Chapter 457 I love Xu Mo, but I love myself more.
Jiang Xue didn't know how to respond after hearing Yu Juan's remarks.
After thinking about it, this idea didn't seem to be a problem, so he gave Yu Juan an idea, "If you have money, you can go to a sperm bank abroad to select sperm to transplant into your body and have a baby yourself."
"Domestic laws and regulations do not allow this for the time being."
"This kind of thing must be from foreigners. Besides, we don't know the IQ, EQ, or intelligence of the sperm. I know a boy who is very smart and looks okay. Do you think I can secretly have a baby with him?" Yu Juan asked doubtfully.
"That's not a good idea..." Jiang Xue answered uncertainly.
"According to our country's laws, even if the woman gives birth to a child without the man's consent, the man must still bear the responsibility of raising and educating the child. I guess most men don't want to be impregnated..." Jiang Xue said uncertainly.
"It has already been borrowed, and he doesn't know about it. Do you think it's okay not to tell him about the child?" Yu Juan asked again.
"What do you mean??? What do you mean by already borrowed?" Jiang Xue asked in disbelief.
"I'm pregnant." Yu Juan said calmly.
She was shy about this matter, so she deliberately said this in a calm tone.
Seeing Jiang Xue's shocked expression, she felt even more embarrassed.
"I'll digest it..."
"You said you were pregnant." Jiang Xue looked at her belly and asked, "How many months?"
"I just got pregnant and bought a pregnancy test stick. It showed two bars, but I haven't gone to the hospital to confirm it yet," Yu Juan replied.
"Who is the father of the child? Is he unwilling to take responsibility, or what? What made you decide to give birth to the child secretly?" Jiang Xue asked again.
"He and I are not in a relationship."
"The pregnancy was just an accident. He and I were just too infatuated with each other, had sex after drinking, and our hormones were at work. You can count it that way."
"He didn't know I was pregnant either."
"There's too big a gap between him and me. There's an age gap and an educational gap, so we're just not the same kind of people." Yu Juan felt a little frustrated when she said this.
"How many years difference in age? Is the other person a college student? That's nothing. You are very outstanding. Educational qualifications don't mean anything. For example, my sister-in-law didn't care about my brother's low educational qualifications." However, my sister-in-law's parents cared a lot at the time, but Jiang Xue didn't say this.
"There is a gap between a PhD from a prestigious university and a junior high school student who only has a junior high school diploma but not necessarily the knowledge reserves of a junior high school," Yu Juan said with a wry smile.
"The age difference is three or four years."
Jiang Xue thought that the other person was studying for a doctorate, or had just graduated with a doctorate, and was three or four years older than Yu Juan.
I didn't consider the fact that he was three or four years younger at all.
"Besides, I don't want to get married. I think I can support a child by myself. Many families have fathers, but the role of fathers is not that big."
"Rather than facing problems such as cheating, domestic violence, widowhood, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts after marriage, it is better not to get married."
"I won't get married, won't tell him, and will give birth to this child secretly. The child's father has a high IQ, is tall, looks okay, and has excellent genes. Do you think this is okay? Isn't it a bit immoral?" Yu Juan asked worriedly.
"He doesn't even know that you will bear all the difficulties of childbirth and raising the child. He just gave his sperm, so don't talk about morality. When you did it, you should have thought about the possibility of pregnancy, but did you make this decision based on careful consideration and a responsible attitude towards yourself and your future children?"
"You have the courage to bear the consequences, as long as you don't regret it in the future."
"Whether to have a baby or not depends on your uterus. Only you can decide." Jiang Xue expressed her opinion on the matter.
"Well, I will consider it carefully." Yu Juan answered solemnly.
"Then when we get to S City, I'll take you to the hospital to confirm it?" Jiang Xue asked.
Thank you, Jiang Xue. I’m lucky to have you, otherwise I wouldn’t know who to tell these things to.
"I'll use my phone to check the hospitals near the hotel and take you there for a check-up tomorrow morning." Jiang Xue said as she immediately took out her phone to check.
"good."
After Jiang Xue finished her checkup, she made an appointment on her phone for an appointment at the obstetrics and gynecology department for the next morning.
Thinking of what happened to people around her recently, Jiang Xue said with emotion: "I dreamed a few days ago that we set off fireworks together during the New Year. It feels like only a short time ago, and I feel like everyone has grown up. My brother got married and had a child, Tan Xiao is getting married soon, you are also pregnant, and you may have a baby in a few months, and Chen Hua is also married. I heard that the child is almost one year old and is now being raised by the girl's parents." As for Chen Hua, Jiang Xue did not go to his wedding because it was held in his hometown and he could not go back and forth on the same day as it was too far.
Liu Qinglin went there and brought some gift money to Jiang Xue.
The person he married was a customer service girl in their Taobao store.
The two worked together and soon fell in love. After she became pregnant, Chen Hua first went to the girl's home to propose, then took the girl to meet his grandparents and got married.
"What about you and Xu Mo? When are you getting married?" Yu Juan asked.
"I have no plans to get married or have children. When I see the little baby at my brother's house, I just think he's noisy. From what I've seen, he's more annoying than cute when he's asleep or awake."
Yu Juan smiled and said, "She'll be cute when she grows up."
"You've been dating for four years, right? Have you never considered getting married?" Yu Juan asked puzzled.
"In my opinion, the marriage system is a bit anti-human. It is human nature to have a tendency to get bored with the old and love the new. A marriage certificate can only bind some people, not everyone," said Jiang Xue.
"People who are restrained rely on self-discipline, not external discipline. Even if they don't have a marriage certificate, these people have their own set of self-discipline standards."
"I am a person who can control myself, but I can't bet 100% on Xu Mo."
"We are actually almost married now, the only thing missing is a piece of paper. But with that piece of paper, if we get divorced in the future, I might give him half of my car, house, notes and company. If he uses my money to marry another beautiful girl and raise their children, I will be at a huge loss."
"You can avoid this problem by not getting married." If you don't get married, you don't have to talk about marital property agreements or prenuptial agreements.
If they really get to the point of getting married, she feels it would be hurtful to talk about these things.
So not getting married is the best option.
Yu Juan frowned. She agreed with what Jiang Xue said, but also felt that if they really loved each other, they wouldn't mind these external factors. In her eyes, Xu Mo and Jiang Xue were a perfect match in terms of appearance, education, and IQ.
She thought they would get married naturally.
"Then do you love Xu Mo?" Yu Juan asked doubtfully.
"Of course." Jiang Xue answered affirmatively.
Without any hesitation.
Jiang Xue guessed why Yu Juan asked this question. If they loved each other, why wouldn't they get married just because they were afraid of losing half of their property in the event of divorce?
Yu Juan probably thinks like most people that if you love someone, you should build a family with that person, and love should be unreserved and regardless of gains and losses.
"I love Xu Mo, but I love myself more."
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