Chapter 101: How Pretty She Is
Wen Xin and Wen Yu’s words chilled Deng Xiuzhen’s heart, but she didn’t want to say anything.
Wen Xin is sixteen years old and Wen Yu is twelve years old. Children of this age are more inclined to stick to what they believe in.
When I was taking care of grandchildren in my previous life, the Internet was well developed and no matter what I wanted to watch, I could just search it on my phone.
In order to take good care of her grandson, she carefully searched and learned relevant knowledge about children's rebellious period.
There are generally three stages in a child's rebellious period:
The first period is when children are 2-3 years old. Children at this stage will gradually develop a sense of independence, have their own ideas, show rejection behavior, and have the urge to explore the outside world.
Many people do not pay attention to the rebellion at this time, thinking that the children are too young and ignorant, and then they just indulge them.
The second rebellious period is from 7 to 9 years old. 99.9% of children in this period go to school. Due to changes in lifestyle and education methods, they may not be able to adapt, thus developing a rebellious mentality.
During this period, parents are busy with life pressures and communicate less with their children. When children get home, they just do their homework, and when they receive tutoring, there may be chaos and tension in the relationship.
Sometimes parents don’t notice when their children behave abnormally; some do notice but don’t take it too seriously because children at this age usually don’t have much of an impact.
Little do people know that the ancient saying "You can tell a child's character at the age of three and his character's character at the age of seven" refers to children of these two age groups, who will do some unreasonable things because of their rebelliousness.
Parents should not think that their children are young and ignorant and allow them to do whatever they want. They should not indulge their children for fear of trouble. Instead, they should allow them to form some basic concepts, learn to follow some rules, and learn to be self-disciplined and independent.
Children in these two periods are very malleable. As long as parents pay more attention to them, provide more guidance, and set rules for them, they will most likely not go astray.
The third period is from 13 to 18 years old. Children at this age have basically formed their own outlook on life and values and will not be easily swayed.
Intervening forcefully will backfire: they will see you as suppressing them and going against you.
Wen Jing and Wen Xin are in the third period, and Wen Yu has already begun to show signs of improvement. At this time, I want to say something about Tan Yanlin and Tian Yutong.
Wen Jing protects herself and will force Tan Yanlin to drive Tian Yutong away.
Wen Xin and Wen Yu, who prefer Tan Yanlin and Tian Yutong, may think that they are narrow-minded and making blind guesses.
Even as long as they try hard to defend themselves or prove themselves, they will think that they are not compatible with their father and that those two people are more suitable!
It’s not that the two children are bad, nor that they don’t love themselves.
It’s just that they are more inclined to defend their own opinions and are more willing to trust their own judgment.
She tends to be quiet now, but she will not give up her other two children easily. Even if she is heartbroken, she still cares about the children she gave birth to after ten months of pregnancy, not to mention that they are just blind now.
Each of us hopes to avenge our enemies and looks forward to a sudden reversal.
But in fact, everything in the world has always been entangled and difficult to let go.
Especially for one's own children, who can just say no to them? Not to mention disgust and hatred.
"Mom, you should learn from Auntie Tian. How beautiful she is! Look at you. You are rich, but you still wear cheap clothes. You look so tacky." Wen Xin hoped she could convince Deng Xiuzhen. Then she would look good when she was with her mother. Maybe she could dress more fashionably and elegantly.
"I have no money left. Your father owes Uncle Qi money for materials, and his company is having trouble making ends meet, so he asked me to use this two million to pay him." Deng Xiuzhen explained with a smile, but her tone was indifferent.
"Ah?" Wen Xin was stunned. First, her father owed so much money for materials; second, how could Deng Xiuzhen take out all the money so easily? Didn't she know how to save her own life?
"Mom, why didn't you tell Dad? Why did you pay the money yourself?" Wen Yu heard Qin Yanlin tell others that he was going to delay paying Qi Guomin for the materials.
"Your father asked me to pay, and your father not only owes people two million, I also used the foundation in the alley to pay off the debt!" Qin Wenyu's words made Deng Xiuzhen a little annoyed, and the anger was revealed in her words.
The two children sensed it and stopped talking. They still had an instinctive fear of their mother.
The next morning, Deng Xiuzhen went to the ancient street. Old Zhao asked her to give the card to Qingming, so she had to go and do it.
When Deng Xiuzhen found Qingming's home, he was sitting in the yard eating breakfast: two steamed buns and a bottle of boiled water.
After listening to Deng Xiuzhen's explanation of her purpose, Qingming did not move, but asked softly, "Where are they? Are they coming back?"
Deng Xiuzhen hesitated for a moment, but still told the truth: "Xiaobao and his mother are dead, and Uncle Zhao is in prison, and he probably won't be able to get out..."
Qingming didn't speak for a long time. Deng Xiuzhen didn't want to stay here too long, so she took out the card and stuffed it into his hand.
He clenched his hands and refused to take the card. He stepped back a little and said, "You take the money. I get a subsidy every month, which is enough for us to live on. If something happens to Uncle Zhao in the future, we will need someone to take care of it."
"This is from Uncle Zhao!" Deng Xiuzhen didn't know how much money was in the card, but she really didn't need the money.
"Uncle Zhao gave it to me. I'm giving it to you now. Don't force it on me. I don't need it!" Qingming's voice was not loud, but very firm.
"Qingming, you..." Li Huzi walked in, was startled when he saw Deng Xiuzhen, and then asked, "Why are you here?"
Deng Xiuzhen was about to answer, but Qingming spoke first: "She came to see Xiaobao and asked if I wanted some old clothes."
"Oh," Li Huzi agreed and walked to sit next to Qingming. He looked at Deng Xiuzhen and said, "Xiaobao was taken to Kyoto by Uncle Zhao. It's been a long time."
Deng Xiuzhen nodded and said Qingming had told her. Huzi told Deng Xiuzhen about the land and the house and said he would help her take care of them. Deng Xiuzhen quickly expressed her gratitude.
Qingming said, "Huzi and I have something else to do, so you go ahead and do it first."
In the afternoon, Tian Guoqiang found Deng Xiuzhen and asked with a smile: "Did you go to see Qingming today? Why did you go to see her?"
Deng Xiuzhen told him everything about Uncle Zhao, including how Uncle Zhao and his gang kidnapped her and wanted her money.
Tian Guoqiang was very emotional after hearing this: "I have known Uncle Zhao for several years. He is not a money-loving person, and he will never do bad things for money. I didn't expect that he would make such a big mistake because of his children when he was old. What a pity!"
"Why did you come to see me? Are you asking for help again?" Deng Xiuzhen said jokingly.
Tian Guoqiang laughed: "Humph, do you think I don't have any ability and I have to rely on you?"
Deng Xiuzhen also laughed and asked, "Old Zhao said he wanted to give me his house. He has signed everything. Do you think I should give the house to Qingming or keep it myself?"
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