Chapter 1303: Changing Strategy
"Now that you understand everything, use your brain more when you do things and speak in the future, and don't be so impulsive like last time. Now think about it, is it appropriate to quarrel with your parents for a man? If this man is really the one who can give you a lifetime of happiness, I think it is more or less worth it. What if he is not, and you make your parents so angry, do you have the face to do it?"
Okay, the mood has calmed down, and Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang's willfulness.
Fang Fang smiled awkwardly: "I was pushed into a corner, wasn't I? Otherwise, what else can I do? If I encounter such a situation again in the future, how should I deal with it better?" Fang Fang
likes her current boyfriend very much. She thinks that this boyfriend is particularly considerate and gentle, and treats her very well. He is not like the "good son-in-law" in her parents' mouths, who always bullies her.
However, when it comes to getting married and staying together for a lifetime, Fang Fang does not have such confidence in this boyfriend.
"Stupid, if quarreling was useful, would you have come to my mother-in-law's house that day to complain to me and ask for support? You could have said everything calmly and clearly that day, why did you have to quarrel? The more you quarrel, the more your parents will think that you were acting on impulse instead of making a rational decision."
"It's useless for me to be calm, they won't believe it." Fang Fang complained. She quarreled because she was extremely angry.
Qiao Nan took a sip of water to moisten her throat. If she had no other way out in the future, she might open a psychological counseling company, or be someone who specializes in listening to people complain and chatting with them. At the very least, she could be a matchmaker and get red envelopes: "When you lose your temper, no one believes you, right? No matter what, no one believes you. You get angry and hurt yourself and your parents. Explain your thoughts clearly, then stick to what you believe and get out of here. In this way, when you receive this call today, you will feel less guilty towards your parents."
"..." Fang Fang was speechless, but had to acquiesce to Qiao Nan's words.
This time when she returned to school, she often thought of the situation that day.
Thinking of her mother's angry eyes and her father's aging body trembling slightly, Fang Fang, as a filial daughter, blamed herself. Her mind was always torn between being filial to her parents and striving for her own happiness. After returning to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights. She even refused her boyfriend's invitation to go out for dinner three times.
In this way, both sides of her seemed to be hurt: "What should I do in the future?"
"Think about the future, didn't your parents compromise? Now that you feel guilty, spend more time with your parents after the end of the semester, chat with them, walk with them, and visit the park. Also, if you have nothing else to do, call home two or three times a week to communicate with your parents, or tell them about your life at school, whether you are happy or not, and what happened. After talking more, your parents will understand you, and they will no longer quarrel with you over an 'outsider' in the future."
Qiao Nan's tone was full of There was a hint of coaxing in her voice: "Your parents like Gao Yan so much because there is one thing you can't compare to Gao Yan. Gao Yan is so sweet in front of your parents, as if he is their son. The problem is that you are their biological son. Gao Yan can do it. You have to do better than Gao Yan and win your parents' hearts back from Gao Yan. Without your parents' support, whoever you want to marry in the future will it be Gao Yan's business?"
The more Fang Fang listened, the more it made sense. The reason why she almost gave in was because of her parents' attitude.
If her parents favor her in the future and no longer value Gao Yan so much, then what Gao Yan said will mean nothing. Why should she be
so anxious? The key to the key is who her parents' hearts are on!
Once Fang Fang understood everything, she was like a person who had opened up her Ren and Du meridians. She was very energetic and she was like a cock with high morale. "Nannan, you are indeed my best friend. Your words can wake me up. After listening to your words, I understood everything. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future and I won't let Gao Yan take advantage of me again."
Judging from the phone call from her father today, even if her parents said that Gao Yan was a good person and a role model for all their children, she was the only one who was their biological daughter. After all, her parents' hearts were with her, not with Gao Yan.
She was born to take advantage of the blood relationship. How shameful would it be for her to lose to Gao Yan again.
With Qiao Nan as her back-up advisor, Fang Fang, who is usually quiet, has more contact with her family and chats with them from time to time.
At first, Fang's parents were a little uncomfortable and didn't understand why Qiao Nan wanted their daughter to do this. However, more communication between parents and children is always a good thing.
Gradually, Fang's mother understood what Qiao Nan meant and knew the purpose of these calls: "Oh, it's so late, it's not particularly safe, you'd better not go out. If you really want to date, let's do it during the day."
"Well, it's not that I don't want you to experience life, you are still a student now, and your main focus is study. When you graduate, you want to stay at home and let me and your father support you, but I won't agree."
"You want to live outside? Are you still considering it? What do I think? What I think is not important, what is important is what you think. Okay, then I'll tell you, you just listen, and you make your own decision on what to do. Fangfang, you are an adult, and Mom believes in your judgment. You tell me, not to mention how much it costs to rent a house outside, Mom is most worried about safety issues. You live on campus, and there are several roommates in one dormitory. Mom can also feel more at ease. Otherwise, Mom would be so worried that she would not be able to sleep. "
As a student, even if she goes to college, the life of a top student like Fang Fang is still very monotonous. All she does is study.
Fang Fang communicates more with her parents and talks more, but there is too little to talk about.
After talking about study, Fang Fang would occasionally mention her boyfriend. She was thinking of boiling a frog in warm water, but unfortunately, she was the frog in the pot.
It was Fang's mother who found a way. She did not speak rudely and no longer said a word to the boy. From the beginning to the end, she was concerned about her daughter, so that Fang Fang slowly accepted her "opinion".
Dating in the middle of the night? What if that bastard takes advantage of Fang Fang?
Working outside? She and her husband just said a few more good things about Gao Yan, and Fang Fang was so jealous. If she really goes out to experience life, she will definitely be furious. In this way, wouldn't that bastard have the opportunity to comfort Fang Fang?
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