Chapter 413 Seven Years of Pure Love
Shen Nanzhi: "Who says that dating for seven years can't be pure love?"
She and Lu Yanzhou truly had pure love.
From the beginning, Lu Yanzhou respected her very much and said that he would not touch her unless they were married.
Every time I find a way to relieve myself.
Even when they slept in the same bed, the most intimate thing they did was Lu Yanzhou hugging her from behind.
But there is not much time like this.
After all, at that time, Lu Yanzhou had already put Ji Yunshu first in his heart.
When he received a call from Ji Yunshu in the middle of the night, he would rush over regardless of the storm outside, leaving her alone at home.
So, how could the relationship between her and Lu Yanzhou not be considered pure love?
[Pure love? Teacher Shen said that she and Lu Yanzhou are pure love? Is it true?]
Is it true that there are couples who have been together for seven years and still haven't had sex? This is completely beyond my comprehension. Many of my friends around me didn't have their virginity until they were 18 or 19 years old.
[So, it seems like Lu Yanzhou is pretty good?]
[Shen Nanzhi, swear that everything you said is true, otherwise you will never make any money in your life! ]
[It should be true, Shen Nanzhi never lies. Even now, there is still such pure love. If it was in school before, I could understand it, but now that we have graduated, why can she still hold back? ]
[Have you forgotten something? Could this be the reason why Lu Yanzhou cheated on Ji Yunshu? Because Shen Nanzhi wouldn't give it to him, and Lu Yanzhou wanted it so badly, that's why he went to find Ji Yunshu.]
If that's really what you said, then Ji Yunshu is really miserable. She's just a machine for relieving physical desires.
[Lu Yanzhou is even worse! He actually hurt two women at the same time!]
[No way, why are there still people trying to whitewash Ji Yunshu? Didn't you guys carefully read the previous posts? It was Ji Yunshu who took the initiative to seduce Lu Yanzhou. She's not innocent! She even approached Lu Yanzhou for a purpose.]
[I advise you not to whitewash Ji Yunshu. She is not a good person to begin with. There is no need to do so.]
[We're all girls, so what's wrong with girls helping girls? Are you really going to drive Ji Yunshu to death?]
[I think you are a genius at sophistry. What you meant was that good girls deserve help. Ji Yunshu is obviously eager to become a mistress, and she provokes Shen Nanzhi everywhere. A girl like this is not worthy of help at all!]
[Then Ji Yunshu was lucky, she actually got Lu Yanzhou's first time.]
[Even though I've been criticized, it's not a loss.]
[This is so shocking. Shen Nanzhi and Lu Yanzhou dated for seven years, and nothing really happened. Only novels dare to write this, right?]
【I am a boy, I don’t think I can do this. 】
[I'm a girl, and I don't think I can do this either. Seven years... I'm a carnivore!]
[No way, no way, you idiots really believed what Shen Nanzhi said? She must have said that because she was afraid that Mr. Fu would mind! Don’t I remember that men all have a virgin complex?]
[That's just some men. Anyway, I think everyone reaches a point in their relationship where they're deeply in love. Isn't it normal to not have had your virginity in your twenties? There's no need to make a big deal about it. If you really care, just find someone who has had their virginity and leave each other alone.]
[This guy is right, but that doesn't mean anything. After all, as long as they're not messing around, no one is wrong.]
[That's right, there's no need for Shen Nanzhi to lie. With her status and conditions, even if she breaks up with Mr. Fu, there are better candidates, so there is absolutely no reason to lie.]
"I have a strong opinion on this matter. Shen Nanzhi and I went to the same university, and in our four years together, we never saw her and Lu Yanzhou engage in any intimate behavior."
[It may not be the case on the surface, but what about behind the scenes? ]
[No, I've discovered this. I can't explain it to you guys. Making up dirty rumors about girls is quite rewarding, right? You're a bunch of rat shit! You're just wasting air.]
[Who says it isn't? I hate these stinky men the most.]
[Shen Nanzhi, you are a vegetarian. You can endure this for seven years. Then, you and Mr. Fu, have you not had sex yet? ]
[Hey, hey, that's a bit presumptuous of you to ask. What does someone's private life have to do with you? You're just a stranger, can you please be a little more sensible?]
Is anyone who's curious about this question seriously ill? What does it have to do with you whether it happened or not? It's better to be patient.
[Teacher Shen, please don't read those stupid comments. They make me sick.]
[It’s not the world that’s dirty, it’s the human heart.]
【……】
Shen Nanzhi was reading every barrage.
One eye and ten lines.
There is almost no missed barrage.
Instead of getting angry, she laughed. This abnormal behavior left many netizens confused.
