"There's nothing I can do about it. It's your problem that you always want to rely on me for everything. That's your child, not mine."
I can help you take care of things, but I can't support your family. Go find me a job quickly.
Jiang Zhu, let me tell you, from now on, you'll be paying for all the water, electricity, and gas bills for this house. Otherwise, you can expect to starve.
Jiang Zhu is someone who has been spoiled since childhood and thinks that whatever her parents do is their due. She doesn't want to move out and just wants to stay at home and rely on her parents.
If you're a girl, you really shouldn't marry this kind of person. Marrying him means you'll have to go live with his family.
If you live with him in his house, you have to accept all sorts of criticism from him.
They think you don't earn money and that you're sponging off your parents.
"Okay, Mom, don't worry. I'm trying my best to find it. Don't worry, I'll definitely do my best."
Mo Yan looked at Jiang Zhu, somewhat incredulous. "I've been telling you all this today, I've been completely honest with you. Let me put it this way, if you don't listen, then go out and live your own life."
Jiang Zhu: "..." So there's no love left.
"Hongli is still choosing to continue because she still has a little hope for you. If you let her not see you, you probably won't even know where she is in the future."
If a girl is truly disappointed in someone, she will leave decisively, severing all ties and never seeing him again.
"knew."
"By the way, I'll hire an emcee for your wedding."
Jiang Zhu: "???"
Mo Yan took Jiang Zhu to buy a lot of things and asked him to take them to Hong Li.
During the physical examination, Jiang Zhu did all the queuing and other tasks, while she and Hong Li just waited on the side.
“Hongli, you can’t spoil men. He’s the father of our child, and these are things he should do.”
Looking at the men resignedly queuing up, Hongli couldn't help but recall how she used to do everything alone—queuing, getting blood drawn, eating.
His only response is always, "I need to find a job."
She complained to her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law said...
"How could a grown man like him understand these things? Can't you go by yourself? Didn't your mother give you any hands or feet?"
Hongli looked at Moyan and then at her mother-in-law. So there really are good mothers-in-law?
"Mom, how could you bear to let Jiang Zhu go?"
The moment a player enters the game, they will know what the mission is. Aren't they afraid of failing the mission?
She met many people and made many choices, all of which were nothing more than getting married, having children, and trying to please others. But none of them were like her, who honestly expressed their selfishness, their thoughts, and even encouraged Jiang Zhu to join the queue.
"Do you know that Jiang Zhu might blame you for this?"
Although she knew it was for a mission, she was still somewhat moved at that moment.
In this place, she endlessly repeated everything, the same routine day after day, over and over again, until she gradually became numb…
It was like a program. At that time, she wanted to stop and take another option, but she found that the program still moved forward, and they still reached the next plot, getting married and having children.
So nothing will change at all, yet it seems like something has changed.
"Why is he blaming me? This is not his responsibility. Women can't do everything. I even made him experience labor pains the other day so he could really understand how difficult childbirth is."
"Once he forgets that feeling, I'll take him again."
Gao Hongli: "???" This is allowed?
“Children who grow up in a pampered environment will never realize what's wrong with them unless you point it out to them.”
This isn't a matter of whether he's sensible or not; in his mind, this isn't something he should be doing, and he feels he doesn't need to do anything.
"Why do you think men find raising children easy, while they find it very difficult?"
Mo Yan looked at the long line of people waiting in line and asked Hong Li.
"Why?" Because the man doesn't love you, so you don't care? "Because he doesn't love us?"
Mo Yan shook her head and told her another answer.
"Because he doesn't have to do anything,"
Gao Hongli: "???"
Gao Hongli was somewhat confused; why would it be this answer?
Do you have any doubts?
Gao Hongli nodded.
"Think about it, men only ever see children when they're cute and well-behaved. They can just hold the baby and the baby will smile at them. They never have to deal with a child crying or being unhappy, and they don't have to endure the same days and nights of illness as mothers. They've never experienced that feeling. They really think children are little angels and that there's no such thing as being tired."
Gao Hongli suddenly realized that at that time, she was taking care of the child alone and couldn't sleep at night. She was afraid to sleep because she was either wet or hungry. She never closed her eyes.
"On the contrary, they feel that they are working very hard. They feel that when they come home from get off work every day, they see their baby's happy smile and think that women are very relaxed. They think that taking care of children is easy. In the blink of an eye, the child grows up, in the blink of an eye, the child goes to school, so they think that taking care of children is an easy thing."
They haven't experienced it, so they can't imagine how panicked we are when our child is unwell, or what it's like to stay up night after night.
The reason why men think children are little angels is because they have never experienced the devilish side of children, nor have they seen children misbehave. In their eyes, children are always well-behaved and cute.
They naturally felt that their child had always been so sensible.
"So that's how it is."
"You should involve him from the very beginning, and have him go to every prenatal checkup."
In the end, he has to take care of the child himself. Don't feel sorry for him; feeling sorry for him is letting yourself down.
A truly responsible man won't see this as suffering; on the contrary, he'll enjoy it.
Similarly, since he lacks a sense of responsibility, let's beat him until he does.
Gao Hongli: "???"
Soon, Jiang Zhu arrived and took Gao Hongli for a checkup. By the time all the tests and blood draws were completed, it was already afternoon.
"Mom, my feet hurt so much!" Jiang Zhu finally understood what it meant for the soles of her feet to hurt.
"Okay, now that the check-up is done, where would you like to go next, to look at wedding dresses or pick out rings?"
Gao Hongli looked at Jiang Zhu and asked, "Is he rich?"
"No," Jiang Zhu replied quickly. "I'm sorry, Hongli, I don't have any money. I only realized now that you really had a hard life before."
"Have you ever heard the saying, 'Deep affection that comes late is worth less than grass'?"
Mo Yan chimed in from the side, "Don't say that, that grass is very useful."
Jiang Zhu: "..." Isn't he even as good as grass?
"I will..."
"Don't talk about the future, I've heard enough. Let's just buy a small ring, something that costs a little over a hundred. You can buy as much as you can afford. I hope that our marriage will involve some of your efforts, instead of just relying on your parents."
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