Chen Qingxuan lives in a nice city, but the exam is extremely difficult.
It's fair to say that with that household registration, Chen Qingxuan's daughter has already surpassed many others.
Having a child is a responsibility and an obligation. Chen Qingxuan chose to bring her into the world to fulfill her own wish. After all, a child cannot decide whether or not to come into this world; only parents can.
Chen Qingxuan had already suffered greatly because she hadn't been able to have a good family environment after giving birth to the child. The problems Cheng Yize mentioned made her even more hesitant to move forward.
If a child has already suffered family trauma, and then divorces Cheng Yize at some point, causing her to lose an even smoother path than before, is she truly a competent mother?
When she is alone, she can think only of herself.
But in reality, once she becomes a mother and has her own child, she can no longer be as self-centered as before.
From this perspective, her life path becomes extremely difficult.
Yesterday, Cheng Yize hit the nail on the head: in reality, he is better off than Chen Qingxuan. If the child lives with him, he can choose a good university, which is a huge temptation.
After all, many parents go to great lengths and spend millions to give their children a good education.
Chen Qingxuan is responsible and maternal; it's impossible for her to ignore her daughter.
But if she continued to let her daughter stay in Cheng Yize's house, what would become of her daughter's life given the discrimination from her in-laws and Cheng Yize himself? Chen Qingxuan didn't even dare to think about it.
She was in so much pain, caught in a dilemma.
She can't even say she married the wrong person. Many people say she doesn't know how lucky she is, but how many people can understand the pain she is facing?
Chen Qingxuan raised very practical issues, and her parents nodded in agreement, indicating that they understood their daughter's concerns.
However, there is no perfect solution to this problem.
If Chen Qingxuan intends to pursue a new living environment and start a new life for her child, then she will definitely have to make her child give up a shortcut.
"Did Cheng Yize say that if you two get divorced, your daughter's household registration will have to be transferred?"
"Yes, that's what he said. He said he never really cared about girls, and he was only willing to spend money on his daughter because of me. If I hadn't been watching over her, he would have just raised her casually. Now that we're getting a divorce, he won't take care of her like before. He'll pay child support, but his daughter's household registration must be transferred because he said seeing the child will remind him of me."
Chen Qingxuan has made her point very clear.
Even the people in the live stream felt that this seemed like a dead end.
One is the discrimination a child experiences from childhood to adulthood, and the other is the real benefits they can gain.
Being a mother is so hard. I really need to think carefully before deciding whether to get married and have children. Otherwise, if I encounter a family like this, it's like stepping into a swamp, and when I try to climb out, countless hands are pushing me down.
[That's why they say marriage peels a layer of skin off a woman. There's no such thing as a truly selfless person in this world. Cheng Yize is clearly a self-serving person, so I'm not surprised at all that he said those things.]
[Since Chen Qingxuan wants to take the child away, she has to pay the price. What don't you understand? She's just being stubborn.]
The live stream chat was in an uproar, and Chen Qingxuan's mother even asked her daughter, "Why don't we let our daughter make the decision herself?"
Chen Qingxuan quickly rejected the suggestion, shaking her head: "The child is still so young, what advice can she offer? She doesn't have mature judgment yet, and she hasn't fully become a person with independent thinking ability. It would be too reckless to entrust such a crucial issue to her."
"She may feel sad or even in pain because of her current home environment and the discrimination she faces from her grandparents and father, but in fact, we need to think clearly that if she regrets it later, she will ultimately be the one who is punished. As her mother, I need to guide her."
Chen Qingxuan wouldn't leave such an important choice entirely to her daughter. If that happens, and her daughter regrets not taking the shortcut later, who can she blame?
If you're going to end up with someone complaining, you might as well complain about her as your mother.
“But if you don’t get a divorce, you’ll be the one who suffers in the future. Haven’t you suffered enough grievances on this show? Your father and I felt very sorry for you when we saw it on the live broadcast. We gave birth to you so that you could enjoy happiness in this world, not so that you could be someone else’s slave and not even be treated like a human being.”
"If that doesn't work, then give him both children and come home with us."
Chen Qingxuan's parents quickly made a choice: they would love the child their daughter gave birth to, but they loved their daughter even more.
Since Cheng Yize has been emphasizing that his family is well-off, why not just leave it at that? Let the daughter go with them, and the child stay with him.
Chen Qingxuan knew her parents were just saying things in anger. She smiled bitterly and said, "Let me think about it. I think this choice has to be made by me. After all, I am the child's mother. No matter what, I have to have the courage to take my child through the rest of my life."
"You still need to think about these two children. After all, one of them will go to Cheng Yize. He won't let you take them both. Which one will you choose?"
Chen Qingxuan said helplessly, "Do I have a choice? My daughter is being ruined by that family, and as for my son, even if I wanted to take him away, they wouldn't give him to me..."
Chen Qingxuan's words drew angry criticism in the live stream.
In the eyes of many of them, Chen Qingxuan is a woman who is far too ungrateful.
The more you look at her husband, the more perfect he seems.
As for Chen Qingxuan, she made such a fuss simply because she didn't go out to work, because she lacked a sense of self-worth, and because her daughter wasn't loved by her elders at home.
She cultivated an image of a good mother for herself, but abandoned her son and chose her daughter at a crucial moment.
Despite all her constant emphasis, she's still an irresponsible mother!
These people deliberately didn't mention it, so Chen Qingxuan couldn't take her son away at all. In that person's home, her son was her in-laws' darling.
But her helpless letting go is seen as a heinous crime by many.
What kind of loving mother are you pretending to be? She can abandon her own son; she should be in jail!
Chen Qingxuan didn't care what others were saying anymore. After meeting with her parents, she fell into a long period of contemplation. She had to make a choice that would determine the fate of both her and her mother.
Seeing their daughter deep in thought, her parents naturally didn't disturb her.
They were led by staff to another place to rest.
At the same time, Zhou Xiaoyu met her mother.
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