Is Shen Nanzhi going crazy?
In fact, Shen Nanzhi treated all of this as a joke.
It died long ago, why are there still so many antiques?
She had discovered that once some people had determined something, no matter what you said, even if the evidence was right in front of your face, they would still have countless reasons to refute you.
It means firmly believing in what you believe.
It is a waste of time and life to talk at length to such people.
Shen Nanzhi said: "If I don't do it, is it illegal? Can't I be pure and abstain from desire?"
Shen Yao quietly gave Shen Nanzhi a thumbs up.
She is worthy of being Chen Yao’s biological sister!
Well said!
【It has to be Teacher Shen who dares to say that.】
"So, what law says that not doing something is illegal? Some people are really left-brained and right-brained. Did they have a baby that died in their womb and want to take the blame?"
[Sister, you are so vicious. Someone died in your belly... isn't that an abortion?]
I've had five boyfriends, but I haven't made it to the final stage yet. What's going on? Is there something wrong with me?
[Isn't this a basic practice from the past? In my parents' generation, holding hands was done secretly, for fear of being seen by others.]
[Indeed, it wasn't as open before as it is now. It's not that doing it before marriage is wrong, but you have to believe that everyone has different ideas, right?]
I'm a conservative person, and my parents taught me not to cross the line before marriage. If something goes wrong, I'll regret it for the rest of my life.
[My parents also said so, so it's not surprising that we didn't have sex before marriage.]
Some people are just mentally ill, spreading rumors blindly. Be careful, you'll get a lawyer's letter soon!
[I think they are just jealous of Shen Nanzhi. If they can't get her, they will destroy her. Anyway, they just want to throw in the towel!]
Whether you mind your partner's virginity or not is entirely up to you. Some may accept it, while others may not. Neither of you is wrong; it's just that the other person isn't right for you. It's such a simple truth, so why are you arguing?
The internet is full of bizarre things. I'm so pissed I can't even eat any melon seeds.
[Shen Nanzhi, please quickly block all those people. They are really an eyesore.]
[Support blacklisting, this kind of person deserves to be in the trash can! ]
The trash can is the final destination for these people. Don't think you can just gossip online. Nowadays, everyone uses real names to access the internet. If you want to check, you can definitely find out.
They were all silent, apparently afraid.
[A bunch of cowards yelling here, are you looking for a sense of existence online because your real life is not going well?]
[I guess people who live a good life generally don't have such a strong temper.]
[Shen Nanzhi's experience is so enviable. Regardless of whether she lived a good life in the Ji family, she certainly didn't suffer too much. Now she has a successful career and has become the daughter of a wealthy family. Anyone would be jealous, right?]
[I was jealous, but that was all. I never thought of doing anything bad.]
[This is a normal reaction. Those who talk nonsense are just idiots.]
【……】
Regarding this matter, Shen Nanzhi did not respond again.
The girl who was connected to the microphone must have made up her mind after listening to Chen Yao's suggestions and the opinions of netizens in the live broadcast room.
As for whether to separate or not, the choice is hers.
Chen Yao glanced at the time, "There's only one spot left for a live broadcast! After this one, we'll see you next year!"
Gift special effects continue to appear in the live broadcast room.
Soon, the last lucky person was chosen.
Another girl.
The girl asked: "Hello, I would like to ask a question, is it normal to live with my boyfriend and split the bill?"
After a pause, she added the background: "To avoid a long-distance relationship, I went to his city to work. I can now make 7,000 yuan a month, but in the past, the most I could make was only 4,000 yuan. We have been living together for about a month, and then he suddenly suggested opening a joint account, with each of us putting in a fixed amount of 1,500 yuan per month, which would cover all housing expenses."
"His salary should be over 10,000 yuan a month. I refused in my heart and felt a little uncomfortable, but in the end I still paid."
[We're splitting the rent, so do you each have a room? If so, that's fine. If not, why would you split the rent?]
[Sister, do you call that living together? That's clearly called sharing a house.]
[Come on, buddy, you're not willing to pay all the rent even if you earn 10,000 a month? That's worse than being a prostitute!]
In my opinion, living together shouldn't be splitting the bill, but rather you paying for the rent and I'll spend the money elsewhere. That's the correct approach.
[Why didn't your partner explain this to you before moving in together? Isn't that acting first and asking for your consent later? You've already moved to his city, so it's definitely not realistic to go back, right? You're already at a disadvantage, so why bother with the clear decision of splitting the bill?]
If my partner came to my city, I would definitely cover everything.
This guy's abacus beads are flying in your face, and you're still not leaving? You're helping him split the rent and sleeping with him. Normally, he'd ask you to pay half, not split it half.
