Of course, he could act first and ask for permission later, and directly throw the sterilization certificate in front of Lin Xiaotang, but the family belongs to both of them, and life also belongs to both of them. If one person has the final say in all matters at home, then why should they be together? In Fu Hansheng's cognition, he makes the decisions on major matters at home, and his wife makes the decisions on minor matters, but the nature of major and minor matters at home is determined by Lin Xiaotang.
There may not be any big things happening in their family, just small things.
So of course Lin Xiaotang had to agree to such a minor operation regarding their future child.
He knew what Lin Xiaotang was struggling with.
"Tang Bao, I am living with you. Whether it is my son or my daughter, they will have their other half in the future. We can't accompany them for their whole lives, and they shouldn't stop their courageous steps for us. So, I want to determine our days first."
Fu Hansheng had a sterilization, which was good for both of them.
This prevented Lin Xiaotang from getting pregnant unexpectedly and also avoided some unnecessary trouble.
When the passion is strong, one can't help but want to do it at any time. At that time, the brain gets hot-headed and protection is not in place, and in the end, it is Lin Xiaotang who gets hurt.
And let Lin Xiaotang use contraception?
It’s not even within Fu Hansheng’s consideration!
Whether it is contraceptive pills or other medical means, the harm to women is far greater than the side effects of sterilization for men.
Lin Xiaotang asked with a bit of helplessness. Fu Hansheng had already brought it up many times. If she still didn't face up to this problem, then she would really be letting down Fu Hansheng's love.
"Ah Sheng, I'm afraid you'll regret it one day."
Even if the man can recover from this operation later, there is still a small probability that he will not be able to recover completely.
If one day, Fu Hansheng regretted it, or if they had any other arrangements, if there was any deviation, it would be unfair to Fu Hansheng.
Lin Xiaotang didn't insist that Fu Hansheng use this to prove his love for her.
Fu Hansheng touched her head, kissed her on the side of her face, and comforted her lovingly, "I will never regret loving you."
Fu Hansheng will never regret any decision he makes.
It’s not that all his decisions are right, but that he makes all his decisions correct.
Fu Hansheng had considered Lin Xiaotang's concerns.
But that is nothing compared to the risks Lin Xiaotang has to take.
He would not regret doing anything for Lin Xiaotang.
Lin Xiaotang was moved by his tenderness and could no longer say no.
If Fu Hansheng treats her well, she will enjoy it.
Do you still want to crush yourself with heavy psychological shackles? Love is mutual.
It was very hard for her to give birth to three children, and Fu Hansheng didn't want her to suffer anymore, so he took another risk.
This is how they get along as a couple.
It is also the best answer to love.
It is not a one-way contribution from one person, but a two-way effort from two people.
They can see each other's hard work, and they are sharing the burden and bearing more for each other.
They can accept each other's efforts and respond to each other's love.
That's enough.
When you should enjoy yourself, don't be pretentious.
Lin Xiaotang raised her head and smiled sweetly at Fu Hansheng, "That's great. We're in the hospital now anyway, so it's very convenient."
Lin Xiaotang agreed, and Fu Hansheng was very active. He helped Lin Xiaotang walk two laps, asked An Xiaodie and Lin Dengke to look after her, and went to the outpatient clinic to see the doctor and make an appointment for surgery tomorrow.
Lin Xiaotang felt like laughing at Fu Hansheng's speed. This man was like this most of the time. As long as it was something good for her, he would do it as quickly as possible.
Actually, there is really no need to rush.
She said it was more convenient at the hospital, and that just meant that she could consult first.
Lin Xiaotang didn’t know what the situation was like for other women who had just given birth, but she still had lochia on her body and was somewhat traumatized by giving birth. After all, she saw the doctor pull the baby out of her belly with her own eyes through the reflection of the operating light.
And there are still dozens of days of confinement to take care of, plus time to recover.
She felt that she would have to give up on having any contact with Fu Hansheng for about half a year.
Therefore, Fu Hansheng really doesn’t need to be so anxious.
Lin Xiaotang's heart skipped a beat. Or was it that he was so anxious to get a vasectomy because he was already holding it in?
During the pregnancy, Fu Hansheng really didn't do anything to him. Compared with the previous posture that made her unable to get out of bed, she really restrained herself a lot . No! It was like she had completely changed into a different person!
Lin Xiaotang originally wondered if he had become celibate because of her pregnancy, until she ran into Fu Hansheng taking cold showers several times, only then did she realize that this man had been restraining himself.
Fu Hansheng never showed any intention of convenience in front of her, and couldn't bear to give her any psychological burden.
In fact, if he needs it, she... Alas.
The more Lin Xiaotang thought about it, the more she felt that Fu Hansheng was ready to pounce on her at any time because he saw that she had just given birth. That was why he took such an efficient attitude and wanted to get a vasectomy so that she could do whatever she wanted after the confinement period.
Lin Xiaotang felt inexplicably a little irritated. It was true that she loved Fu Hansheng very much, and it was also true that she didn't want that.
For a long time after giving birth, a woman will be a little abstinent. After all, the sudden drop in hormones in the body, the needs of a newborn, and the recovery of her own body all take time to calm down.
But Lin Xiaotang didn't know how to tell Fu Hansheng.
He is now excited to get sterilized to prepare for the future. If she tells this, wouldn't it be a blow to Fu Hansheng's enthusiasm? Lin Xiaotang felt a little reluctant.
After all, Fu Hansheng had been very supportive during her pregnancy and had never made things difficult for her in that regard.
Lin Xiaotang didn't expect that she would have to face this problem the day after giving birth.
Seeing that Lin Xiaotang looked serious, An Xiaodie thought that she was worried about Fu Hansheng, so she gently explained to Lin Xiaotang that this minor operation would not have much effect on her body.
Lin Xiaotang didn’t know how to explain it, so she just assumed that she was worried.
Lin Xiaotang struggled for a long time but couldn't think of a satisfactory solution, but she figured out one thing: if there is any problem between two people, they should communicate and solve it in time, rather than relying on one person's imagination alone.
Although she and Fu Hansheng have a tacit understanding and can often guess each other's behavioral habits, this does not mean that they can truly think of the deeper meaning behind each other's decision.
When you encounter problems, share information in a timely manner, and if there is anything you can't figure out, you should also communicate in a timely manner.