Sometimes when her mother takes a break from her shift, she will bring her some food and come to see her.
Luo Chunyan feels that her current life is quite good.
When a person lives with equanimity, without attachment or anxiety, their mind will become open-minded.
That's why Luo Chunyan said those things to Ji Wanmei just now, overturning Ji Wanmei's previous understanding of her.
Sometimes, when helping friends deal with their messy household chores and emotional entanglements, I can see things very clearly from an outsider's perspective. But if it were me, I would easily be unable to see the true face of Mount Lu because I was in the mountain myself.
Luo Chunyan felt that Ji Wanmei was such a smart person. The advice she gave her and the things she said to wake her up were all very reasonable.
Now, because the situation has fallen on her own, she has lost her composure.
Luo Chunyan squeezed Ji Wanmei's shoulder, offering her both emotional and practical support: "You're so smart, I don't need to say anything more. As for how to handle the relationship between you and your father, and between your father and Lei Tingjun, step back from this matter and think about it from an outsider's perspective. You'll definitely come up with the best way to handle it."
After chatting with Luo Chunyan for so long, Ji Wanmei did indeed feel a sense of clarity after her chaotic thoughts had suddenly become clear.
Yes, she's so anxious and agitated that she's long lost the ability to think rationally.
If she argues more and more fiercely with her father about this, it will definitely make her father more resentful of Lei Tingjun, and he will feel that it is all Lei Tingjun's fault that caused the breakdown of their father-daughter relationship.
It will be even more difficult to get Ji Xingguo to accept Lei Tingjun in the future.
When it comes to your own father, you should adopt a more conciliatory approach.
Thinking back to her childhood, whenever she wanted something, she would always whine to her father, and he would rush to fulfill her wish, afraid that his precious daughter would be unhappy.
She should use the same method on this matter so that her father won't feel that "some random man outside is leading my daughter astray," and that his prejudice against Lei Tingjun will gradually change.
This is the kind of effort she should be making towards her relationship with Lei Tingjun, instead of just engaging in a cold war with her father, which will only push things further to extremes.
After Ji Wanmei thought it through, she felt a sense of clarity and a bright future ahead.
She smiled and looked at Luo Chunyan with heartfelt gratitude: "Chunyan, thank you. Your words have been a wake-up call."
Luo Chunyan laughed heartily: "What are you talking about? We're good friends. Good friends should help each other and support each other when needed most. That's only right."
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