A principle cannot be corrected without debate, and a matter cannot be understood without communication.
Sha Zhu was indeed lusting after Qin Huairu, and seeing that she had escaped the cage of the Jia family mother and son, he couldn't wait to fawn over her.
Everyone in the compound, except the children, knew about his little scheme.
Just then, Xu Damao publicly exposed Sha Zhu's lustful thoughts towards Qin Huairu, which enraged Sha Zhu, who rushed forward and started hitting him: "Xu Damao, I really wanted to help Sister Qin solve her accommodation problem, but you're talking nonsense, I'll beat you to death..."
"Ah, murder! Sha Zhu broke my manhood! Help!" Xu Damao seized the opportunity to frame him. No, it was Sha Zhu who broke his manhood, so he absolutely couldn't let Sha Zhu get away with it.
Sha Zhu was caught red-handed hitting someone by Qi Heng: "Stop! Hitting someone is against the law..."
The courtyard was in chaos, which Zheng Ya found quite amusing. Sha Zhu was hopeless; he was obsessed with Qin Huairu.
It's a pity that Qin Huairu made him a bloodsucking bull; what an idiot.
"Shasha!" Xu Qi pushed open the door and entered: "Honey, Mom and the baby are asleep, and you're just grinning like an idiot?"
Zheng Ya smiled and pulled her into his arms, saying, "Let me tell you something."
The silly Zhu in the compound is beyond saving.
The origins of Sha Zhu can be analyzed from three aspects.
First, Sha Zhu lacks love.
While Sha Zhu was being cared for and raised by his mother, he lived a life of luxury, getting whatever he wanted.
After all, when he was a child, his father, He Daqing, was a descendant of the Tan family cuisine. Whether he was a royal chef, a head chef in a restaurant, or a wedding chef, his income was considerable and he did not lack the expenses that Sha Zhu needed when he was young.
When his mother died shortly after giving birth to Yushui, and the war broke out, Shazhu was subjected to He Daqing's fists and sticks as punishment.
Because He Daqing lacked a female head of the household to help him take care of his daughter and educate Shazhu, and living in a time of war, he made a mess of his life.
Sha Zhu became He Daqing's tool for raising his daughter and washing her clothes, and also his punching bag.
This made Sha Zhu miss his mother and hate He Daqing, yet he had no choice but to endure He Daqing's abuse, which fostered his irritable temperament and caused his longing for his mother to grow infinitely.
Lacking love, he is easily swayed by others.
Because of the protection he received from Granny Long and Yi Zhonghai, he felt that someone was helping him and supporting him, which made him subconsciously find a sense of love. So Sha Zhu became Granny Long and Yi Zhonghai's henchman and became the war god of the courtyard.
If you're not happy, just fight. If things get out of hand, Grandma Long and Yi Zhonghai will clean up the mess for you, and nothing will happen to you.
This made him feel that there were still people in the world who loved him, helped him, and protected him like his mother did.
"Oh, so you're saying that Sha Zhu is really starved for love!" Xu Qi suddenly realized, no wonder Sha Zhu has violent tendencies.
That was probably all due to the influence of He Daqing, and the lack of love that distorted his thinking. He couldn't stand seeing others being loved by their mothers, so he would beat anyone he could find, becoming a violent maniac.
Zheng Ya agreed wholeheartedly, saying, "Secondly, a fool learns to cook."
No matter how clever or quick-witted a person is, if they learn to cook under the tutelage of someone they hate or dislike, they will definitely not learn well and will end up making a mess of it.
How can you learn to cook well if you're not focused and not paying attention to it?
But why did Sha Zhu learn such excellent cooking skills?
"I know, Sha Zhu must have been beaten into a culinary mastery by his father He Daqing with a stick, and he must hate He Daqing even more now, right?" Xu Qi understood; a child raised with a stick must become a filial son.
Similarly, the saying "spare the rod and spoil the child" has been a traditional way of teaching people. How can you teach your apprentices a skill without hitting or scolding them?
Zheng Ya continued, "Third, governing by self-indulgence."
Everyone has their own independent thinking logic, as well as their own thoughts and dreams, which they do not share with outsiders.