"If I were this guy, it would be so cool. I'd have someone to sleep with, and someone to help me pay the rent. It would be so wonderful!"
"She's asking you to pay even 10,000? I only had 5,000 last year, and I paid for everything, and yet she ended up cheating on me."
[Sister, haven't you heard the saying? Feeling sorry for a man will bring you bad luck for the rest of your life.]
Your savings ratios are skewed. They should be based on a percentage of your salary. Otherwise, for someone with a high salary, 1,500 yuan isn't a big deal at all. But if you make 4,000 yuan a month, almost half of it goes into your savings. Perhaps this is what's making you uncomfortable.
You can move out and find a girl to share the rent with. The rent is the same, the housework can be shared equally, and you don't need to sleep with her. It's also safer. You don't have to worry about the man getting angry and hurting others during an argument, and you don't have to worry about getting kicked out in the future.
Your partner asked you to live together and asked you to pay money after such a short period of time. It's obvious that he wants you to help him share the rent. It's not that you can't do it, but I think he doesn't even want to pretend anymore.
[Sister, you might as well live alone. It's more comfortable and hassle-free.]
"If you're not comfortable with it yourself, why are you forcing it? He doesn't even spend his money on a relationship, let alone a marriage."
[Just move out. There's no need to live together. I know you don't have a job right now, but asking you to pay rent is pretty selfish.]
[If we don't break up, please don't let me see you again. It's bad luck.]
[I'm really impressed. She sleeps with him and pays for the rent, but if she doesn't feel comfortable, she breaks up and moves away! Are all the men dead?]
[You're living together and still splitting the bill. Your relationship is worse than mine and my friend's!]
[To put it bluntly, are all ABs used? ]
[Isn't this the freeloader guy they talk about online? Hey sister, you actually paid me! If it were me, I wouldn't give you a penny!]
[Are all those people speaking up women? What's wrong with splitting the rent? Men don't get hurt, right? Do men deserve to pay the most?]
[Yo, yo, yo, another guy who's lost his guard. What, did we hit a sore spot? You're so eager to rush out and bite me, it's hilarious.]
[Does it have rabies? If so, stay away so you don't have to get a rabies shot.]
[Sister, how could you allow him to treat you like this? Think about what you want from him by being with him. The internet has really shown me what a freeloader and a stingy man is.]
[It's AA, everyone gets a bed. Whoever crosses the line pays the rent.]
"Aren't you just trying to break their defense? They've already made their wishful thinking. Who has such great determination?"
[Sister, I'm curious, is he living with you simply because he likes you, or is he just looking for someone to share the rent and daily expenses with him?]
[No, I feel bad for you. It's better to live alone!]
[You can just quit a 7,000 job? You can just take a 4,000 job. Is that okay, sister? Even a love-brained person has to prioritize money!]
[It seems everyone is sober and what they say is correct. I can't find any point to refute.]
【Can someone tell me why I can’t find a girlfriend even though I’m out all the time? 】
[Can't find it at all? Do you want to check if there's something wrong with your modeling? ]
If there's a problem with the modeling, you need money to make up for it. This world is so cruel.
[To the guy above who can't find a girlfriend, why don't you go and ask the girl's boyfriend for advice? Ask him how he found one?]
[Sister, let me tell you something unpleasant. Once he gets tired of sleeping with you, you won't even get your money back, and you'll still be babysitting for free.]
[What a friend said earlier is right, even the prostitutes don't have to pay for their rooms, you are really miserable.]
[Where on earth did you find this kind of man? Why have I never met him before?]
Is it possible that the people around you are too high-quality? Birds of prey flock together, and people flock together.
【What a cunning poor man. 】
[Hurry up and run away overnight. Trust your feelings. If you feel something is wrong, then it must be wrong!]
[Break up quickly! Can this guy still have a girlfriend? ]
[Honestly, if a man has money but doesn't spend it on you, he probably doesn't like you! Don't listen to what others say about how materialistic and vain he is. If he doesn't love you, then he doesn't love you! Put yourself in his shoes and think about it. If you had a cute little kitten and you loved her very much, would you be willing to spend money on her?]
[Are you two planning to get married? If not, don't live together.]
[Cohabitation and house-sharing are different. Can you please clarify the difference? ]
If he's a good person, sit down and have a good talk with him. See how he reacts. If he realizes he's not doing the right thing and is trying to change, then he's still a good guy. On the other hand, if he accuses you of reading too much toxic clichés, break up with him immediately.
[Correct answer, let's talk about it first. What if he really is just insane and didn't think of this?]
If you pay half the rent, who does the housework? Who cooks? Is it half and half?
[Sister, you're probably not very old, so you think things are too simple. In fact, I prefer long-distance relationships to living together. After all, distance makes beauty.]
