Su Man looked down at Dong Zimei who was squatting on the ground cleaning up, and her eyes narrowed.
After a while, Dong Zimei put the things on the table back to their respective places.
Not only the positions of those things, but even the order of the remote controls inserted in the storage box are exactly the same.
Only after the cup was put back in its place did Dong Zimei's emotions calm down.
"Do you have obsessive-compulsive disorder?"
Dong Zimei's hand froze, and she bit her lip. "Officer, did you do this on purpose?"
Su Man did not deny it, "Does Jiang Wenbo know?"
Dong Zimei nodded silently.
Su Man smiled. "Let me guess. Are you saying that the trauma from your last marriage is what caused you to be like this?"
Dong Zimei didn't say anything. She stood up from the ground with the help of the coffee table.
"Officer, I don't understand you."
Su Man sneered, "Dong Zimei, you've been acting for so many years, you should have had enough."
Dong Zimei wanted to explain, but Su Man interrupted her directly, "You told me before that Shu Jianming is very possessive. He would even get furious if you said a few more words to your coworkers."
"But you didn't tell me why Shu Jianming became like this."
Dong Zimei looked at Su Man with her misty eyes. "Officer, you heard what Shu Jianming said, right? He has misunderstood me for so many years. If he gets the chance, he will definitely do everything he can to discredit me. You can't just listen to his one-sided words."
"I won't take his side of the story."
Su Man interrupted her, "So, I asked around."
Dong Zimei's hand was wrapped in gauze, and her fingers were curled up, but her expression was extremely calm.
"What I said is true. Ask any of my coworkers and they can all prove Shu Jianming's control over me."
Su Man had guessed she would say this. She smiled slightly and said, "Yes, in front of everyone, you are a pitiful victim. Facing Shu Jianming's control and hysteria, you are so innocent. No matter what you do, you will be sympathized by others."
Dong Zimei did not answer. She knew that Su Man was going to say more than just that.
Su Man looked at her with a smile, "Have you heard of a psychological effect called reactive abuse?"
"I'm sorry, officer. My English is not good. I don't know what you mean."
Dong Zimei frowned slightly, looking a little confused.
Suman explained slowly, "Translated, it's called reactive abuse."
It refers to the abuser destroying the victim's mental and psychological health, causing the victim to fall into self-doubt and self-denial, and eventually lose control of his emotions or even go crazy.
The abuser takes the opportunity to act like a victim and in turn controls the victim's mind.
In other words, reactive abuse occurs when a victim, after repeated attempts to resolve the situation in an abusive relationship, becomes overwhelmed and overwhelmed with emotions, resulting in behaviors that appear to be abusive to the other person.
Su Man said calmly, "As far as I know, when Shu Jianming first married you, he didn't show what you call a controlling nature. On the contrary, according to Shu Jianming's friends, he is a warm and helpful man."
"After marrying you, his personality became increasingly irritable and even his friends gradually distanced themselves from him."
Su Man said in a playful tone, "Do you have anything to say about this?"
Dong Zimei paused, her autumn-water eyes misted over, "Officer, do you mean it's because of me?"
She looked gloomy. "His friends have said the same thing. They say it's because I'm so attractive that Shu Jianming has become a different person. But that's not something I can decide."
"Officer Zeng, you're a woman too. Aren't women subjected to enough malice and discrimination in this world? As a woman yourself, are you blaming me too?"
Hearing this, Su Man smiled after a brief thought.
This Dong Zimei is really something.
If she hadn't been prepared, she would have been led into a trap.
It seems that she is very good at shifting problems onto others, just like she did to Shu Jianming.
Through Shu Yunan's incident, Su Man has discovered that Shu Jianming's desire for control is not groundless.
Every action he takes has a reason.
For example, after Shu Yunan was followed by a gangster, he began to strictly monitor Shu Yunan's going to and from school.
After hearing that Shu Yunan had a premature love affair at school, he frequently called the class teacher to monitor his daughter's movements in real time.
Of course, his behavior was a bit extreme, but it was not without reason.
From this, it can be inferred that Dong Zimei may have hinted at something in daily life, making Shu Jianming feel that she had cheated.
But he couldn't get any evidence and could only question Dong Zimei again and again.
It's okay for one or two days, but after ten or eight days people will become impulsive, not to mention spending several years in such a situation.
For example, a wife often smells the same perfume on her husband's clothes.
Then, I saw long hair on his clothes that didn't belong to him.
Gradually, your husband starts to lose contact. It doesn't last long, but it's enough to make you suspicious.
But no matter how you investigate, there is no evidence.
Until one day, you see a strange woman talking and laughing with her husband on the street.
You rushed over and asked him if he was cheating on you.
It turned out that the person was not the object of his affair, but was actually his client.
And because of you, my husband's client was ruined.
When everyone is blaming you, your husband stands up and speaks for you.
It's all his fault for not making you feel safe enough.
You are even crazier. You have found so many clues and it is obvious that there is something wrong with him.
But when you lose control of your emotions and try to explain to everyone, everyone looks at you strangely, thinking you are a crazy person with a strong desire for control.
Not just lovers, but also friends and even family.
There are many such people who know exactly how to irritate you with the smallest of things.
When you go crazy, they pretend to be victims and let you beat and scold them.
Slowly, you become an irritable madman. No one can understand you. You are like a wild beast trapped on an isolated island, roaring at the executioner on the shore.
Just like what Dong Zimei did to Shu Jianming.
The most terrifying thing is that even Shu Jianming himself did not realize the control Dong Zimei had over him.
All his focus was on Dong Zimei's infidelity, and he didn't realize that he had become a different person under Dong Zimei's influence day after day.
...
As Su Man's analysis deepened, the smile on Dong Zimei's face faded.
She lowered her eyes and said, "Officer, you have such a good imagination, it would be a shame if you didn't write a novel."
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