"I won't care anymore. I won't plant any flowers or vegetables."
Zhang Chengbei filled in all the holes he had made before and decided to stop messing with his yard. He also scattered the seeds he bought in the corners.
With these two spendthrift women around, how could he plant flowers?
He admitted his failure.
After hearing that he would never bother the yard again, Huang Xinying decided to celebrate at home today, "Yichao, let's have a good meal tonight!"
"What about good food? Do you want dad to cook?"
Huang Xinying: "?"
Zhang Yichao: "My wife said that she wants Lao Zhang to cook."
Huang Xinying: "Who is your wife?"
"Liu Yue!"
Zhang Chengbei: "...What are you playing?"
Huang Xinying: "He played house with other children today. He was the father and Liu Yue was the mother."
Zhang Chengbei: "..."
Absurd, it's so ridiculous!
After the children dispersed, everything returned to peace. Lu Yan didn't come back at night. Qin Rou lay on the bed, holding the photo album and looking through the photos of men. Today's house game was quite shocking to her.
Xiao Pangdun and Lu Yan are uncle and nephew. Xiao Pangdun is a social nerd and a friend-making expert. Does he have some Aquaman genes?
Qin Rou thought that Lu Yan's popularity was also pretty good.
She touched her belly and thought that if the two of them were together, would it be possible to give birth to two naturally social Aquaman Pipi shrimps.
Qin Rou: "..."
This idea is really too crazy.
Am I stacking buffs?
Qin Rou advised herself not to think about these weird things, in case it really might affect the baby in her belly. The baby in her belly is three or four months old, and their hearing system has been initially formed, and they can perceive the surrounding movements. Prenatal education must be done well.
- When the child's father comes back, a harmonious family atmosphere must be created.
Maybe it was because of what happened during the day, or maybe pregnant women have some problems sleeping. Qin Rou had a dream in the middle of the night. She dreamed that she and a smaller version of Lu Yan were playing house with other children in a large yard. Lu Yan played the father and she played the mother. Both of them worked seriously, and then she gave birth to a pair of mantis shrimps.
They were real mantis shrimps.
Their children were two living mantis shrimps.
Qin Rou was frightened awake when she dreamed of this, thinking what a weird dream this was.
At the same time, she was a little jealous. She found that the children in the compound played together when they were young, and they really had a childhood sweetheart tone, playing house, you are the father and I am the mother. Could it be that Lu Yan has also played house with other girls?
After being jealous, Qin Rou also felt that she was quite inexplicable. It’s okay for others to be jealous of ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends, but she was so petty that she would even care about whether her husband played house with others when he was a child.
It is estimated that it was because of the incident with Qin Rou in the past that made her care about his childhood.
Children’s house games can reflect some things. When sister Qin Mian came to pick up the children, Qin Rou asked about some things that happened to Chen Jingyi. Qin Mian then recalled that people around her did talk a lot of gossip in the past.
"They say Jingyi doesn't look like the Chen family, and they suspect he's not their biological son..." Qin Mian, her elder sister, is also a beauty. Beautiful people always attract a lot of men's attention. When the Chen family was in trouble, some gossipers spread rumors.
"Sister, in the future, you should let your brother-in-law take care of Jingyi more, so that they can spend more time together, and they can be biological father and son."
Qin Mian was stunned: "Do men have to take care of children too?"
"Of course men have to take care of children too!!!" Qin Rou thought to herself that the communication between parents and children must be improved.
"But he doesn't know how to take care of children."
"Nothing is innately known. Look, sister, Juanjuan can help take care of children at such a young age, why can't my brother-in-law do it?"
"You are Jingyi's biological parents. You should give him more verbal recognition and encouragement, and tell him that he is your child, and you like him and care about him." Qin Rou wanted to give the child enough sense of security. The
parent-child interaction when the child is young will affect the child's formation of an attachment relationship. Give him enough loving responses, let him trust his parents, believe in love, and establish a secure attachment relationship between parents and children, rather than an avoidant or anxious one.
"He has been much more lively recently." He is jealous.
Qin Rou told her sister about Jingyi and Xia Mingxi's encounter with Lin Yaoyang on the way to kindergarten, which made her sister Qin Mian laugh.
"Okay, let his father spend more time with him after we go back."
Chief of Staff Lin hadn't been to his family compound for a few days. Before he went back, he received a caring call from his mother, asking if his wife Zhou Menglan had compromised and agreed to have a second child so that she could prepare to go to the island.
Chief of Staff Lin thought that he and Zhou Menglan both had jobs before and had no experience in taking care of children. His mother had always complained to him that Zhou Menglan didn't take care of the children at home. Now Zhou Menglan probably couldn't stand her son Lin Yaoyang.
Chief of Staff Lin didn't care whether to have a second child or not. Anyway, he wouldn't be the one to take care of the child. For a man, if a child is born, it will be raised by the woman in the family, and he doesn't have to worry about anything.
At most, he would persuade his wife to stop quarreling with his mother. Thinking that his mother would follow him to the island, Chief of Staff Lin also had a headache.
It was the same headache as the seasickness before.