[No wonder you all have partners, it turns out they are this kind of partners.]
[No, what's the difference between this and a roommate?]
My boyfriend and I also live together, and my salary is 2,000 higher than his, but he has never asked me to split the rent, and he does all the housework.
[The above situation is the most normal one. Sister, open your eyes and take a good look! See what you are talking about!]
Why didn't you discuss these things before living together? Now he's blocked all your escape routes, and you're the passive party. Sigh! I'm going to tell my daughter from now on: never live with a guy before you're sure you want to get married.
"While this may seem out of place, it makes sense. You're already feeling uncomfortable, so why waste time on yourself? Why not just confront him and say no?"
[Aren’t you two familiar with each other? ]
[I'm a man, and I see your partner wants to get away with it. Even if you don't live with him, he still has to pay all the rent.]
[From my perspective, if someone starts to haggle over money, it means they no longer love you. Don't argue with me. You know whether it's true or not.]
[Indeed, when I was dating my boyfriend, I bought him everything at first, but now... even treating him to a takeout meal is too much for me.]
[Baby, he's plotting against you. Break up with him and talk to me!]
I don't understand why they would want to live together if both of them have stable jobs. Shouldn't they be working hard towards marriage?
[Not being in a relationship does have its advantages.]
[Chen Yao, what do you think? ]
After watching the comments of netizens, Chen Yao coughed, first looked at Chen Nanzhi, and then said: "I would like to state in advance that what I said is for reference only and may not be accurate! Please bear with me."
"Are you asking me if it's right for couples to live together and pay their own way?"
"My upbringing tells me that this is wrong. Living together before marriage is already very harmful to girls. Even if you haven't done anything, in the eyes of outsiders, you've done everything."
"If they don't end up getting married, the girl will definitely be gossiped about, but the guy won't be. Some people might even say he's capable."
"Besides, if you give up your career and move to his city, then he should pay all the rent. You should only be responsible for smaller expenses, such as groceries, water, electricity, etc."
[I can't believe you, little brother, understand so many things at such a young age.]
"My younger brother understands this, don't you? You said you've already started working, which means you're older than him. You should learn from him."
Although we all emphasize gender equality now, this society is very intolerant of women. Don't accuse me of creating a gender divide. Just look online and see if you can tell me what's going on.
[That's true, so girls should love themselves more. Only when you love yourself is it an eternal truth.]
[They're already plotting against you before we're even married. Sister, are you really not going to run away? It's better not to run away, so you don't end up on the market.]
My partner came to my place, and I bought him a cell phone! He also provided food, lodging, and drinks, and I also did the housework.
[I'm dying of laughter! My college boyfriend even asked me to split the bill when we checked into a hotel! It's so disgusting. He said he wanted me to pay a smaller portion and he'd pay the larger portion, but in reality, I didn't pay a cent. It pissed him off. We've broken up now. Anyone who wants to date a stingy man can date him, but I'm not into that!]
【It’s worse than Kokoda.】
[Sister, I asked my husband for you, and he said that when a man asks to go AA, then it's OK to split up. At least he doesn't want his girlfriend to spend her own money. If it's the girl who brings it up, then there's no problem.]
[Is cohabitation and splitting the bill so much now? 】
[Spending AA is normal, but your partner's salary is only 10,000, which seems a bit stingy.]
[People are so calculating in relationships these days. If you were to get married, wouldn't there be even more conflict? Break up. It's better for both of you.]
[Asking your girlfriend for rent, what does he think? He doesn't treat you like a human being.]
[To be frank, if you go out and find a good one, it'll cost four figures, but you can get it for free!]
[I wouldn't date a man like this even if he earns 30,000.]
[This is the first time I've met such a calculating man. I've learned a lot. I hope I never meet another one in my lifetime.]
[As I said, poor people shouldn't fall in love. Being fussy means you don't have money. Being fussy means you don't have money. In any case, it's all the fault of not having money.]
[Sister, I don't want to live with you, I just want to find someone to share the rent. Haha, you're so pitiful, and what's even worse is that you actually agreed.]
【AA is fine, but don't let him touch you. 】
[Don't be silly, sister. If your parents knew you were so cheap, they would be heartbroken.]
[This is hilarious! Sleeping with a woman for free? Do you still have this kind of activity? Look at me!]
[Sister, have you never suspected that you were deceived? ]
【……】
Between talking it over and breaking up, the girl decisively chose to break up.
The live broadcast ends.
Chen Yao was still not satisfied and even wanted to have another round.
As a result, he was ruthlessly rejected by Shen Nanzhi.
"There's a dinner party tomorrow, so be honest."
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