Chapter 1261: Don’t punish yourself for the mistakes of others
“You can understand it just by thinking about yourself. If it weren’t for wanting a child, you wouldn’t bother with men.”
"Based on the fact that he has children, Wade already has a son named Wade, and his parents both have grandchildren. Now that Wade has offspring, will Wade's family still be anxious for him to find a woman to marry? To put it bluntly, hasn't Wade's sister returned to Pingcheng? Wade has no shortage of sons, and he also has no worries about having no women to take care of him. What an ordinary woman can do as a wife, Wade's sister can do for Wade. If Wade gets married at this time, unless the woman is like you and can help Wade, otherwise, wouldn't Wade be cutting off his path to becoming a Phoenix Man?"
Wade has no shortage of sons or women, but only the opportunity to get promoted and make a fortune.
He himself was incapable, and the only way to realize this wish was to marry a wife with a good birth and family background, and rely on the help of his wife's family.
After Qiao Nan's earnest advice, Zhai Hua, who was a little upset because of Tian Dong's performance, also put an end to his last wave of self-destruction.
At that time, Zhai Hua only asked Qiao Nan one question: "If I don't get married and have no children in this life, will you let my three children support me in my old age?"
The Chinese people's thinking is so traditional.
Qiao Nan also replied to Zhai Hua: "Responsibility in old age has never been a problem. What we are most worried about is that when you are old, you will be alone."
Qiao Nan's words made Zhai Hua feel sour, but also made Zhai Hua feel at ease.
Yes, she has three nephews. When she gets old, she doesn't have to worry about no one to take care of her, but she has to worry about no one to accompany her.
But now there are so many natural disasters and man-made disasters. This cancer cannot be cured, and that cancer is a terminal disease. Many people get married and have children, but there is no one to accompany them when they get old. Will these people survive?
These people can do it, so as the daughter of the Zhai family, why can't she do it?
When she gets old, the three treasures will definitely get married and have children.
At that time, she doesn't need anyone to accompany her. She can just kidnap any treasure's child and raise him by her side, just like the old man did in the past. Isn't it good?
Her grandmother passed away early, leaving the old man alone. Earlier, she and Zhai Sheng stayed in Pingcheng to develop. The old man insisted on living in the countryside and was unwilling to live in the city and spend his days with his old comrades. She didn't realize how hard life was for the old man.
If everyone could be like the old man, who could live a rosy life and be energetic, and his energy would be no less than that of young people, she would be too happy.
Even the last problem was solved. Zhai Hua didn't say that she was giving up on herself, but she was letting herself go. She simply stopped worrying about whether to get married or not, and also threw Tian Dong and Wei De aside.
If he hadn't heard a few soldiers scolding him for being inhumane and an old woman who couldn't get married before he came back, Zhai Hua wouldn't have been in such a bad mood this time.
However, whoever made Zhai Hua unhappy, Zhai Hua would make him miserable.
Come on, hurt each other and see who bows first!
As for the culprit of this incident, when Tian Dong was mentioned, Zhai Hua, who was rarely calm, immediately became furious. He was surrounded by a sinister aura and his face was as black as a female Rakshasa.
Knowing that his emotions seemed to be too excited, Zhai Hua took a deep breath, pressed his forehead, and lowered his voice: "Okay, you know I'm not in a particularly good mood, don't say these nonsense to anger me. The Tian family doesn't do things very authentically... Well, maybe the Tian family has already expressed it, and I don't understand it thoroughly enough. When Nan Nan gave birth to the three treasures, Tian Dong helped a lot. If there is anything in the Tian family in the future, we can help as much as we can, at least we have to repay the favor. As for other things, don't think about it, and don't mention it. How can I like someone who has been like a little girl since he was a child?"
Zhai Hua's last sentence was a bit inconsistent.
It seems that he likes her, but Tian Dong later became cold to her, and they didn't have much contact and didn't express it.
No matter what Tian Dong and the Tian family mean, I'm sorry, I don't want to play anymore, get out of here!
This is Zhai Hua's private matter. Others can give some advice, but it's meaningless if you overdo it. After all, Zhai Hua will have to live his life alone.
You are not a fish, so how can you know the joy of a fish?
Others think that such a life is not easy, but Zhai Hua feels happy, so other people's opinions are actually not important at all.
Qiao Nan is a woman, and she must be on Zhai Hua's side. Seeing that Zhai Hua's anger was aroused by Zhai Sheng, Qiao Nan secretly touched Zhai Sheng with her elbow to let Zhai Sheng stop.
Anyway, in her opinion, the responsibility for this matter really lies with Tian Dong, not Zhai Hua.
As a man, if you think it's okay, take some practical actions and be enthusiastic. It doesn't matter if you don't give a clear answer if you don't know each other. Why do you always say some ambiguous words at certain times and ask the Zhai family to arrange a blind date for Zhai Hua.
So, let alone Zhai Hua, Qiao Nan is not very willing to mention Tian Dong.
If Tian Dong had not been with Zhai Hua the longest besides Wei De, and it seemed that they got along well, Tian Dong would have had some thoughts about Zhai Hua. Otherwise, with Qiao Nan's poisonous mouth, she could have made Zhai Hua, who was head over heels in love with Wei De, change his mind and cool down his passionate love. In Tian Dong's case, she wanted to strangle this little bud, every second.
However, Qiao Nan has never been the kind of person who likes to be arrogant. Unless the problem is serious, Qiao Nan is not willing to interfere in other people's lives like this.
The topic of marrying Tian Dong ended with Zhai Huafa's anger.
Miao Liang, who was sitting on the side peeling fruit for her three grandsons, heard it clearly, and finally could only sigh helplessly and said nothing more. Sometimes Miao Liang couldn't understand it. Their Zhai family did things honestly, and she didn't know whether other people's hands were clean or not. But she dared to pat her chest and say that what her family did was worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, worthy of the party, the country and the people.
More importantly, their Zhai family had been soldiers for generations, defending the country. Even if they were not heroes, they had made contributions to the stability of the country.
Their family didn't do bad things, but they did a lot of good things. Why didn't the blessing fall on her daughter, and why did her daughter's fate come so late?
Others don't understand Zhai Hua's worries, but her mother Miao Liang understands.
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