It is not 놖's style to give up halfway, so 놖 had to restart the process.
Finally, with her screams and shouts, she finished with her first time.
놖Lying dejectedly beside her, he recalled Zhou Xintong's faint humming sound.
You are making a mistake, which is to make meaningless comparisons between different individuals and to rank them as superior or inferior.
Tang Xiaomei disagreed with 놖's view. She thought that comparison was not the problem. The problem was that 놖 had never truly loved her from the bottom of his heart and 놖 simply did not have the passion that he should have.
Zhang Fangfang asked in the dark: "Guan Hongjun, this isn't your first time, right?"
I replied angrily: "This isn't the first time for you."
Then, 놖 heard her sobbing intermittently.
She pinched him coldly and said angrily, "This must not be your first time. You are so skilled that you even know how to wipe your private parts with a towel."
I actually laughed. It turns out that women are not as stupid as many people say.
They parted on bad terms that night, and she didn't come back for a few days.
After the holiday, 놖 diligently poured water for her, served her food, and told her jokes, and she surrendered, and they reconciled as before.
But when she is unhappy, she will curse with a gloomy face: "Stinky man, dirty man, you bastard."
I regretted it deeply, realizing that hiding one's shortcomings is the wisdom of life. I really shouldn't have acted so calm and competent that night.
Two months later, she forced herself to see her mother.
Her mother and father were both ordinary workers, and they were clearly well prepared for her visit, having cooked a sumptuous meal.
Her mother liked to drink a little, so she reluctantly accompanied him to drink two cups.
Alcohol is something that can distort a person's true nature and make him or her easily abandon his or her principles and bottom line.
Her mother went around in circles, and finally set her mind on her marriage with Zhang Fangfang.
She made three requests: First, the parents of both parties should meet immediately to confirm the wedding date. Second, they should buy a house in the county town. It doesn't matter, just make do with the marriage first. We can change the conditions later. Third, the wedding gift should be 30,000 yuan, no room for negotiation, and giving less would be looked down upon by relatives and friends.
놖 grinned as he listened and laughed, patting his chest and said, "Mom, don't worry, these are nothing."
Her mother saw that she agreed immediately and was so sweet-mouthed that she couldn't stop smiling.
Zhang Fangfang also had a satisfied smile on her face.
Two days later, Zhang Fangfang excitedly ran to 놖 and asked 놖: "놖, how are the things that your mother arranged for you going?"
놖 was startled, touched his head and asked, "What's the matter?"
She immediately frowned and repeated the three things.
놖 said 놖 was drunk and didn't listen carefully at all, and he just agreed randomly.
This touched her counter-scalp, and in front of the workers in the workshop, they pulled her by the collar and went to the police station to report the case, accusing her of rape.
It was the teacher who mediated and pulled them both into the lounge, asking them and Zhang Fangfang to calm down. The conflict must be resolved today.
The situation was stronger than mine, so I had to give in and use all kinds of tricks to coax her.
After coaxing her to stop crying, she said that we are still young and she has only been in the factory for a year. It is a critical period for climbing the hill and overcoming the hurdles, so can we postpone the marriage?
She glared and cried, "It's all your fault. My period never came. I went to the clinic and found out I was pregnant. You want to postpone it, but can you afford it?"
I was stunned. It was just that one time with her, but she hit the bull's eye. I couldn't tell whether it was good luck or bad luck.
You can still defy the evil of heaven, but you cannot survive the evil of yourself. You can only bear the consequences yourself!
놖 asked for leave from the factory and took the bus back to the village.
I told my mother the whole story, leaving out the inconvenient parts.
Unexpectedly, my mother smiled from ear to ear and said with great satisfaction, "My son has finally started a family and a career."
놖 said that buying a house and giving a betrothal gift are both unaffordable.
꿵 said decisively: "Not much. The 그 family has raised a virgin girl for so many years, so buying a house and giving her a dowry are all reasonable. Even in our village, these are not the most. Not to mention this is the county seat."
놖 stared at 꿵父 with a look of unfamiliarity and couldn't help asking: "Dad, you're not drunk too, are you?"
My father clapped his hands and said with a smile: "Your father is not like you. He dares to say anything just because he drinks some horse urine."
놖 sighed. It was all because of 놖's unwillingness to fight that Lao 괖, who had worked hard all his life, had to sign this humiliating treaty.
As for where they would get the small amount of money, they probably didn't care at the time.
Tang Xiaomei said that 놖꿵's mother was the most simple farmer and the most reasonable mother. She also said that based on 놖's behavior at that time, if she ran into him, she would not even look at him once.
I quoted a famous saying of the Greek philosopher Heraclitus with mixed feelings: "You cannot step into the same river twice."
Tang Xiaomei said disdainfully that it was not philosophy, it was fallacy.
After getting her mother's solemn promise, she told Zhang Fangfang the good news after returning to the factory.
She spent the whole day happily, greeting everyone she saw with a smile, as if she was the happiest person in the world.
Half a month later, my father and mother came to the county and visited Zhang Fangfang's mother.
The parents of both parties agreed to hold the wedding of 놖 and Zhang Fangfang on Sunday, September 12, 1999.
Then my father took out more than ten bundles of banknotes from his shabby shoulder bag, totaling 60,000 yuan.
Seeing that there was still a ten-dollar bill, I knew that this must be the amount that had been collected by borrowing from here and there.
놖 couldn't help but feel sad.
Zhang Fangfang's mother was not very satisfied. She thought that after deducting the 30,000 yuan betrothal gift, the remaining 30,000 yuan could only buy a house of less than 40 square meters, which was too much.
This time it was Zhang Fangfang who came to the station and had a few arguments with her mother. The core content was that Guan Hongjun would definitely have news, and they would move to a better house when conditions were right in the future.
I don't know if she was really confident in me at that time, or if she was afraid that things would fall apart and she might not get married while still pregnant.
Anyway, I was very grateful to her at that time.
The talks ended in a not-so-friendly atmosphere, but achieved the expected results, and 놖 and Zhang Fangfang finally got married.