She knew that's who she was.
In her spare time, she read some books, and one theory in particular stuck with her.
The above-mentioned women who are victims of domestic violence will actually accept the status quo unless they reach the point of no return, because for them, accepting a foreseeable outcome is not more terrifying than accepting an unknown future.
She remembers that's what it meant, but she might not remember it accurately.
A similar thought led Chen Qingxuan to reflect on her current life.
She just has a hard time accepting change.
She married and had children at a pace that others envied, living the life of a wealthy lady in the eyes of others. But how hard her life was behind the scenes is something that cannot be seen at all on social media.
She knew that if she continued to be a full-time housewife, her life wouldn't be too bad.
People live in this world just for a few coins.
Her husband earns a good amount of money, enough to support the whole family.
But her role will always be that of someone's wife, a mother of two, and someone else's daughter-in-law, never herself.
"You need to figure out what you want to do first. Do you want to be an excellent mother who accompanies your child as they grow up, or an excellent career woman who can make a name for herself in the workplace? Many mothers have it very tough. Due to the aftereffects of their physical condition, they give birth to their children but are eliminated by society due to various factors and cannot return to a normal career. It is really very pitiful. But sympathy can't solve any problems."
Seeing the two chatting non-stop, the female internet celebrity, Teacher Zhao, thought to herself that she, a guest in the observation cabin, was as if she didn't exist.
That won't do; she came to this show to gain popularity.
Jiang Tian spoke eloquently and logically, and she listened with rapt attention, but where was her room to elaborate?
Female internet celebrity Teacher Zhao cleared her throat and naturally joined the conversation between the two.
"Yes, I have a friend who is a stay-at-home mom in a similar situation. Because she had no income, her husband was initially willing to give her money. However, under the influence of the times, he gradually came to believe that his wife should be independent and shouldn't ask him for money every day, so he stopped giving her money. His wife couldn't go out to work because she was taking care of the children, so she ended up taking out online loans and accumulating a lot of debt, which led to their separation. Even though she used all the money she borrowed for the family, she was still seen as a lazy and good-for-nothing woman by others, which is so sad."
This story touched Chen Qingxuan, who forced a smile: "I feel like I'm pretty much the same, except my husband hasn't reached the point of particularly disliking me. But my in-laws will scrutinize everything I use at home. They think that only those with their surname are family, and I'm a complete outsider. I'm just an unreliable daughter-in-law. To be honest, sometimes I feel quite pathetic. The child I gave birth to can be family with my in-laws and husband, but as the child's mother, it seems like I'm nothing."
Her disappointment touched the hearts of the viewers in the live stream.
At this moment, Jiang Tian's face did not show impatience.
She patiently told Chen Qingxuan, "First of all, you should have considered the consequences before joining that family. Secondly, you were unable to give up the child's surname because you did so voluntarily, so there's no need to regret it now. You have to give and you have to receive. Everyone will receive a corresponding reward after giving something. Cheng Yize gave you a lot of money on the surface, but his family is wary of you and doesn't want you to spend it."
"Having a child is a voluntary choice. From the moment the child is born, a bond is formed. Whatever the bond may be, once it appears, a person is trapped. I won't force you to be like others. But if you continue to waver like this, your life will only become more and more difficult, and your complaints will no longer receive much response, because you have more, and you are already stronger than many people."
Chen Qingxuan gave a bitter smile. She didn't feel like she had gained anything. She felt like she had just been living in a dream, and had lived like a fool.
But a child cannot be returned once it is born, and besides, she has maternal instincts and still loves her child very much.
Some things are impossible to truly understand; you only know if you can endure them after you've experienced them yourself.
So, do you believe me?
"It's not a matter of whether I believe it or not, but you have to show me. If our company wants to invest in a project, it has to go through at least several rounds of meetings. If your project has reached the point where it can be invested in, then my people will contact you proactively. Don't worry, if the opportunity to make money is really in your hands, no one can take it away from you."
Chen Qingxuan looked at Jiang Tian and slowly said, "Don't worry, I will definitely not back down this time. I want to give it a try. Before, I thought that a meager salary could not motivate me to work hard. Now it seems that what kind of high-level job is a housekeeper? If I can seize the opportunity of social media, I will definitely make myself grow at this critical juncture and not be as foolish as before."
"I hope you will keep your word. So many people say they will do it but fail. If you have this determination, you will succeed."
Jiang Tian didn't say anything, clearly indicating that she lacked confidence in Chen Qingxuan.
Chen Qingxuan also knew that her performance in all aspects failed to prove that she was a reliable partner.
But she truly longed for success.
That success gave her a sense of freedom, a feeling she rarely experienced anymore.
After the two finished talking, Zhou Xiaoyu went up to Jiang Tian to discuss more details.
In her eyes now, Jiang Tian is no different from a god of wealth.
It was like finding a needle in a haystack; Jiang Tian was actually willing to cooperate with her!
Zhou Xiaoyu was well aware that with the economy in a downturn, people wouldn't easily invest in others.
Jiang Tian was willing to give her this opportunity, so it would be a fool for her not to seize it.
Jiang Tian appeared very professional when discussing business with Zhou Xiaoyu, and the issues they discussed were highly specialized.
The viewers in the live stream suddenly understood Jiang Tian.
Sure enough, she wasn't investing blindly.
If Chen Qingxuan just wanted to say a few words and Jiang Tian would invest money in her, Jiang Tian would definitely not agree.
Because of Jiang Tian's professionalism and high level of education, she was not allowed to invest money in someone who was destined to fail.
In front of the public, Jiang Tian revealed her erudition and high level of professional competence.
Her image as a wealthy heiress initially led people to believe she was a nouveau riche, but the professional skills she displayed today earned her genuine respect from others.
Respect is earned through one's own efforts; it cannot be gained simply by adorning oneself with external glory.
That kind of respect won't last long.
Jiang Tian and Zhou Xiaoyu talked for quite a while, and Chen Qingxuan, who was standing to the side, did not interrupt them but listened attentively.
Female internet celebrity Teacher Zhao also felt the new perspective provided by Jiang Tian.
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