Chapter 477 About Parenting
Jiang Xue is in Hong Kong, living in the old house of the Cui family, playing with her brother's two children. Her brother's second child is older than her child, a daughter, so she has both a son and a daughter.
She came to Hong Kong, not only to ring the bell for Yunzhou Film and Television's IPO, but also to prepare to sell off some of the equity in some companies she had previously invested in. Although she slowed down her pace in recent years because of her children, she still made a lot of money.
Jiang Xue's name is quite famous in the industry.
It is said that she has a sharp eye and is a legendary figure in the investment world.
Basically, the return rate of investment projects is very high and you can make a lot of money.
The key is that she is still very young, graduated from a prestigious university, and is beautiful. For a period of time, Jiang Xue had a lot more suitors, and they were all high-quality men.
Compared to before, her facial features have fully grown, and after giving birth, her temperament has changed a little, and she has become much softer.
He is wearing a business suit, which is obviously a low-key outfit, but his facial features are bright and his aura cannot be ignored.
The Hong Kong media jokingly said that even if Mr. Jiang didn't become an investor, he could still make money by being a celebrity.
It's a pity that she got married at such a young age and already had children.
As for whether you are married or not, no one will see your marriage certificate, so there is no need to explain to anyone. In the eyes of many people, no one cares whether she and Xu Mo have a marriage certificate or not, but they have a daughter, so they are assumed to be in a husband-and-wife relationship.
Having a baby didn't have much impact on Jiang Xue.
After she knew she was pregnant, she did not stop exercising, but changed to exercises that did not require jumping or weights, such as Pilates and yoga. She also had a special nutritionist monitor her diet and weight, so most of the weight she gained during pregnancy went to the baby, and except for a bigger belly, her body shape did not change much.
Secondly, she gave birth in the United States, which made it convenient for Xu Mo to participate.
She did not experience the pain of dilation that Yu Juan experienced. At 38 weeks+, Jiang Xue felt that her belly was too tired and she could not carry it anymore. Her belly was too big and she could not sleep well. After the doctor examined her, she had a caesarean section.
She also did a lot of research on choosing doctors in the hospital.
If you plan to have a cesarean section, you need to find a doctor with good skills.
The last thing we lack now is money. Good doctors can make short and neat incisions, and prevent adhesions during surgery to reduce postoperative gynecological diseases.
As for whether natural childbirth is good for the baby, the pain of natural childbirth with the cervix dilated to the outside is also harmful to the mother and cannot be ignored.
As for the saying that the recovery from a caesarean section is not as fast as that from a natural birth, why does she want to recover so quickly!
Just treat it as an operation. A quick recovery means she can devote herself to feeding her child as soon as possible. She doesn't need that.
She planned to stay in confinement for two months. After the cesarean section, she was discharged from the hospital and went to the confinement center. A group of people surrounded the child, and the child's father was of little use.
When she was pregnant, she asked almost all her friends who had given birth about breastfeeding. The hospitals and experts all advocated breastfeeding and said that breast milk was good, but most mothers described the feeding process as very painful.
The first is lack of sleep.
The mother is weak during the confinement period. Even if the father shares the burden and a confinement nanny helps, breast milk needs to be secreted by the mother. Newborns eat frequently and have a small stomach capacity. The mother wakes up every two or three hours to feed the baby. It would be strange if she is not exhausted.
The second is milk engorgement, milk blockage, and nipple rupture. Just because it is ruptured, it does not mean that you don’t need to feed. A baby will cry loudly if he eats two minutes late. It is impossible for him to not feed just because the mother is injured.
Jiang Xue asked about something that almost every mother has experienced: they feel pain, but they have to endure and continue feeding their baby.
So no matter what the experts say, no matter how nutritious breast milk is or how good it is for children, she doesn't want to endure the hardship.
As soon as Jiang Xue gave birth, she told the doctor that she did not plan to breastfeed and had a milk-suppressing injection. Therefore, she had no experience with milk production or milk blockage.
Since they are not married, the man's family is not involved. She will not tell her family when she gives birth to a child. Her friends and brothers have a strong sense of boundaries and will not intervene or ask about these matters. No elders or outsiders question her decision. It is all up to her to choose based on her own rights and interests.
Also, because she didn't need to eat the same amount of food as she did after giving birth to the baby, she didn't need to restrict her diet and slept through the night. Before she had even completed a full month of confinement, she felt that her body had almost recovered.
After staying in the confinement center for more than 40 days, I couldn't stand it anymore and went home early.
Secondly, she wore a belly band during the confinement period to prevent her internal organs from sagging.
After the wound had healed, she prescribed a European scar-lightening ointment, which I applied continuously for six months to a year. This prevented the incision from growing larger and also helped it heal better. Over time, the scar became very light.
She booked a high-end maternity center opened by Chinese in the United States. It was expensive, but it provided everything from postpartum recovery, professional nursing and conditioning programs, and customized rehabilitation plans.
She stopped all work and just played with her daughter, who became more and more fair and tender every day. She felt happy both physically and mentally.
Although she was in a confinement center, she still hired a professional nanny to accompany and participate.
It is convenient to adapt as quickly as possible after returning home.
She also carefully selected the nanny. As there was a conflict in schedule, Jiang Xue started paying her a salary before she became pregnant so that she could wait for the baby to be born.
So February didn't make a fuss, nor did she cry all the time. She only cried for a few times, and her needs were met, so she had no reason to cry.
So after returning home, Jiang Xue slowly resumed her work, and the child was taken care of by Xu Mo and the nanny.
As the child grew older, he became more dependent on his aunt. Jiang Xue became jealous and prepared to take care of the child and sleep with Xu Mo at night.
The child's sleep is very regular because of the aunt.
They only woke up once at night, and both of them would wake up if she cried. Xu Mo picked up his daughter from the crib and placed her in Jiang Xue's arms. He heated up the milk, changed the child's diaper, fed the child, and put her back in the crib when she fell asleep.
Then he turned off the lights, returned to bed, and continued to sleep while hugging the half-asleep Jiang Xue, which did not affect his mental state the next day at all.
The auntie rested well in the morning and the child woke up early. After the child woke up, she would quietly take the child away.
During the day, we don’t rely entirely on the nanny to take care of the child. As parents, we basically spend time with our child and play with her whenever we have free time.
When Jiang Xue's child was more than five months old, Xu Mo had a long vacation during the semester break. Jiang Xue went back to China for more than half a month, and when she came back, her life went on as usual without any impact.
Just say that Xu Mo looked a little haggard.
But looking at his appearance, although he was tired, he was still enjoying it.
Then Jiang Xue began flying between the two countries.
In addition to studying, Xu Mo spends his spare time taking care of his children.
Therefore, the child has had a very close relationship with Xu Mo since childhood. Jiang Xue originally planned to take the child back to China after the child was older. This was her plan before she was born. In fact, the child cannot leave his father, so they planned to wait until Xu Mo graduated before leaving together.
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