Chapter 385 Going the other way
Lu Changxiao got up early in the morning and went to find the aunt who was gossiping.
As a result, the aunt's family said that she had returned to her parents' home.
Lu Changxiao came back and asked Liang Qiaoli if she knew what happened to the young couple later.
Liang Qiaoli said, "I'll listen with you, how can I know the result?"
The aunt left for three days, and it was uncertain when she would return. These three days kept Lu Changxiao's appetite full.
Shen Jiale saw the snickering, controlled his facial expression, and said to his daughter, "If you really want to know about them, you can go to their unit to ask."
Lu Changxiao slapped his thigh and said, "Yes, why didn't I think of that?" Then he pulled Fu Xingchen to go with him.
Lu Changjie and Huo Gaofei also followed to join in the fun.
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We arrived at the workplace of the young couple that the aunt had mentioned, and gave the security guard a pack of cigarettes, asking him to tell us what happened
next. The security guard took the cigarette with a smile, and told the four people what happened next.
The girl returned to her parents’ home and told her parents what happened. Her parents were also very angry and supported their daughter’s divorce.
They asked their daughter to stay first and go through the divorce procedures the next morning.
The next day, the girl went to the hospital accompanied by her family and asked the young man for a divorce.
After hearing this, the old lady ignored her injuries, got up and begged the girl and her family to forgive her son.
She said that the young couple had a very good relationship, and that these things happened because of her injury, and that her son was worried about her, so he spoke without thinking.
She also said that she had called her two sons in her hometown, and that the eldest son and his wife would be here soon,
so the girl didn't need to help him take care of his grandchildren. In the future, they, the grandparents and grandchildren, would not disturb the lives of the young couple, and asked the girl to forgive her son.
The girl's parents, who came to question her, looked at their daughter with embarrassment when they saw the attitude of the mother-in-law.
The daughter and her son-in-law had a happy married life, but their lives became chaotic after the arrival of the mother-in-law with her four grandchildren.
If they stayed away from the lives of the young couple, there would be no such problems.
The girl's father called his daughter aside and advised her to think about it again and not to make a choice on impulse.
The young man also came to the girl and sincerely apologized, saying that he was too concerned about his mother's health, which was why he lost control and spoke without thinking, and promised that he would never do it again.
The girl did not give an answer on the spot, but the divorce was put on hold for the time being.
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In the evening, the young man's elder brother and his wife arrived in Jingshi and went directly to the hospital.
In front of the girl, the young man's elder brother scolded his younger brother severely, and apologized to the girl, saying that their children had brought them trouble.
If the girl did not forgive her younger brother, they would not have the face to let the children stay in Jingshi to go to school, and would take them back.
The young man's family spoke on the girl's side. It took a lot of effort to arrange for the four children to go to school. The girl did not want the children to drop out of school because of her, so she did not mention the divorce.
The two reconciled in this vague way.
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Lu Changxiao felt uneasy after listening to the doorman's story.
"Grandpa, the young couple had such a quarrel, and they just reconciled so easily?"
The gatekeeper said, "The man should apologize, and his family is not the kind of people who would make trouble. The whole family has supported a college student, and now he has a promising future. It is not excessive to help his nephews. Every
family has some bumps and bruises, and everyone has gone through this. You can't care too much about life."
Lu Changxiao thought that this result was not bad.
In life, as long as we understand each other more and communicate well when encountering problems, it will be fine.
Fu Xingchen asked, "Will his elder brother and his wife go back?"
The gatekeeper said, "They probably won't go back for the time being. They will stay to take care of the old lady and the children."
Lu Changjie said, "That is to say, this man originally had to support five people, and now there are two more."
Lu Changxiao was stunned for a moment: "Yes, if they can't support five people, how will they live with seven people?"
The gatekeeper said casually, "The girl's family has money, take some out and tide over this difficulty first. Money is earned by people, and their family has trained their man to be a talent, they can't just do nothing, It doesn't cost a penny, this is too unreasonable."
Fu Xingchen said: "These are the man's family affairs, why should the woman's family bear the consequences?"
The doorman said while smoking: "After marriage, you are a family. The girl's family is the only child. In the future, her parents will still rely on the young man to support them in their old age. What's the difference between you and me?"
Huo Gaofei interrupted: "He has a daughter, and his daughter can also support him in his old age. He even needs others to help deal with his own family affairs. Will he be able to support the woman's parents in the future?"
The doorman said that they were young and had not yet married, so they didn't understand, but they would understand these principles in the future.
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After returning, Shen Jiale asked Lu Changxiao about the results of his investigation.
"Mom, why do people have so many things to do after they get married? She was originally a carefree, spoiled and only child. After marriage, she had her own small family. She just needed to live a good life. Why do the in-laws always have to interfere with their lives?"
Shen Jiale said earnestly: "Marriage is not just a matter between two people, it is a matter between two families."
Lu Changxiao said with a bitter face: "Mom, I find that when people are poor, there are a lot of things to do."
Shen Jiale smiled and said: "It's not that people are poor and there are a lot of things to do. They have a promising younger brother who works in Beijing. It's normal for them to want their children to receive a better education.
Why don't they ask for their children to come over to study before their younger brother gets married?"
"Yes, if all this is arranged before marriage, there won't be so many troubles after marriage."
"That's because they all know that their younger brother is not able to let their children study in Beijing."
"You mean, they want the girl's family to raise their child?"
"His brothers said that they would let their younger brother pay for the living expenses temporarily, but in fact it was the girl's family who paid.
The young couple quarreled over this matter and wanted to divorce. His family came and ostensibly stood on the girl's side and reprimanded his younger brother, but in fact the fundamental problem had not been solved. The girl still had to bear all the expenses of the man's family."
Lu Changxiao whispered, "They said they would pay it back."
Shen Jiale smiled, "Maybe they will pay it back, but can the girl take it?"
"Why not? He used the money from his wife's parents?"
"In their minds, the younger brother married the only daughter in the city, and everything in the girl's family belongs to the younger brother.
The man saw that his mother-in-law's family had a lot of fish and meat, while his own mother only ate steamed buns, and he felt unbalanced and wanted to beat the girl. If the girl took the hard-earned money of his brothers, do you think the man would have any thoughts in his heart?"
Lu Changxiao did not answer.
He probably thought of the situation of Kou Xiangrong's family.
She asked: "If the man's nephews didn't come to Beijing to study, wouldn't there be all these troubles in the future?"
Shen Jiale said: "When you go back, you can ask your friend if he wants to take his family in to live with him.
If he has this idea, you will have to face this problem in the future.
However, your situation will definitely be much better than that girl, because you have money and ability, and you can make arrangements for his family.
Even if they don't want to work and don't study hard, your money is enough to support them."
Lu Changxiao was shocked: "Mom, how can you say that? My money didn't come from the wind. Taking the initiative to help others is different from being calculated by others!"