Children do not grow up according to adults' expectations.

After all, every child's way and degree of mischief are different.

As for what kind of person a child will become in the future, it will be influenced to a large extent by his childhood education.

Fu Hansheng is the kind of person who can accept his child's mediocrity.

Children are independent individuals, not appendages of their parents.

So he cannot force his own ideas onto his children.

Lin Xiaotang also has the same idea. She can accept her child pursuing anything, but the prerequisite is that the child has normal values ​​and does not commit crimes.

"Do you remember when you learned Chinese medicine and acupuncture? What did our father do at that time?"

Fu Hansheng's words brought Lin Xiaotang into memories of the past.

At that time, Fu Hansheng arranged for a Chinese medicine teacher, and she learned the basic self-protection skills from the old gentleman.

After all, in the circle of wealthy families, some dirtiness is hidden under a glamorous appearance, and she and her cousin have been exposed to these means of self-protection since childhood.

But she really didn't like this one.

There are some things that she doesn't like, but Lin Xiaotang knows that her parents do it for her own good, so she will try her best to learn them. But there are some things that she really can't learn.

She tried hard for a long time, but only mastered the skills of acupuncture and acupuncture of the human body, nothing more.

Lin Jianmin saw that his daughter was reluctant, so he naturally ended the course and told Lin Xiaotang not to force herself.

Lin Xiaotang is lucky, she can use her childhood to heal her whole life.

Because she has parents who respect and care for her.

"As long as you are healthy and happy, Mommy and Daddy will be satisfied. Nothing is more important than the happiness of our baby daughter~"

Lin Xiaotang suddenly felt relieved.

When most people are pregnant, they hope that the baby will be born safely. Holding the wrinkled or pink baby in their arms, they just hope that she/he will not get sick, eat well, sleep well, and grow taller and bigger.

Before the child went to school, the parents and the child got along well.

Once they enter school and society, they will experience endless anxiety, comparison, and want their children to become better.

The four words "never forget your original intention" also apply to children's education.

Lin Xiaotang let out a breath of foul air.

She knows what to do!

She had to admit that Lin Siqi's education was a problem.

Lin Xiaotang wanted to cry, not because Lin Siqi gave her a headache and she was sad because she had no choice, but because she realized that she was absent in the three years when she should have been there to accompany him, to help him establish correct values, build good habits.

Feeling very guilty.

She brought two children into this world but failed to fulfill her responsibilities as a mother.

The first three years after the child was born should have been a time to cultivate an intimate relationship, but her focus was on her career, so now the child is not as close to her as Fu Hansheng.

If you discipline them, you will naturally lose your prestige.

The children will be afraid of her, but may not respect her.

Awe and admiration are two different concepts.

Lin Xiaotang wants to be good to her child and wants to correct Lin Sixian's idea that "money can solve everything", but it is not something that can be done overnight.

Lin Xiaotang can only put in more patience and energy to start over with her child and slowly fill the gap in mother-child affection over the past years.

A little difficult, but it must be done.

Lin Xiaotang rubbed her nose and looked at Fu Hansheng with tears in her eyes, "Husband, can you give me another week before going back to the Fu family?"

They had originally planned to return to the Fu family after this trip.

Now, Lin Xiaotang wants to teach her two children a lesson about the understanding of life.

Fu Hansheng was naturally obedient to Lin Xiaotang, "I'll do whatever you say."

As a couple, he will unconditionally support his partner's decision.

As a parent, he will unconditionally stand by his mother's educational direction.

As a man, he will stand on his woman's side unconditionally.

Sixian and Siqi noticed that Daddy and Mommy were unhappy and tried hard to reduce their presence. At this moment, they actually hoped that Daddy and Mommy would continue to show their love and not think about them.

Sixian was fine, after all, he always had the attitude of a mature young man. But Siqi felt like the sky was about to fall. While wiping the lipstick off the wall, she whispered to her brother whether it was illegal for parents to beat their children to death.

Sixian rolled his eyes at him and didn't want to pay any attention to him.

Siqi felt that he was in a very dangerous situation.

Lin Siqi was wiping tables in the hotel restaurant. He looked a little clumsy, but he did his job very seriously. He was "working to pay off his debts." This time, his parents did not clean up the mess for him directly, but let him bear the consequences himself.

It was the first time he touched a greasy plate, the first time he wiped the table with soup and rice spilled on it, and the first time he held a rag.

But he did his job very seriously and without any complaints.

It’s not that he realized his mistake, but that his mommy was too gentle, which made him feel more insecure.

This lasted for a week, and Lin Siqi finally made up for the hotel's losses by paying an hourly wage.

Lin Siqi persisted for another three days and told the hotel manager that she wanted to buy a lipstick as compensation to her mother. The hotel manager paid the bill immediately.

This was the first time he had hired child labor. Every day he was afraid that Mr. Han's young master would be harmed, and he couldn't wait to get rid of this great god.

Lin Sixian accompanied his brother to buy lipstick. On the way, he asked his brother earnestly, "You apologized to Mommy and the hotel staff, but Mommy still asked you to work. Are you angry?"

Lin Siqi scratched his head and shook his head, "I'm not angry."

He was just a little depressed. He didn't know why, but his mommy was unwilling to forgive him even though he had already apologized.

Lin Sixian only needed to take one look at his brother to know what he was thinking.

"Just because you apologize doesn't mean others will forgive you. A simple "I'm sorry" can't change the hurt that has already happened. The most important thing is how you make amends for it."

Siqi seemed to understand, they were all born of the same mother, so why did he sometimes feel like he was adopted? "Too profound."

Lin Sixian gave up preaching to his brother, "Anyway, no matter what we do, Mommy and Daddy will tolerate us, but if it's a bad thing, they will also be sad, so we have to learn to think from their perspective."

Lin Sixian is a child who is good at thinking and good at reading and summarizing. The study room at home is big enough with a large collection of books. In addition, he has been good at using reading technology since he was a child. His knowledge reserves can kill many adults in seconds.

As for Siqi, while his brother was enriching his brain with knowledge, he was eating and drinking.

So with the accumulation day after day, the gap naturally widened gradually.