If you really want to help mom and dad, you can help us take care of the younger siblings, but the responsibility of taking care of them is entirely our responsibility as adults. It is not because you are a sister that they are your responsibility. No, you should never have this idea, whether now or in the future, including when you grow up, your younger siblings will never be your responsibility. The reason you are close to them is because you truly love them, not because you are a sister and force yourself to do something you don’t want to do.”
Li Xia said a lot of heartfelt words to Xiao Tangguo.
Because of the misfortunes in her childhood, she forced herself to become sensible. She knew that there was no happiness in such a life, and she did not want her daughter to be the same.
Little Candy bit her lip. She looked at Li Xia and nodded heavily, "Mom, Little Candy knows."
She twitched her nose and her voice sounded a little tearful.
How could little Candy not hope for what her mother had said to her?
Before Xiaobao and Xiaobei were born, she was the only baby of her parents.
But after having younger brothers and sisters, Little Tangguo subconsciously thought that she was already a big sister and should not compete for favors with her brothers and sisters. She should act like an older sister and help her parents share the burden of taking care of her younger brothers and sisters.
She admitted it.
She deliberately tried to be obedient and sensible in front of her mother.
That's because when she was in school, a classmate told her that if she had a younger brother, as an older sister, she could no longer act unreasonably or act like a spoiled child in front of her parents.
Otherwise mom and dad won’t like her.
Classmates also told Xiao Tangguo that adults all like little brothers, and many of them prefer boys. She is a girl, and her parents will definitely not like her.
Although when little Tangguo faced her classmates, she told them very confidently that her parents loved her the most.
Her mother told her personally that whether she had younger brothers and sisters or not, Little Candy was equally important in her parents’ hearts.
And even if they have younger brothers and sisters, their parents will not favor one over the other, and they will not only prefer boys over girls as my classmates say.
But when she was alone, she thought back to when her classmate said such certain words. Little Candy also had a little doubt in her heart. She also wondered if her parents liked her younger brother more?
After all, more than one classmate said this, and she also heard several other little girls in the class say the same thing. Their families have one thing in common: they all have little brothers in their families.
Occasionally when they play together, the children will talk about their past. One of the children said that before her younger brother was born, she had always been the one her parents loved the most. But after her younger brother was born, everything changed, and her younger brother became the most beloved person in the family.
Things that used to belong to them were given priority to their younger brother after he was born. Moreover, if the younger brother cried or fell down, the adults would be the first to blame the older sisters for not doing their job well.
Before his mother said this to him, little Tangguo didn't have a clear idea of how he was different from his classmates.
However, after her mother told her so many words in person today, she felt completely relieved in her heart. She knew that her parents were different from their parents, and she was also different from them.
Her parents treat her, her younger brother, and her younger sister with the same love. They don't differentiate between those who are more important or less important. They never say that Xiaobao deserves any preferential treatment or special treatment just because he is a younger brother. In their parents' hearts, everyone is the same.
"What's wrong, little candy? Did Xiaobao make trouble and make mommy unhappy?"
As soon as Shan Yilin brought Xiao Bei back home, he noticed that the atmosphere at home was different from when he was away.
Especially when Shan Yilin saw the slightly red eyes of Xiao Tangguo, he immediately turned his gaze to Xiaobao beside him.
In fact, Shan Yilin was not unaware of the changes in Xiaotangguo after Xiaobao and Xiaobei were born.
First of all, the position of little Candy in his heart is unquestionable.
Apart from his wife, his daughter Xiao Tangguo can be said to be his favorite child.
Not only was he not by her side when little Candy was born, missing her birth, but he was also missing her childhood growth.
really.
Shan Yilin feels guilty about all these.
But the most important reason is that Xiao Tangguo is her and Li Xia’s first child.
Shan Yilin wanted to say that Hou was not a sociable person, and he had never been the kind of person who could speak sweet words or say nice things.
Plus, Little Candy is a girl.
Even though he noticed the changes in his daughter, it was not easy for him to say anything directly to her in front of her.
After all, as a father, it is not easy for him to say such things.
However, although Shan Yilin doesn't talk much in front of the children, he definitely cares a lot about each of them.
He treats children very carefully and patiently, and is good at discovering the strengths and weaknesses of each of Xiaotanggo, Xiaobao and Xiaobei.
When Xiaobao received his father's scrutinizing gaze, he blinked his round eyes, frowned, and his eyebrows were wrinkled like caterpillars.
He curled his lips and said with his mouth open, "Dad, I didn't make any trouble, and I didn't make Mom or my sister angry. Don't accuse me as soon as you come in. I didn't do anything. I don't recognize it if you put the blame on me directly."
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