Chapter 488 Cheng Guo Extra
Cheng Guo is an author who writes heart-wrenching love stories with his words.
She felt that if her life was a novel, she would be the typical heroine.
Still a cool article.
I met a boy I liked, he was younger than me and I was his first love.
I originally thought it was backwards compatible, but who knew the other party was so motivated and capable.
Own a house, a car, and be able to make money.
With a happy love life, the blessing of her parents and a rich life, she also ushered in the highlight of her career. She sold copyrights, switched to being a screenwriter, and her novels were in full swing.
The two of them even got to the point of getting married, but she was told that her husband was the son of a wealthy man who had wandered away.
He is about to return to inherit a fortune worth tens of billions.
Knowing all this, she was afraid of the future.
She was afraid of unexpected events, afraid that she, from a small family, would not be able to lead the life of a wealthy wife.
Afraid that rich men will become bad.
After all, Liu Qinglin's father and his father's father were both successful at home and with colorful flags flying outside.
Rich people, wealthy men.
There are too many temptations to face.
Liu Qinglin gave her confidence. Jiang Xue asked her team to record the engagement video. She would watch it in her spare time. Every time she watched it, she would be moved again.
She got the marriage certificate but didn't hold a wedding. She gave birth to a son for him, and she became Mrs. Cui from Mrs. Liu.
She gets up every morning in her huge villa, where someone takes care of the children and cooks meals.
Her wardrobe is filled with the brand's new seasonal clothing and bags.
Her husband is very busy as he has to manage a large household business, but he lets her use the card as she pleases.
She doesn't have to work, and she has no elders or parents-in-law.
There was no such thing as a wealthy mother-in-law making her angry.
At first, she felt a bit like she was dreaming about this change of identity.
At the same time, I feel very anxious.
Like her, she felt that Liu Qinglin was in the dream. At that time, Cui Zihua had not passed away yet. They moved in and lived with Cui Zihua. Cui Zihua taught him social etiquette and took him to various cocktail parties and banquets.
Introduce it to different people.
He came back and lay on her belly looking very tired, and complained to her that the food at the banquet he attended today was cold.
The smiling face was frozen.
There's a feeling of being out of place.
Cheng Guo deeply agreed.
"I feel like your father's nanny is laughing at me. I have never seen those ingredients and tableware. She must think I am an ignorant bumpkin."
Liu Qinglin kissed her and said, "Baby, I'll tell my dad about it and ask him to fire her."
"That's not necessary." Cheng Guo smiled.
Then she talked about the new horizons she had gained, and Liu Qinglin laughed along with her.
"It just feels like a dream. I'm a little scared that I've gotten used to this kind of luxury and it's going to be hard to go back to frugality," Cheng Guo sighed.
"Put your heart back in your stomach, this is not a dream." Liu Qinglin comforted.
"My dad told me not to have a filter for these people. A few generations ago, maybe their parents were still selling fish."
"He also said that the upper class is mostly low-class people. Very interesting statement."
“He told me to introduce me to some really great people who obviously looked like good people and had done a lot of charity work.
But he told me to pay attention to them and not to believe in superficial things. He said that especially those who climbed up from the bottom, many well-known people are not good people in the traditional sense. If they were good people, they would not be able to climb up. "Speaking of this, Liu Qinglin smiled and said, "It's too complicated. My head hurts." ”
Then ask about her children.
If the story ended here, she would be happy.
But reality doesn’t stay at a certain moment.
After the second child was born, Liu Qinglin was not as concerned as when the first child was born.
His work started to become very busy.
In the big villa, there are nannies, drivers, and gardeners, but they are all salaried, and the only people she can communicate with on an equal footing are herself and her two children.
One of them could hardly speak clearly, and the other was still biting his hand.
Liu Qinglin has changed a lot. He is becoming smoother, more insightful and stronger.
He would not come back to complain to her about what happened, he was getting better and better at handling it.
She has two children, so she quit her job, stopped creating, and became a full-time housewife. I don't know if it was because of the hormone disorder caused by having two children in a short period of time or something else, but she became anxious, overthinking, and unhappy.
She firmly believed that Liu Qinglin loved her, but she couldn't help but doubt herself and wondered if she was not worthy.
At that time, my sister-in-law Jiang Xue returned to China after finishing her studies and came to see the children.
