Both of them were experiencing life for the first time. The original owner was treated very badly by her parents when she was young because they favored boys over girls. She could only watch longingly as her younger brother had everything.
So when she had her child, she told herself that she must give her child the whole world.
That's true; in the end, it turned into a giant baby.
Zhu Yangshu, on the other hand, was used to being pampered and protected, and could get everything just by saying a few nice words.
It takes two to tango.
No mother wants to see her son become a piece of char siu (barbecued pork), and even if he were, she wouldn't really give up on him.
This is why Mo Yan never really cared about his wishes; everyone was experiencing life for the first time and had no experience.
But she did have some experience in getting him to obey her.
"Okay, Auntie, you can go back by yourself. Don't let them come over." What if they're all just here to freeload?
"Aren't you going back? You should at least go back and stay for a few days, shouldn't you?" Mo Yan said with a smile.
Even if you guys want to go, I'm not willing.
"Oh, by the way, the nannies here are paid too much. Why don't we find one from our hometown?"
Hearing this, Julie became even more unwilling. Who knew if it was hygienic? "No need, no need, we don't need to hire a nanny."
"I used to use my card to pay the mortgage, but I switched it to Zhu Yangshu's card a few days ago. Don't worry, Zhu Yangshu will pay it herself from now on."
Julie: "..." No way, that's so ruthless.
"But we don't have enough money."
"If you don't have enough money, then you need to make a plan. As for how to plan, that's your business. I can help you here, but only for a few weeks. If I stay here all the time, you won't be happy, and neither will I, right?"
This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is such that they shouldn't live together; distance makes the heart grow fonder.
Putting everything else aside, let's just talk about Zhu Yangshu's problem. A mother can't stand seeing her son constantly being scolded and bullied, right? Does that mean she'll think her daughter-in-law is bad?
When a mother wants to do everything for her son, does the daughter-in-law think it's meddling? Besides, she might want some time alone with her husband.
Daughters-in-law hope their mothers-in-law will treat them like their own daughters, but that's impossible.
Just like you would never treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, it's because the two of you have too high expectations of each other.
She hopes her mother-in-law will treat her like her own daughter.
One hopes his daughter-in-law will treat his son like her own son and pamper him.
This is where the contradiction arises.
As for Mo Yan.
I'm sorry, I don't have the habit of being someone's free babysitter.
"Not necessarily, we certainly won't mind if you don't like us." That was all Julie could say. Of course, she was unwilling; how could she possibly compromise if the mother wasn't her own?
"But I'm afraid I'll look down on you. I'll look down on you for being lazy, for not doing any work. I'll look down on you for spending money recklessly, and then we'll argue and start complaining about each other."
Mo Yan looked at them seriously and spoke.
Julie: "..." Is it really necessary to be so realistic?
"Then... I'll have my mom come?" Julie thought for a moment before speaking.
"If you want to trouble your mother, then you need to ask her clearly whether she is willing and whether she has time. You need to understand one thing: although she is your mother, she has no obligation to take care of you."
You're both in your forties and fifties; it should be your turn to take care of your mother.
Mo Yan was telling the truth when she said that.
No one can take care of you for a lifetime. In fact, many people realize how hard their parents work once they become adults. They just spoil them.
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