Sha Zhu was no exception. Without the care of his mother, he suffered beatings and scoldings from He Daqing, who wouldn't let him defend himself. This forced Sha Zhu to remain silent and passively endure the beatings and hardships.
But this kind of lifestyle is ridiculed, and it's normal for people in the courtyard to gossip about it.
But in the mouth of a petty person like Xu Damao, it becomes a weapon to ridicule Sha Zhu, constantly provoking Sha Zhu for amusement and revenge.
The reason is that Sha Zhu's family has good living conditions, while Xu Damao's family eats coarse food. It's normal for them to verbally abuse each other out of jealousy.
However, this situation gave Sha Zhu an outlet. He transferred all the beatings and scoldings he received from He Daqing for his lack of love onto people like Xu Damao, venting his resentment and feeling relieved.
In reality, it was Sha Zhu's extreme tendency to act arbitrarily that triggered this.
The combination of lack of love, physical abuse, and the need for outlets for one's emotions has shaped Sha Zhu into the person he is today. This violent maniac has turned Xu Damao into a mindless, rotten person, a living eunuch.
"A lack of love, being beaten, and venting can all contribute to a person's tendency toward extremism."
This illustrates the importance of education on family values.
Physical punishment and verbal abuse are unacceptable; instead, children should be educated through a system of family rules and rewards/punishments.
Finally, the child's expression of grievances is a characteristic of adult parents observing the child's habits and temperament, and guiding and educating them from the sidelines. Xu Qi's insightful comment was truly remarkable.
After Zheng Ya finished talking about Sha Zhu, he and Xu Qi entered a state of enlightenment.
In the courtyard, Qi Heng stopped Sha Zhu from beating Xu Damao. Xu Damao demanded that the police forensic doctor examine the injuries and severely punish Sha Zhu.
Even a fool like Sha Zhu eventually realized what was going on. No wonder Xu Damao had been picking fights and causing trouble again and again tonight; he was setting a trap for him!
Unfortunately, it was too late to realize this; everyone had already been defeated. What could be done?
Qin Huairu, coveting the house of Sha Zhu, pleaded on his behalf: "Xu Damao, you're a despicable person, spewing filth everywhere you go."
You slandered my Banggeng as Shazhu's son, indirectly tarnishing Shazhu's reputation. What are you up to?
Stop pretending. If you keep making a scene, I'll sue you for defamation...
"Qin Huairu, I misspoke and I apologize, but I really have been beaten to death by Sha Zhu. What's wrong with asking for a forensic examination?"
He said he wanted me to be childless and have no descendants. I, Xu Damao, can't even call the police to seek justice? Could it be that you really have something going on with Shazhu? Otherwise, why are you so desperately protecting Shazhu?" Xu Damao's words were reasonable and without any flaws.
Qin Huairu choked, and Sha Zhu was completely dumbfounded. They were doomed.
Wu Wei, disgusted by Xu Damao's shameless behavior, interjected, "Xu Damao, don't forget that certificate you signed..."
"Officer Wu, no matter what you say, it's useless. Sha Zhu has injured my manhood again. There was still hope before, but now there's no hope at all."
You idiot, I'm not done with you yet. Call the police and get your injuries checked?
"I refuse to believe no one will take care of this!" Xu Damao indeed received another kick to the groin from Sha Zhu.
Sha Zhu had developed a habit of beating Xu Damao, and when he kicked him indiscriminately, he caused trouble. He forced a smile that looked more like a grimace and said, "Xu Damao, are we done with this?"
If you're a real man, stand up! Don't be afraid of being laughed at to death for being a liar...
"You've turned me into a eunuch, I'm not a man anymore, but you're dead too, I said it!" Xu Damao lay on the ground, rolling around and roaring while clutching his genitals, letting out a heart-wrenching cry.
This forced Qi Heng to take action: "Comrade Sha Zhu, you hit someone first, and the person involved called the police later."
"As a police officer, I can't ignore this. Please come with me."
"No, don't arrest me, he's faking it..." Sha Zhu realized the danger and regretted it terribly. He kept giving Wu Wei meaningful glances, begging for help.
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