I immediately saw her problem.
"Are you unhappy?" Jiang Xue asked.
"Yes, he is clearly living a life that many people dream of, with everything provided for him. But he doesn't seem to be very happy."
"I feel like I have regressed. I don't know what's wrong with me. I long to be taken care of by your brother, to be loved by him, and to be loved by him."
“I became emotional and often felt aggrieved.”
"I hope he can understand my hesitations and my unexpressed needs."
"But he is not a worm in my stomach. I am being a little unreasonable." When she said this, she could not suppress the loss in her tone.
"I knew it was difficult for him, he was very busy at work and had a lot to learn, but I couldn't stand his neglect of me. I started to complain and question myself, and I became unlike myself."
"I am really too contradictory and twisted." Cheng Guo had a dejected expression when he said this.
Jiang Xue could see her confusion.
Compared to the Cheng Guo she had seen before, who was high-energy, spoke softly, and smiled gently with pursed lips, she had changed a lot.
"I saw this sentence some time ago: If you seek outside, you will not get what you want; if you seek within, you will get endless results," said Jiang Xue.
"If you rely too much on others, you will lose the opportunity for self-growth."
"Sister Cheng Guo, if women put their emotions on their partners, they will definitely not be happy. You need to understand the basic demands of your bad emotions."
She listened and reflected on herself.
She still only reported good news to her parents and not bad news. She called them and told them about her confusion.
Her parents helped her analyze the situation and gave her advice.
Comfort her. Tell her not to put pressure on herself.
She no longer puts all her focus on her husband and children, but puts her attention back on herself.
Since she didn't receive any gifts on her anniversary, she went to buy herself a gift.
I will also buy a gift for Liu Qinglin.
When Liu Qinglin finds out that he has forgotten the anniversary and his wife has prepared a gift, he will apologize to her and she will ask for compensation.
There are no more flowers in the marriage, but she can buy herself the flowers she likes and decorate her life.
She stopped hesitating and started to speak out her needs directly.
She would praise him, show weakness to him, and act coquettishly.
Provide him with high energy emotional value.
She will also clearly refuse and express her likes and dislikes.
She started exercising and taking care of her skin.
A very interesting new article has been opened.
During the serialization of her new article, the copyright holder inquired about the price.
She is studying psychology.
Child education, both children are excellent.
I picked up calligraphy and taught myself illustration and design.
She made interesting new friends.
She integrated into the circle of upper-class ladies.
She opened a B&B and a hotel and designed it herself.
She invested in a cultural and creative brand and quickly made a profit by leveraging Cuijia Store’s connections.
At the same time, Cheng Guo, the innocent girl with a heart, has also grown up.
What is the essence of marriage.
Cheng Guo thought it might be an exchange of value.
If you are attracted to someone's appearance, figure, personality, upbringing, sense of humor, etc. when you are in love, then a marriage cannot be maintained solely by these things.
For Liu Qinglin, her existence means that he has a friend to share his life with and a partner to help him have and educate his children.
A regular sexual partner.
It's his wife.
The marriage relationship is different from the parent-child relationship. There is no bond of blood relationship. In essence, they are two strangers giving birth to one or more blood-related children.
No one is obligated to be loyal to another person forever.
The so-called loyalty is actually loyalty to values.
If you understand this clearly, everything she did above can be explained.
She pays attention to her beauty and her figure for the sake of her own value.
She showed weakness, praised, and acted coquettishly. These are emotional values.
Liu Qinglin likes a warm family atmosphere, values his family, and enjoys having a wife and children and a warm bed.
Her existence and her children are valuable.
He also provides her with similar value.
The two of them raised the child together and provided a good financial foundation for her and the child.
He will also provide her with emotional value.
So far, she is a good wife and a good mother, and he is a good husband and a good father.
She once said to Liu Qinglin: "I only ask one thing of you. I need you to respect me as you would any of your friends or partners."
She is happily married now, but she is ready for divorce at any time.
She has not given up her ability to be independent, and she can live well even if she leaves.
She has a temper, a personality, hobbies, and anger.
Even though the two people are not equal and there is a big gap between them, she is not a magic flower and is not an accessory.
She is now Mrs. Cui.
She is the mother of his children and his wife.
She is also Cheng Guo.
An independent individual.
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