"Aunt, someone is pursuing me."
Qiao Jiuru took Dabao and Xiaobao's hands and left work early to go home to cook. Halfway there, she was stopped by Tao Aihua, who looked shy, and suddenly gave her this.
Qiao Jiuru: “…”
In fact, young people nowadays are still very bold and really brave.
"So what do you think?!"
Qiao Jiuru looked at the little girl in front of her, who was not even nineteen years old. Although it was not early in this age, she still felt it was a little early.
Moreover, the most important thing is that the college entrance examination will be resumed in a few years, and the educated youth will be able to return to the city one or two years after the examination.
If two people are from the same province or city, it's better, but if they are not from the same province, they may not see each other in a year. It is estimated that they will go their separate ways in the end.
"I don't know, but Aunt Luo told me to ask my aunt no matter what I have. Aunt Luo told me to listen to my aunt."
This is why Tao Aihua secretly came to find Qiao Jiuru. After Aunt Luo helped her change her land from the countryside to here, Aunt Luo was almost like her own mother in her heart. Aunt Luo asked her to find Aunt Qiao if she had any problems. Later, Aunt Qiao helped her get several hundred yuan from her father. Now she trusts Aunt Qiao.
"If you are really willing to listen to your Aunt Luo and trust me and your Aunt Luo, then I will tell you my opinion."
The little girl in front of him was about the same age as his daughter. She had a home but seemed like she had no home at all, and her father was like a stepfather. She was actually quite pitiful.
"Aunt, you talk, I listen."
After going to the countryside, Tao Aihua is no longer the same as before. She can now tell who is good to her and who is not.
"My daughter is the same age as you, and she is an educated youth. Although our family is of this status, I didn't know she would leave home so soon. At least before she is 22 years old, I hope she can know more about the world, and then have enough ability and a mature mentality, and finally consider leaving home."
"Marriage is not only a matter between two people, but also a matter between two families. The most important thing is that you are educated youth from different provinces and cities. What if one day, the educated youth can return to the city, what will you do?! Will the child live with the mother or the father?! Will you have a place to live after you return to the city?! Do you have a job?! Can you support the child?! No, can you support yourself?!"
"Don't say you won't be able to return to the city in the future. Nothing will remain the same. That's what I mean. If you don't have enough money, or enough ability, and a mature mentality, I don't approve of you finding a partner and getting married now."
"What if you get married for a year or two, and your family finds you a job and you return to the city?! A conscientious person might be willing to give up this opportunity for you and the child, but a conscienceless person would just abandon you and go back. You've experienced how hard and tiring life is in the countryside, and who wouldn't want to stay here? Do you dare to bet?!"
"Besides, no matter how old a man is, he can always find a younger wife. If you've been married once and have children, you can only marry someone who's been married twice and has children or no children. It's better not to think about these things now, and wait until you have enough ability, money in your hands to withstand these storms, and can support yourself and your children, then you can get married if you want."
"Child, don't just rely on someone. As the saying goes, if you rely on people, they will run away, but if you rely on mountains, the mountains will fall. Sometimes, the person who brings you the wind and rain in your life is the one you want to rely on."
Qiao Jiuru not only said this to Tao Aihua, she also said the same thing to Song Luoyun. Men and women are different, being older is not a problem.
Especially capable men who are not bad looking are extremely popular.
Anyway, it is impossible for her, Qiao Jiuru's daughter, to marry casually. Her daughter is very obedient. Now their family is not in the helpless and desperate state, and they do not need to find someone to rely on.
She had already said everything she wanted to say. As for whether the little girl would listen or not, she had no other choice.
Tao Aihua did listen to it, and she became even more uneasy. Especially when Aunt Qiao asked her to put herself in the shoes of the woman, could she support herself? ! Could she support her child? ! If that were true, she and her child would be at a dead end.
She still needs to think about it carefully.
"Aunt, I understand. I will listen to you and stop thinking about finding a partner for the time being."
Tao Aihua was 70% ready to back out at this moment, but still had 30% hope.
After all, she has always been a child longing for love and family warmth, especially hoping to have someone who loves her and a home of her own.
"Xiao Tao, Auntie hopes you won't be anxious now. If you really miss home, then I hope you can wait another year or two. Look at the educated youth around you who have left home, and learn about what happened to them before. If it is a good thing for the educated youth to go home here, then the educated youth before must have gone home. Those who insist on not having a home must want to go back to the city. For major events in life, it's always a good idea to observe, understand, and inquire more."
Qiao Jiuru had already persuaded him if she could. Anyway, everyone has their own destiny, and she could only help to this extent.
Tao Aihua was moved by her last words, and this time she nodded to Qiao Jiuru seriously.
"Thank you, Auntie. I understand. It's getting late. I won't keep you any longer."
She bowed to Qiao Jiuru with gratitude, turned around and ran away quickly.
With such different identities as the two of you, it is better to keep a distance if possible, and avoid being discovered if possible. This will be good for both of you.
Therefore, Qiao Jiuru didn't mind Tao Aihua's hasty coming and going. After the little girl left, she continued to take Dabao and Xiaobao home to cook.
After Tao Aihua consulted Qiao Jiuru, she couldn't help but write a letter to Luo Meiling, writing about her pursuit and what Aunt Qiao said to her, and finally asked Luo Meiling to write to her.
Seven days later, Luo Meiling, who was far away in Shandong Province, received a letter from Tao Aihua.
When she opened and read the letter, she replied immediately, and sent it without delay after writing it, as if she was afraid that if she was a minute late, Tao Aihua would get married.
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