"Okay, then think about it slowly, and make a decision after you've thought it through." Han Yu did not force Su Wenyue. Now that he had explained the situation clearly to his wife, he left the rest to her to decide. Firstly, Su Wenyue's determination just now scared Han Yu. Secondly, Han Yu actually wanted his wife to stay with him, but he wanted her to leave for her safety. Now he has thought it through. It would be good to share the joys and sorrows with his wife. As long as he arranges carefully, he may be able to protect his wife's safety.

As for the three children, Han Yu felt that they were still too young. If his wife was willing to give them up, it would be a good idea to entrust them to someone he could trust to raise them on the farm.

Han Yu expressed his thoughts, but Su Wenyue had other considerations. Not to mention that she was not so confident in leaving the child's upbringing to other people, even if the servants were loyal, their knowledge was limited. And a more important reason was that Xing'er was different from other children.

"Husband, I think it's better for the children to stay with us. At this age, they need to be well educated. I don't feel comfortable leaving them to others. Besides, our situation is not the worst. As long as we make arrangements, there won't be too much danger. If it doesn't work, we can make other arrangements. Speaking of hardship, there is a saying that children of poor families grow up early. It's good for children to suffer a little so that they can grow up."

Han Yu was only concerned about the children's safety before and didn't consider this aspect. After hearing what Su Wenyue said, he nodded in agreement. He thought that his wife was far-sighted and thoughtful. She started to consider the children's upbringing at such a young age.

Han Yu had seen many children from wealthy families before, spoiled and full of dandy habits, which he couldn't stand the most. On weekdays, he saw his wife love the children and was a little worried that they would be spoiled. Now it seems that his wife is not the ignorant woman who only knows how to indulge and spoil the children. No wonder the children are taught so well. Whenever colleagues or friends come, they will praise the three children.

"Wife, I will listen to you. I am usually busy with things outside and have neglected the children. Thanks to you for bringing them up so well. Thank you for your hard work!" Han Yu held his wife's hand. He was not like those arrogant men who acted like a man in front of their wives and thought it was a matter of course for their wives to raise the children well. He would take care of the children himself when he had time. He knew how difficult it was to teach a child well and that the effort required was far more than people saw, not to mention that there were three children in their family.

"Well, this is all I should do. I carried them for ten months and gave birth to them with great difficulty. They are my own flesh and blood. As long as they can grow up safely and healthily, I will be happy to do anything. Besides, it's not all my credit that the children are so obedient. They are sensible on their own. As the eldest brother, Xing'er has set a good example. He knows how to take care of his younger siblings at a young age."

Su Wenyue felt a little ashamed and embarrassed to be thanked so solemnly by Han Yu. Although she was a mother once in her previous life, she was an incompetent mother. Fortunately, Xing Ge'er was sensible since he was a child. Many things were done by Xing Ge'er, a little child. She really had no face to be Xing Ge'er's mother! Although she tried her best to be a good mother in this life, there were still some things that were not thoughtful enough. Xing Ge'er was still so sensible. Not only did he do well, but he also took good care of his younger brothers and sisters. The two younger ones also listened to Xing Ge'er, the eldest brother.

"Xing'er really acts like an elder brother, he is worthy of being my, Han Yu's, son!" Han Yu is very satisfied when talking about his children, especially his sensible eldest son. Although he is so young, not even three years old, many children at this age don't know anything, but Xing'er can take care of his younger siblings very well and doesn't worry his parents at all.

"Of course, not only Xing'er, but Chen'er and Yu'er are also very smart and sensible, and they are all good children." Su Wenyue said again. Although Xing'er is special in her heart, they are all her children and she will not favor any one of them. She also requires the same of Han Yu. She does not want her children to feel unfair due to unequal treatment and develop resentment, or even affect the relationship between brothers. This should be paid special attention to when there are many brothers and sisters.

However, the problem that Su Wenyue was worried about has not occurred yet. Xing Ge'er always gives his younger brothers and sisters first when he gets any good things. Once, Su Wenyue sneaked over and found the two little ones fighting over toys. Xing Ge'er patiently talked to the two little ones and taught them what to do. How could one not feel gratified to see such a scene.

"Dad! Mom!" Speak of the devil. Han Yu and Su Wenyue were talking about their two children when Chen'er and Yu'er ran in from outside, calling them dad and mom affectionately. Xing'er walked steadily behind, telling his younger brothers and sisters to run slower and not to fall.

"Mom, why are you crying?" Yu Jie'er had sharp eyes and noticed something was wrong as soon as she walked in. Su Wenyue had just had an argument with Han Yu and there were tears on her face that she forgot to wipe away, and the little one saw it.

After hearing what Yujie said, Chen Ge also looked carefully at Su Wenyue's face, looking at her like a little adult: "Mom, why are you crying? Did Daddy bully you? Daddy is not obedient and needs to be punished!"

The three little ones spent more time with their mother, so they naturally had deeper feelings for Su Wenyue, and therefore they all protected their mother, especially Xing Ge'er, who had been walking over calmly, but when he heard Su Wenyue crying, he immediately quickened his pace and came to Su Wenyue in a hurry. Seeing that there were real traces of tears on Su Wenyue's face, he frowned and was very worried. He looked at Han Yu with some blame, like a little adult.

"Mom, you have suffered some injustice. Don't be sad. Tell your son and he will help you solve your problems!" Xing Ge'er said so. Although the look he gave Han Yu was obviously blaming, as a child he could not go against filial piety and blame his parents, so he said it very tactfully, but his tone was full of dissatisfaction.

Su Wenyue was very touched by her three children's thoughtfulness, but she didn't want them to have any bad opinions about their father. Even if she had any quarrels or disputes with Han Yu, she would avoid the children. When she saw the children misunderstood, she quickly explained: "You three brothers and sisters have misunderstood. Mom has not been wronged. She is just happy and she is crying because of joy."

Yu Jie'er raised her head when she heard it, seeming to understand but also not to understand: "I am crying with joy, Yu Jie'er knows what it means. Big brother said that crying with joy means that you shed tears out of joy, but why do you have to shed tears when you are happy? Yu Jie'er only sheds tears when I am unhappy. Mother, are you shedding tears of joy?"

Su Wenyue listened to Yu Jie'er's childish words and explained more patiently.