Volume 1_Chapter 473: Children's Education Issues



The number of people visiting Lin Xiaotang increased.

They all understood each other tacitly and brought gifts to Sixian and Siqi: Congratulations to Sixian and Siqi for having a little brother.

This was Lin Xiaotang’s idea.

Simei is still young, you can say she is still a little fool, she doesn’t understand anything.

But Sixian and Siqi are already three-year-old children, and they will have many ideas based on the attitudes of adults.

Lin Xiaotang didn't want her children to think that mommy and daddy ignored them after they had a younger brother.

It is obvious that Sixian and Siqi also benefited from this approach.

They felt congratulated by others and received many gifts, but they couldn't help but leave the gifts for their younger brother.

Without anyone teaching them, they subconsciously took on the "responsibilities" of being older brothers.

In fact, Lin Xiaotang doesn't like such remarks as "the older ones should give way to the younger ones" and "the older brothers and sisters should take care of the younger brothers and sisters".

Brothers are friendly and respectful, and sisters are affectionate.

These are all mutual.

No one has ever said that brothers are friendly but the younger brother is domineering, while sisters are affectionate but the younger sister is arrogant.

No one should give to another person without principles.

Any kind of relationship should be mutual.

In Lin Xiaotang's opinion, it is understandable that the older brother would take action if the younger brother acted arrogantly.

The older child does not have to give in to the younger child just because of his or her status, unless it is voluntary and the other child deserves it.

Good things are mutual.

If parents are unfair, their children will be unhappy, so Lin Xiaotang always treats her children equally when it comes to their affairs.

People's hearts are biased, and everyone will have someone they like more.

But Lin Xiaotang will not show favoritism, nor will she let any of them suffer any injustice.

Whether in terms of material or emotional aspects, she and Fu Hansheng have always been fair.

Compared to Simei who only knows how to eat, drink, defecate and sleep, Lin Xiaotang chooses to take care of Sixian and Siqi's psychological emotions first.

Only when the younger brother respects the older brother will the older brother care for the younger brother.

When Lin Xiaotang thought about her and Lin Dengke's childhood interactions, she felt that the elders in her family were really wise.

If we make a mistake, we face the wall together.

If they fought, they would stand together and be slapped on the palms as punishment.

Therefore, even if they are cousins, they are no different from real siblings. The principle of rising together and falling together is engraved in their bones and blood.

This is the healthy development of a family.

When younger siblings make mistakes, older siblings should not be blamed.

The elders should not force older brothers and sisters to give their beloved things to their younger brothers and sisters.

Lin Xiaotang communicated her ideas with Fu Hansheng, and Fu Hansheng nodded. Of course, he fully agreed with Lin Xiaotang's educational methods.

Compared with Lin Xiaotang's education, Fu Hansheng's education is a bit strict.

He did not grow up in a healthy family since he was a child, and he did not enjoy the education of parental love. He can take care of children very carefully, but he is not very kind to them. Instead, he is somewhat strict.

At least, children from ordinary families would not be forced to do horse stance, practice fighting, or even be thrown onto an Atlantic cruise ship to drift when they are three years old.

While other children were still playing in the playground, his two little brats had already modified the aircraft carrier system of Country M.

Fu Hansheng understood the principle that a child who is too smart will die young, but he really couldn't be a gentle father.

A person's growth experience determines his character, and his character determines his style of doing things.

Lin Xiaotang would not force Fu Hansheng.

The responsibilities of a father and a mother are different. Otherwise, why do current education programs recommend that both parents take care of their children, rather than just one of them? Parents are their children's first teachers and play a very important role in their children's lives.

A gentle mother can teach her children to protect and respect girls, and make her children more careful and patient.

A serious father can also help his children learn to shoulder the responsibilities of a man and possess the qualities of strength and courage.

I just think that there are many families nowadays who are running around to make a living.

Mom can't always be gentle when facing household chores, and Dad can't be by her side.

Many of the students sponsored by Lin Xiaotang are from mountainous and poor areas. She does not hope that these children can escape from those environments through the sponsorship, but hopes that after they have enough abilities, they can change the fate of more people.

Leaving hometown cannot solve the problem. Only by building hometown can more people escape that fate.

Lin Xiaotang had no way to force others to do anything, but as long as one or two people out of a hundred were willing to do so, that would be enough.

Fu Hansheng and Lin Xiaotang talked a lot, and they reached an agreement on parenting issues.

In fact, most of the time, it was Lin Xiaotang who said it, and Fu Hansheng nodded in agreement.

He is a person who will unconditionally support all of Lin Xiaotang's decisions.

Lin Xiaotang looked at Fu Hansheng's doting eyes and felt that she was really lucky.

"Oops, I came at a bad time."

Mrs. Cheng stood at the door, smiling kindly.

Cheng Anqi was standing next to them, holding gifts in both hands.

"Auntie, why are you here? It's always a good time for you to come."

Lin Xiaotang smiled and welcomed the guest in. She looked at Mrs. Cheng whom she hadn't seen for a long time. She looked older and her hair had turned a lot greyer, but she was in good spirits and her eyes were as gentle as ever.

"Your uncle Cheng and I are leaving Mingzhu City, and I wanted to come see you before we leave."

They were able to get out so smoothly, thanks to Lin Xiaotang's generosity.

Although the Cheng family did not express their gratitude out loud, they all appreciated it in their hearts.

Even though they knew clearly that if Cheng Anqi had not changed her attitude, Lin Xiaotang would ignore anyone in the Cheng family.

A person's kindness should not be trampled upon or misunderstood.

The Cheng family are all sensible people.

Lin Xiaotang was surprised that they were leaving, ".I thought Uncle Cheng would escort An Qi."

Cheng Anqi can handle things on her own now, but if the old fox, Mr. Cheng, is around, the Cheng family will definitely move to a higher level.

Mrs. Cheng laughed and said, "When the child grows up, she will have to face the ups and downs. Her father and I cannot be with her forever."

They once wanted to protect their daughter in an ivory tower, but a daughter who was ignorant of the world was too easy to be hurt.

So they would rather let their daughter experience some setbacks to grow up than to pamper her as before.

They are Cheng Anqi's eternal support, but after this incident, they also understand that they will grow old, and there will be a day when they will leave, and they can't always be their daughter's support.

Fortunately, Cheng Anqi has now demonstrated her personal abilities and has lived up to the training of Mr. and Mrs. Cheng. She is now managing the Cheng family and the company very well. If they step down, they will also make way for their daughter.

It would not be good if both Mr. Cheng and his daughter held too much power, as the trust that other people in the company had just built up in Cheng Anqi would be shaken.

Mr. Cheng will always be in charge of Cheng Anqi, but he will not interfere in anything Cheng Anqi does in the company.

Unless it is absolutely necessary.

Lin Xiaotang smiled. Mr. Cheng was indeed an old fox. He did everything perfectly.


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