"What does Mediator Mi think of this old lady?"
After going out and walking back, Yun Heng asked Michelle Lin.
At the old lady's house, Yun Heng naturally did not question anything. He examined the old lady, asked her some questions, and listened to her chat for a while. Then the two of them got up and said goodbye.
Yun Heng knew very well that he was going there to understand the situation, not to argue or persuade.
In the case of Li Jiangmei's family, many problems have persisted for many years. It takes time for the ice to freeze three feet thick to form. Neither the old lady nor Li Jiangmei is easy to persuade. It is necessary to prescribe the right medicine and find the right method.
Otherwise, whether you say good things about the old lady in front of Li Jiangmei, or ask Li Jiangmei to be considerate of the old lady, or talk about Li Jiangmei in front of the old lady, it will cause the other party's disgust. Not only will people be disgusted, but it will also affect the implementation of subsequent plans.
Moreover, Yun Heng was not completely sure about the truthfulness of what the old lady had just said. Even if the pulse and symptoms did not match, Yun Heng did not dare to say that the old lady was lying.
In traditional Chinese medicine, situations where pulse and symptoms do not match or are contradictory do exist.
Yun Heng also knew that his level was not very high. Even though he had a simulation space and had been working in the West Asia community for almost twenty days, his clinical experience was not rich.
Since my level is not high and my experience is not deep, there is definitely a possibility of making mistakes, so I cannot definitely deny the old lady's opinion.
"I feel like Grandma Huang's words are half-truths and she's pretending to be pitiful."
When Michelle heard Yun Heng's question, she quickly answered.
Mi Shilin had actually just arrived at the subdistrict office, and today was only her third day at work. The mediator that Qi Yaping had mentioned was not Mi Shilin, but Sister Chen, or Chen Huihui, as Mi Shilin called her.
Qi Yaping called yesterday. Chen Huihui originally planned to come by herself, but after Michelle Lin found out about it, she volunteered.
Michelle comes from a wealthy family, or to be more precise, a very wealthy family. She is also a master's degree holder in psychology and has just started working, so she is eager to show herself.
Generally speaking, children from wealthy families are more likely to develop two extreme personalities. One is naturally spoiled, and the other is eager to show off.
I come from a well-off family, but I don't want people to say that I rely entirely on my family, so I'm eager to show off. Michelle is the second type.
Since her family is rich, Mi Shilin doesn't care about her salary. The mediator she works for in the street office is not actually a regular employee, but a contract worker with very low salary. Her monthly income is not even as high as that of nurses and doctors in the community hospital. In Xihua City, the monthly salary is only about two to three thousand yuan.
In fact, most married women are willing to do this kind of work. It is close to home, the work is not too tiring, and they are in the community all day. It is also good to earn some money to supplement the family expenses.
Michelle naturally doesn't care about income. She just wants to do some work at the grassroots level to show her family and friends that she is actually very capable.
It was precisely because of this situation that Michelle was questioned by Yun Heng. She was very angry and uncomfortable, but she did not go crazy. She didn't quite understand, but just felt uncomfortable being questioned by Yun Heng, so she wanted to show herself even more.
So just now at Li Jiangmei's mother-in-law's house, Mi Shilin was observing, listening, and analyzing very carefully. When Yun Heng asked her questions, she hurriedly expressed her opinion.
"Just now, when you asked some questions, Doctor Yun, Grandma Huang seemed to answer very naturally, but she still showed some abnormalities in some aspects. It's just that Grandma Huang often says some things to others, and after saying them for a long time, she even believes them."
"Anything else?"
Yun Heng also had this guess, and now he felt that this vase, uh, this beautiful mediator actually had some skills.
"Also, I think some of Grandma Huang's behavior and words are intentional to attract other people's attention. She wants others to care about her, so she does it on purpose."
Michelle Lin said.
"Tell me more about it."
Yun Heng felt that Michelle Lin's statement was more reliable.
"For example, Grandma Huang always likes to tell others about Li Jiangmei's bad things and her daughter-in-law's bad things. In fact, she is trying to make her daughter-in-law treat her better this way. At the same time, she can't hide her grievances and likes to vent them to others."
Yun Heng felt that there was some truth to this. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a conflict, both of them must have had some knots in their hearts and some resentments. Why did Li Jiangmei feel upset and her liver qi was stagnant? It was because Li Jiangmei kept everything in her heart and never told anyone. Over time, she became depressed. On the contrary, Grandma Huang couldn't hide her grievances, so she told others about them and vented them herself. As a result, she didn't have the same problem as Li Jiangmei.
Moreover, Grandma Huang said bad things about her daughter-in-law to others, and it is indeed possible that the situation that Michelle Lin mentioned is true. Everyone knows that you are not good, and if you care about your reputation, can you be nicer to me?
It's just that the old lady took things for granted and ended up making things worse.
Michelle continued, "Grandma Huang lives alone now, so she must be a little lonely. When her grandson was young, some things might not have been obvious. But now that he's grown up, he and his grandchildren must be on their side, gradually becoming distant from Grandma Huang. Grandma Huang feels even more lonely, so she often makes trouble, hoping to attract the attention of her son, daughter-in-law, grandson, and granddaughter."
Li Jiangmei has a son and a daughter. Her son Yunheng has met her and is in his early twenties. Her daughter is younger and is seventeen or eighteen years old this year. Children of this age must be sensible.
Before the child is ten years old or twelve or thirteen years old, he doesn’t understand many things and may even like his grandmother and always run to her house. Now that he has grown up, he knows things and feels sorry for his mother, so he naturally becomes estranged from his grandmother.
The second son is far away in Jiangwu, and his children are naturally also in Jiangwu. To Grandma Huang, her grandchildren are definitely closer to her than Li Jiangmei's sons and daughters. When people get old, they naturally want to be lively and hope that someone will remember them. Now that her grandchildren are far away from her, the old lady must be uncomfortable and may want to relieve it, but she can't save face, so she likes to make trouble from time to time to avoid being forgotten.
However, this commotion had a counter-effect, making Li Jiangmei even more disgusted. Li Jiangmei felt that she had moved out but still could not find peace, which made her even more uncomfortable.
"Doctor Yun, here are some of my opinions."
Micheline's analysis is quite detailed.
"Well, I think what Mediator Mi said makes some sense."
Yun Heng nodded. At this moment, he felt that he had been really careless before. This beautiful mediator might not understand the ins and outs of family life, but she was very good at reading people's minds. She was worthy of being a master of psychology.
As they were talking, the two of them had already arrived at the community hospital.
"Teacher Yun, Mediator Mi."
When Ren Xuedong saw Yun Heng and Mi Shilin coming back, he hurriedly stood up to greet them.
"Sit down."
Yun Heng greeted Mi Shilin and sat down himself. Then he asked, "So, Mediator Mi, do you think there is any good solution to this situation?"
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