Every mother wants the best for her daughter. This family looks complicated. Marriage isn't just about two people liking each other and being able to spend their lives together.
"Mom, don't worry, I will take good care of myself. I'm marrying him, not his parents, and we won't be living together in the future."
Don't worry, I won't have much interaction with them.
Lin Bei listens to me a lot and will treat me well in the future. We've agreed to do things around the house together, save money together to buy a car, and work together to raise the child.
Thinking about the wonderful life ahead, Fang Wei's lips curled up slightly, and her eyes were full of smiles, as if she could already see what their future would be like.
Seeing her daughter like this, Fang's mother sighed, "Of course everything was perfect when you were dating. At that time, you only saw each other's best side."
We also place our best hopes on each other, but marriage is not the same as dating. Marriage depends on both families.
If you marry him, you will inevitably have to come into contact with his family, relatives and friends.
What will you do then?
You even resigned behind my back. How are you going to live now? What will you eat and use?
What good jobs can you find back in this small county town? You'll only make two or three thousand a month at most, but you two have a child. Then there's the child's food, drink, toileting, sleeping, diapers, formula—that's the biggest expense. You won't make less than five or six thousand a month!
Lin Bei is also quitting his job and coming back. Where are you going to find such high-paying jobs?
Fang Wei paused for a second. She hadn't thought that far ahead. "But I'm pregnant and giving birth, which is the most sensitive time for me. Of course, I hope he can be by my side during this time. We have some savings, and with his parents' help, it shouldn't be a problem, right?"
He said he could take care of the tea garden in his hometown.
"Mom, don't worry, we'll definitely make a good life for each other. Don't fret."
I probably don't need to worry anymore. My daughter is getting married soon, and it's such a complicated family situation.
"Silly girl, do you think life is so easy, that the two of you can..."
Fang's mother was genuinely worried; her daughter was too idealistic.
"Mom, how will you know if it will work if you don't try? I know that he may have many flaws in your eyes, but in my eyes he is the best."
We both have a child now, you can't expect me to give up this child, can you? I can't do that. Didn't you raise me and my brother all by yourself back then?
The same logic applies now; I can't bear to part with my child either.
Fang's mother wanted to say, "You're only the size of an embryo, about the size of a soybean. How can you be a baby?"
But seeing her daughter's expectant and happy expression, she couldn't say a word.
"Alright, since you insist on marrying this person, then you should make sure they go through all the procedures properly. You can't be wronged."
"Daughter, you can't be so considerate of others at times like this. Don't do that. They'll only look down on you, think you're offering yourself up, and they'll never care about you again."
Fearing her daughter wouldn't take this matter seriously, Fang's mother even used herself as a negative example to teach her daughter.
"Why did our grandmothers look down on me back then? Wasn't it because our family didn't ask for their bride price?"
Your grandma thought that things offered to you were worthless, and even your dad back then said sweet words that he would take good care of me and listen to me.
In the end, they just drank alcohol, played cards, and did everything.
He gets drunk outside, then comes home and starts beating us three kids.
Men's words are deceitful; you can't believe a word they say. You also need to take good care of yourself. The only person you can trust is yourself, understand?
Fang's mother talked until her lips were dry, all for her daughter's sake.
But her daughter still looked like she was sure she would be happy in the future, which really left Fang's mother speechless.
"Mom, don't worry, I understand. I'll definitely take good care of myself. Don't worry, okay?"
Fang Wei didn't take her mother's words to heart, thinking that her father was a scumbag.
Lin Bei is different from his father.
"I know you won't listen to anything I say right now, and you think I'm just trying to stop your relationship, but I hope you can really think about it seriously."
Regardless of the circumstances, you should make them pay the bride price. It's a sign of respect and a matter of principle.
I need to see their attitude, right?
500,000 was indeed something I said in anger at the time; 120,000 was my bottom line.
Don't worry, Mom will give you all this money and prepare a dowry for you. Mom isn't the kind of person who sells her daughter.
"Mom does all this for your own good, for the sake of your little family."
Fang Wei's eyes turned red.
I don't have much time to talk to my mother every time I come back.
Sometimes I feel that my mother is very talkative when she calls, always saying things that she doesn't want to understand.
But now, when I look up casually, I realize that my mother has a lot of gray hair.
It seems like Mom aged in an instant without her even realizing it.
"Mom, I know, I know you're doing this for my own good."
It was all my fault before. I was too willful and always made you angry. I won't do that anymore. You need to take good care of yourself at home.
I'm married not far away, so I can come back whenever I want.
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