Chapter 2251 Being held back
Life will not become colorful just because you make a few more friends.
How can it be that easy to make friends?
In the dream, Qiao Nan had worked so hard. In addition to having a good relationship with her high school roommate, she had the best relationship with Shi Qing. Later, when she went to college, she had another senior. In the dream, Qiao Nan already felt that she was very lucky and happy at the time, to meet so many friends worth making friends with.
"Dad, Mom, why are you guys always talking about this topic? Is someone spreading something again?"
"..." Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang were a little speechless, because Qiao Nan was right, someone was saying something.
Qiao Nan doesn't like to socialize with people. After living in the military and political compound in the capital for so long, Qiao Nan hardly interacts with his neighbors, making him look like a lone ranger. If it weren't for the Zhai family, Qiao Nan's style and behavior would be no different from that of a lone wolf.
How can he stop talking nonsense!
In the past, everyone disliked Qiao Nan and thought that Qiao Nan was not worthy of being their neighbor. Qiao Nan rarely went out and didn't come to make friends with their family. Everyone thought that Qiao Nan was a self-aware person. Knowing that she was incompatible with the people in this compound and was not of the same kind, she could only save her face by staying out and disturbing others.
Now it is very different. Many people wonder why the daughter-in-law of the Zhai family never shows up in their compound and interacts with people. Is it Qiao Nan herself who is unwilling to communicate, or is it that the Zhai family has some purpose in restraining Qiao Nan from communicating with others? Except
when the baby is one month old, Qiao Nan, who never shows up, almost gives people the illusion that she is a tool specially found by the Zhai family to give birth to a baby. After the baby was born, Qiao Nan went from having the opportunity to give birth to a nanny who takes care of the baby.
The Zhai family is helpless about this, especially Zhai Yaohui, as they used to have some old friendship. Under the premise of taking good care of your own land, there are so many national affairs, why don't you pay more attention to the development of the country? Is it because you are old, so you have learned the gossips of women?
Zhai Yaohui asked Qiao Nan to make friends, not to clarify this misunderstanding, he just simply felt that Qiao Nan has always been too lonely. In the past, because of the Qiao family, apart from working, she had no spare time. After marrying into their Zhai family, she got pregnant in the shortest time, and she had to study with a big belly. In the past year or so, Qiao Nan has almost no chance to relax. He naturally hopes that Qiao Nan can have her own personal time and world.
After discussing with Miao Liang, the two decided that while the three babies were still young, they would take care of them as much as possible, so that Qiao Nan could go out into the world and expand her circle of friends.
Others misunderstood that the Zhai family regarded Qiao Nan as a tool for giving birth and raising children, but it was a big problem for Qiao Nan to have such a misconception.
"No, nothing, there is nothing to say." Miao Liang smiled awkwardly. She didn't expect Qiao Nan to guess it right. Without any preparation, she couldn't even smile naturally when Qiao Nan asked her this question.
Well, seeing Miao Liang's reaction, Miao Liang said no, how could Qiao Nan believe it: "Dad, Mom, I think that life is lived behind closed doors. Others can't tell whether you are good or not, only you know it best in your heart. I think I am fine now. Taking care of three children at once is definitely a bit busy. But if you really let me not mix in the matter of three children and give me time to make friends specifically, first of all, I will feel empty and panic. Secondly, I think the friends made under such circumstances are unreliable."
Friends are not made with a specific purpose. Making friends for the sake of making friends is not the kind of friends in the true sense.
Spending so much thought and time, but the purpose is not achieved, what's the point, and I am exhausted. When it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan has no desire to force it. For such things, one can only let things take their own course.
Qiao Nan has already made such a reasonable statement,
so Zhai Yaohui put his mind at ease. His original meaning was that his own people are more important, and he did not have such an idea just for what others say. He has always felt that Qiao Nan has a low level of education, but she is very insightful. The more he gets to know her, the more Zhai Yaohui is sure of his thoughts. After Qiao Nan went to school, Zhai Yaohui saw that Qiao Nan, who was in a state of semi-suspended school, had still ranked third in the exam last year. He said that Qiao Nan was not only a child with high emotional intelligence, which was very obvious, but also a high IQ.
Such an excellent child was born in the Qiao family. He felt wronged and was held back by the people in the Qiao family. As long as Qiao Nan is given a chance to develop, she will definitely be able to show her talents instead of being described as "a vassal of someone else" by outsiders.
What if Qiao Nan didn't grow up in a family like Qiao's? What if Zhai Sheng still married Qiao Nan in the end? Who knows, when outsiders mention the couple now, when they mention Qiao Nan, they don't say "Oh, the woman Zhai Sheng married", but "Oh, the man Qiao Nan married".
Zhai Yaohui didn't know that his thoughts at this moment really existed in Qiao Nan's dreams, and he was not overthinking. When Qiao Nan appeared in public, others never commented on her as "Zhai Sheng's wife". When they met Zhai Sheng, some people would say "You are Qiao Nan's other half".
"You two are really..." Seeing that Zhai Yaohui "compromised" so quickly, Miao Liang was unhappy: "Nannan, you go to school often now, haven't you met a girl you get along with?" Don't they say that friends made in school are just friends? Nannan is studying in school, isn't it a good time to make friends?
Taking advantage of this moment, Qiao Nan finally solved her lunch problem: "Mom, don't mention my worry. The school I'm attending now is different from the school in your concept. The school you are talking about is a school that students enter and come into contact with, and my school is a place for learning and self-improvement in a pure sense."
Anyone who goes to an adult university is either for a diploma or for a greater purpose. The former is about paying money to get a diploma, while the latter is about absorbing knowledge or harvesting results. Making friends is not very realistic.
Of course, Qiao Nan didn't say too much, nothing is absolute. It's just that she has never had any good luck since she was a child, except marrying Zhai Sheng and entering the Zhai family. So when it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan has no intention of forcing it.
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