your belly. "
Yang Ning looked up at Yu Li and cried, "Once Lao Du is gone, how will we live... How will we, an orphan and a widow, live..."
Yu Li quickly wiped her tears and said softly, "I have a suggestion for you to listen to. The housing in the family compound is tight. According to regulations, you cannot have a separate house in the family compound, but there is a vacancy in the logistics department of the division hospital.
Although you have to spend money to buy it, and the competition is fierce, it is completely fine for you to apply for it in your situation, and I can also go and speak for you. You can live in the dormitory of the division hospital. This is a military area, and no one dares to bully you. If you need any help at ordinary times, you can come over as we are close."
This is a very good plan for Yang Ningruo.
Su Qing's eyes lit up, and she said with the other sisters-in-law beside her: "Yes! Sister Yang can definitely apply for it. She will work at the Teachers' Hospital in the future, so it will be convenient for her to have a baby. When the baby is born, she can put it in a nursery. We have schools and other things here, so we can help if you need any help, and the salary is not low!"
By then, if Yang Ning has a child, she will slowly let go of her grief and can marry again if she finds a suitable man.
This couldn't be better!
Yang Ningruo's face really showed signs of looseness.
She was a country woman who had worked as a farmer before she came here. Captain Du's mother was not a particularly easy-to-get-along-with mother-in-law. If she didn't settle down, the Du family would definitely fight for it when they knew she had such a large sum of money.
But it’s different now that she stays in the military zone. Anyone who wants to bully her must first consider whether they can get in!
Yang Ningruo moved her lips: "Then I'll trouble Sister-in-law Lu..."
Seeing her nod, everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
Su Qing left some tea, snacks, fruits, etc. for her, and soon went to work at the pharmaceutical factory.
Yu Li also went to the pharmaceutical factory with him.
Because Yang Ningruo's mood had stabilized, the sisters-in-law gradually went back home to take care of their own things.
This is how life is. No matter how big the event is, you still have to live your life as usual.
As soon as everyone left, Yang Ningruo's emotions rebounded.
Until someone knocked on the door, she thought Su Qing had returned. She got up to open the door, but found a pretty unfamiliar face.
Xia Yuying looked into the yard with her belly bulging, and asked softly, "Captain Chen, aren't they going home?"
Yang Ningruo nodded: "Well, you?"
Xia Yuying immediately grabbed her hand and choked up, "Sister Yang, my beloved Wu Guohua went to join the rescue team with your Lao Du. I was very upset to hear about Lao Du's situation, so I came to see you! I'll tell you in detail what happened on the day of the rescue!"
Yang Ningruo's heart shuddered, and she immediately took Xia Yuying into the house.