Chapter 2032: Cannot be erased
In this case, raising a daughter is really a big loss. In this case, the daughter is just like raising someone else's son.
Anyway, she would not do this. If she had money and could make money, she would definitely find a way to spend all the money on her family, especially her parents. After all, these people are her closest relatives. They have lived together since childhood, and the feelings between them are not comparable to ordinary people. Instead
of wasting a lot of money on an outsider called "husband", it is better to spend it on your own father, mother, brothers and sisters.
When Ding Jiayi heard this, it made a lot of sense. She gave birth to Qiao Nan and raised Qiao Nan to adulthood. Qiao Nan finally learned to make money, but she had to use the money to support outsiders and to be filial to other people's elders. She and Qiao Dongliang had to take a long way behind. Why?
Instead of letting others enjoy the fruits of her labor for nothing, she should firmly grasp the fruits of her labor in her own hands. At least, she must put all the money Qiao Nan earned before getting married in her own pocket.
Qiao Nan was so good at making money. She could make 200,000 or 300,000 yuan a year. After making money for five years, Qiao Nan would be a millionaire. Why did Qiao Nan marry into someone else's family with one million yuan, and then use the one million yuan to spend on her husband and share with her parents-in-law, but she and Lao Qiao could not enjoy any of the blessings.
Under the influence of Qiao Zijin, Ding Jiayi became more and more overbearing, and her demands on Qiao Nan became higher and higher. Ding Jiayi never thought that there was anything wrong with what she did, and that it was an excessive behavior towards Qiao Nan.
All unreasonable behaviors were rationalized by Qiao Zijin's distorted explanations. Ding Jiayi simply regarded this set of ideas as a guide for life, and she had to refer to it for everything.
In the past, when Qiao Nan was around, how could Ding Jiayi possibly set her sights on Qiao Zijin? Now that Qiao Nan is gone as a shield, and Ding Jiayi's thinking has not changed at all, what's wrong with applying the reasonable guidelines she applied to Qiao Nan to Qiao Zijin?
Ding Jiayi disagreed with Qiao Zijin's scolding and accusation today, and felt that she was wronged: "Why am I not good to Qiao Nan? Didn't you tell me that instead of letting Qiao Nan spend all the money she earns on outsiders, it is better to honor me and your father. You have a lot of money now, shouldn't you be filial to me and your father?"
It's just a mobile phone bill, a matter of at most one hundred yuan. Zijin quarreled with her over such a trivial matter, and complained that she was too harsh as a mother. If this is considered harsh, then what have her requirements for Qiao Nan been over the years?
Ding Jiayi knew very well that compared with her previous requirements for Qiao Nan, her words to Qiao Zijin were nothing. Even here, she was scolded by Qiao Zijin. Who is the mother and who is the daughter?
Qiao Zijin certainly didn't remember what she had taught Ding Jiayi. After Ding Jiayi's reminder, Qiao Zijin was somewhat impressed: "Mom, this society is changing every day. You can't keep your thoughts so old-fashioned, self-contained, and not make any progress. My daughter has grown up and married. What's wrong with eating and drinking at her husband's house? Also, my daughter has grown up and has her own life. You have to let us be independent. This independence should maintain personality independence, life independence, and economic independence."
She has done very well. Well, there are many people who rely on their parents in this society. She has money in her pocket, and she doesn't think about spending her parents' money. She spends her own money everywhere. Compared with those people who rely on their parents, she is a filial daughter. She didn't have so many requirements for her mother, so why did her mother have so many requirements for her?
What does Qiao Zijin's biological mother mean by economic independence? Others may not understand, but Ding Jiayi understands. The so-called economic independence means that all the money in Qiao Zijin's pocket belongs to Qiao Zijin, and she should not interfere, let alone take Qiao Zijin's money. This is what Qiao Zijin means by economic independence.
For money, the mother and daughter who have always been very close to each other quarreled directly in the police station, which stunned the people in the police station and was speechless about this strange mother and daughter. All they talked about was money. They quarreled in front of outsiders in the police station. No wonder the aunt's husband was so cold when he received their call. Not only was he not nervous, he also said he would pick her up in an hour.
The content of the conversation between the two was too simple and without any connotation. Anyone with ears and brains could understand what the mother and daughter were quarreling about. The mother asked her daughter to pay for the phone bill, but the daughter thought the mother was not financially independent enough, so she kept sucking her daughter's blood and finding all kinds of excuses to spend her daughter's money.
Based on this conversation, the people in the police station said: Neither of this mother and daughter is a good person, no wonder they were on the news. It seems that the reports in the later part of the news are all true. After arguing for a long time, the mother and daughter never stopped talking about "money". Not to mention that they valued money more than family affection, they almost valued money more than life.
Qiao Dongliang certainly didn't know about the quarrel between Ding Jiayi and Qiao Zijin in the police station. The Zhai family had a luncheon, not a dinner. So, it ended around 2 pm. The important guests were sent off by Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang, and the younger peers were naturally arranged by Zhai Hua.
Seeing that most people had left, Qiao Dongliang stood up and said, "Nannan, you have a child with good fortune in the future. What happened in the past was wrong, and we can't go back or change anything. You are...very good now, just keep doing it. What if one day I am gone, I will not be able to take care of them. You should do things according to your conscience, and you should not refuse to take care of things that you should not take care of. Since ancient times, only parents raise children, and children give back to their parents. Your sister is so old, and she is still a mother. It doesn't make sense for you to take care of her and raise her for the rest of her life. Your sister is not decent, so don't bother with her anymore in the future."
Qiao Nan nodded and called "Dad" very calmly. These instructions came too late for Qiao Nan. The past years cannot be returned, and it is useless to continue to dwell on them. But this does not mean that Qiao Nan can completely forget the harm she suffered in the Qiao family in the past.
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