"Jin'er, your father is doing this for your own good. After all, your relationship with that concubine is not a long-term solution. You must marry a wife. If you really like that concubine, you can hide her for the time being. After you marry a wife, you can take her in as a concubine or a concubine. It's up to you."
Chu Jinzhi didn't say anything, just opened the door and walked out.
He knew that this was one of the few appropriate words his father had said.
He knew in his heart that this relationship with Liu'er was not a long-term solution, but he felt uncomfortable whenever he thought about having contact with other women.
In addition, Liu'er probably doesn't have a place for herself in her heart now. If I really marry someone else, she will probably separate from him like those storybooks.
Thinking of this, he felt as if his heart was being pricked by needles.
He also thought about marrying Liu'er as his principal wife, but Shengjing was originally dominated by aristocratic families, and the women of the major families were even more xenophobic. What the principal wife had to do was not only to manage the household, but also to be another form of officialdom.
He was afraid that Liu'er, with her weak personality, would not be able to cope and would be laughed at and bullied.
Of course, we cannot rule out the possibility that his self-esteem was at work. Marrying a country girl as his wife would surely be a laughing stock.
No matter whether she is a concubine or a concubine, as long as she is pampered by me, no one will hurt her and she can be more comfortable.
Moreover, those so-called household affairs are far from as simple and easy as imagined.
Not only does one need to manage the family's huge assets and vast land, as well as all kinds of people, big and small, in the mansion, but one also has to deal with and maintain all kinds of complicated relationships and personal connections.
In addition, we must make detailed plans for every income and expenditure, and at the same time shoulder the responsibility of educating and cultivating our children and grandchildren to become successful adults.
All kinds of skills and knowledge cannot be easily mastered overnight.
Even if many women start learning from a young age, they still make a mess of housework after they get married and take care of the household affairs.
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