Chief of Staff Lin walked into the gate of his own yard, pushed the door open and entered the house, guessing that Zhou Menglan and her son were at home.
Originally, Chief of Staff Lin thought that after returning home, he would hear the voice of his son Lin Yaoyang crying for his grandma again, but he never thought that Zhou Menglan would cook dumplings with the child, and the mother and son lived a colorful life.
"Mom, shall we plant flowers in the yard?"
"Okay."
...
Zhou Menglan saw Chief of Staff Lin, and the smile on her face from chatting with the child had not faded. Zhou Menglan thought that the days in the family compound were so happy, she should have joined the army earlier.
Without a troublesome mother-in-law, and with a very good kindergarten, the child is taken care of during the day, and she takes care of the child herself at night. The relationship between mother and child is much closer than before.
Chief of Staff Lin: "...What are you doing?"
"Dad, you're back." Lin Yaoyang was very happy to see his father, and took the initiative to call him.
"I'm making dumplings with my mom!"
Lin Yaoyang was very excited at this time. He suddenly discovered the benefits of the family courtyard. There were many children playing together.
Although his grandmother was very kind to him, he preferred to play with children of the same age.
It was very happy to play with Xixi!
Chief of Staff Lin: "...Do you want to let his grandmother come over?"
"No need." Zhou Menglan smiled, "It's very convenient for the child to go to kindergarten now. He has a lot of fun in the kindergarten. The family compound here can also send the child to kindergarten. It is very convenient and worry-free, and it won't delay our work."
"Let's leave it like this in the future."
Chief of Staff Lin was stunned: "...Is it like this in the future?"
"Well, don't let your mother come over."
After a few seconds, Chief of Staff Lin came back to his senses, "That's good, so as not to trouble her."
"That's right."
Chief of Staff Lin thought that if the biological mother didn't come, there would be some benefits, so as to avoid quarrels between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
Zhou Menglan was in a particularly good mood at this time. "The sisters-in-law in the family compound are very nice. I met Lao Lu's wife."
"It's the wife of Chief of Staff Lu you mentioned, Lu Yan."
"Lao Lu's wife is really young, only 19 or 20 years old. How could he marry such a young wife?"
"This time Lao Lu's wife is really unworthy."
"Next time, let's invite Lao Lu and his wife to our house for dinner."
...
Chief of Staff Lin was confused by his wife Zhou Menglan's series of words. Lao Lu? ? Lao Lu's wife? ? Lu Yan? ! !
Weren't we just talking about the child and his grandmother? How did it involve Lao Lu's wife?
Invite Lao Lu? Lu Yan? Come over for dinner???
Chief of Staff Lin: "..."
Something was not right, and Chief of Staff Lin suddenly realized something.
He had mentioned Lu Yan to his wife several times before, because Lu Yan was really good at handling things, he was very good at completing tasks, he had good relationships with people in the detachment, and he had strong skills. The superiors asked him to learn from Lu Yan, and Chief of Staff Lin was a little unconvinced at first, but later he felt that this young man was indeed good.
He did learn a lot from him, but -
in order to save his face, when chatting with his wife, Chief of Staff Lin always called him Lao Lu, saying that he was experienced and well-read, like a very good senior... Even if his wife misunderstood him as older than him, he didn't explain much.
Well, after all, Zhou Menglan was not here before, how did she know what kind of Lao Lu this Lao Lu was?
Chief of Staff Lin had also said a few nonsense before, saying that Comrade Lao Lu didn't care about his family and was devoted to work, so he got married last year.
Chief of Staff Lin: "..."
Now his wife knows Lao Lu's wife?
It's over.
People really can't spread rumors casually. He didn't expect that his wife would agree to accompany the army. Now...
Chief of Staff Lin covered his face. The words he had said were like spilled water and could not be taken back.
"When can you invite Lao Lu to your home for a meal? I think his family is very nice."
"... Well, let's talk about it later. Lao Lu, Comrade Lu Yan, has been very busy recently."
"His wife is pregnant, he has to come back to see her. His wife, Xiao Qin, is so beautiful. Comrade Lao Lu must be very good at doing things for others, otherwise how could he marry such a beautiful Xiao Qin." "
Xiao Qin is also very hard-working. She also takes care of two nephews. Fortunately, these two nephews are very sensible. She takes good care of the children. If I hadn't met her, I really don't know how to take care of the children."
"Now our children get along well with his two children. The kindergarten here is close, which is really convenient."
"Why don't you tell Comrade Lao Lu that since you married such a beautiful wife, you must love her well and take care of her. A man who gets married and has a family should pay more attention to his wife."
"To be honest, I admire Xiao Qin very much. Her husband rarely comes home, but she still takes care of the family so well. I should learn from her."
The more Zhou Menglan thought about it, the more she admired Qin Rou. Thinking of Lao Lu mentioned by Chief of Staff Lin, she felt that it was not easy for this beautiful Xiao Qin. How could she marry a man who was so much older than her, but this man still didn't love her?
Chief of Staff Lin's scalp numbed: "... Let's talk about this later. I've been busy recently."
"You men, when you are busy, you just don't care about your family."