If she were really asked to give birth and raise the child by herself, she might not be so happy.
Jin Zichu is even less like that. All his likes and dislikes are just because of Xu Manman.
The young couple brought a bunch of radishes to Xu Jianguo's engagement banquet that day, and showed the three generations of the Xu family to all the guests in full view.
At the end of August, elementary school was about to start, and Haohao and Huihui were picked up by their grandfather, and they made an appointment for winter vacation. Pengpeng was sent back to Yangcheng by Jin Zichu himself.
The couple returned to their peaceful and harmonious world.
Well... not so quiet either.
As the wedding date approached, Xu Jianguo began to feel anxious because he and Chen Ming both worked in the laboratory and it was not convenient to talk about personal matters in the workplace. After get off work, his brother-in-law became the best candidate.
"Brother-in-law, I don't know what's wrong with me now. When I think about getting married, I can't sleep all night long."
Jin Zichu poured a glass of plum wine for his brother-in-law and asked calmly, "What are you anxious about?"
Xu Jianguo stared at the wine in his glass and said distressedly, "I don't know. I seem to be thinking about a lot, but it also seems like I'm not thinking about anything."
Jin Zichu suggested a possible factor, "Is it the relationship with Ruxia?"
Xu Jianguo shook his head and said, "No, no, I'm very sure that I like her. She is the first and only girl I have ever met and whom I want to be with for the rest of my life." His tone was firm and he was not lying.
"Are you worried about your married life?"
When it comes to this, Xu Jianguo is a little uncertain. "If I don't get married, I always feel like I'm still my sister's younger brother. My sister and brother-in-law will take care of everything. But if I get married, I'll become someone else's husband and the father of their children. I'm not sure if I can shoulder this responsibility."
Ok, the cause has been found.
Jin Zichu thought to himself that the siblings were indeed somewhat similar in this respect. His wife had also been somewhat anxious before marriage, whether she had remained single in her previous life or had decided not to have children in this one, all because of this issue. If it hadn't been so determined to seduce them, whether this marriage would have been successful would have been a question. (It understood.)
However, the brother-in-law's problem still needs to be solved. The success of his marriage is directly related to his wife's mood and their harmonious life.
"No one is born with responsibility. Let's not talk about me, let's talk about Brother Ming. What do you think of him now?"
"My cousin is a good man." He is a good husband and a good father. He has a happy marriage and a happy family. His parents-in-law are also very good to him.
"My eldest cousin didn't do these things well from the beginning. After my eldest cousin's wife got engaged, he went abroad for two years."
Xu Jianguo nodded, he naturally knew all this.
"Take me for example. I don't have parents, and before I met your sister, I had never come into contact with other people of the opposite sex. How I got along with your sister, and even how I got along with my parents, was all entirely up to me. Over the years, I've learned a lesson: the most important thing when getting along with others is sincerity.
You and Ruxia are about to start a family. Marriage is not just about the two of you coming together; it's also about the cooperation and adaptation between your two families. When you don't know how to proceed, speak frankly and communicate well. You can always find a solution."
Xu Jianguo frowned again, "But I am five years older than Ruxia. Those responsibilities should be shouldered by me."
"But we are all human beings. This is your first time getting married and starting a family. Ruxia may be younger than you, but she is also an independent person with her own needs and emotions."
Even if you are older, you cannot be a male chauvinist. This is not a good way to be responsible.
Xu Jianguo nodded, not quite understanding. After two hours, he drank a belly full of green plum wine and was given a lot of inspirational speeches by his brother-in-law. He was not sent back to his room until he got drunk.
When Jin Zichu returned to the room, Xu Manman was still leaning against the head of the bed, watching videos and waiting for it.
It walked over, picked up its wife, and returned to the space. Xu Manman put her arms around its neck and asked, "Did you finish your talk?"
"It's okay, but it's just a boy's pre-marriage anxiety."
After being put on the bed, Xu Manman rolled over and said, "I thought pre-marital anxiety was mostly experienced by girls. Tell me quickly, what is Xu Jianguo anxious about?" After rolling over, she was pulled into Xiao Jin's arms again.
After listening to Jin Zichu's words, Xu Manman's face was filled with indescribable expression.
"He's already so old, and he's still afraid of not being able to shoulder the responsibility. Have all these years been wasted? I think he's just been spoiled. Don't bother with him if he has any problems in the future."
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