Chapter 1164 Self-reliance
He doesn't have a lot of money, but the money must be spent.
In less than two months, his grandchildren will be born. As a grandfather, how can he not prepare gifts for them?
Qiao Jianliang is also very practical. At this time, it is popular to buy gold and silver jewelry for children to ward off evil and ensure safety.
He has more than one grandson, so he has to take a good look around and buy two bracelets as gifts.
Qiao Dongliang said it so plainly that Ding Jiayi really had no way to deal with him, unless she did the same as before, not caring at all and trampling on her face under his feet, and having a big quarrel with Qiao Dongliang until everyone knew about it.
When Qiao Zijin went to the school to report, she saw that Ding Jiayi's face was not looking very good.
As soon as Chen Jun returned to Pingcheng, he made it clear to Qiao Zijin that they could no longer get along and should break up, but Qiao Zijin refused to agree.
However, breaking up is not divorce. Both parties must agree and sign a divorce agreement before the marriage relationship is officially terminated.
If it comes to a breakup, as long as one party is determined and the other party's tactics are just a little bit worse, the breakup is over.
Chen Jun wanted to break up with Qiao Zijin, but how could the Chen family be stupid enough to continue paying for Qiao Zijin's tuition?
The Chen family could use the money to sponsor a poor student to continue his studies and gain a good reputation, but if they spent it on Qiao Zijin, they would not get a single cent back.
The previous losses cannot be brooded over anymore. What the Chen family needs to do is to stop the losses from continuing.
The Chen family stopped giving money, and Qiao Zijin wanted to get the college diploma. What should she do? Of course, Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi should take on the responsibility of being parents again, take out the money, and continue to support Qiao Zijin's studies.
Because of this incident, Qiao Nan almost received another annoying call from Qiao Jiayuan in mid-August.
Fortunately, Qiao Dongliang still had a conscience and snatched the phone from Ding Jiayi's hand.
Qiao Dongliang warned Ding Jiayi in a vicious voice that if she dared to make this call, he would smash the phone at home.
No matter how much money Qiao Nan transferred to him, he could snatch it back from Ding Jiayi without losing a penny and send it back to Qiao Nan.
Qiao Nan married into the Zhai family, and she was still a student, so she had to rely on the Zhai family's money to live. He would never do such a shameful thing as asking Qiao Nan to take money from her husband's family and support her family.
Qiao Dongliang was so determined that Ding Jiayi had no choice but to give up the idea.
Who made Ding Jiayi understand that she didn't like Qiao Nan, and that Qiao Nan, her daughter, had no feelings for her. The only reason that could make Qiao Nan pay was Qiao Dongliang.
Qiao Dongliang refused, so no matter how good Ding Jiayi's idea was, it would be useless.
So, very reluctantly, Ding Jiayi and Qiao Dongliang scraped together enough money to pay for Qiao Zijin's tuition.
But later, Ding Jiayi told Qiao Zijin that she could only give her one month's living expenses.
For the next few months, Qiao Zijin will have to earn her living expenses by working part-time. She really has limited ability. Qiao Zijin is so grown up now, she should have some basic job ability to earn money and can't always rely on her parents for support.
In a word, Qiao Zijin is an adult now and even has a boyfriend. She has to support herself and stop adding burden to her parents. Anyone who blames her biological parents is saying that they are incompetent and incompetent.
Qiao Zijin took her tuition and one month's living expenses and left. Ding Jiayi couldn't guess what Qiao Zijin was thinking when she left. Only Qiao Zijin herself knew the answer.
Just because Qiao Dongliang remains silent doesn't mean he has no ideas.
He did not stop Ding Jiayi in the hope of cultivating Qiao Zijin's independent ideas and attitudes.
He could see that Qiao Zijin was too dependent on others for help. She believed that if she wanted to live a good life, she had to rely on others, such as her parents, her married sister, or the man she would marry in the future.
The reason why Qiao Zijin didn't listen to his advice was because she felt that Chen Jun's family was well-off and that Chen Jun would give her a good life after they got married, right?
This kind of thinking is too dangerous.
Qiao Dongliang thought that if he let Qiao Zijin work to earn her own living expenses, she would gradually understand that as long as she was willing to work hard, at least she would be able to support herself. She did not need to rely on anyone and she was capable on her own.
Then, Qiao Zijin will re-evaluate her relationship with Chen Jun. Even if she looks for a boyfriend in the future, at least she will be more interested in the other person's character rather than the other person's family conditions or how much money the other person has in his pocket.
In this case, Qiao Dongliang clearly saw the resentment in Qiao Zijin's eyes, but he did not stop Ding Jiayi and let Ding Jiayi do so.
After Qiao Zijin arrived at school, she was so angry that she didn't even bother to call home to report she was safe.
Ding Jiayi had made it clear that she would not give her a single dollar more this semester, other than the money she already had.
Then she would make one less phone call, and the money she saved could be spent on herself.
Qiao Zijin didn't call home. It was Qiao Dongliang who called Qiao Zijin's dormitory. Qiao Zijin's roommate answered the phone and handed it to Qiao Zijin: "Zijin, Dad can see that you are not happy with the little money your mom gave you this time and asked you to work to earn your living expenses in the future. Zijin, Dad doesn't want anything more. You have grown up and become an adult. Dad doesn't expect you to be outstanding in the future. Dad only hopes that you can be a useful person. Don't blame your mom. Our starting point must be for your own good."
"Zijin, your mother and I are old, and we will definitely die first in the future. When your mother and I are alive, you don't have to worry, we will definitely support you. But Zijin, have you ever thought about what you will do when your mother and I are gone? Yes, you will get married in the future, and you will have a husband to take care of you. It's not that Dad said something unpleasant, the news reported how high the divorce rate is now. Zijin, Dad wants you to be a useful person, not to rely on others, and to be self-sufficient and live a good life. Can you understand our painstaking efforts?"
Qiao Dongliang spoke earnestly, just wanting Qiao Zijin to understand their parents' feelings and love for her.
"Dad, do you think that if you rely on mountains, they will fall and if you rely on people, they will run away. The only thing I can always rely on is my own will?" Qiao Zijin said calmly.
"Yes! Dad was right about you. You really understood what I just said." The summary was very good. As expected of a high school student, she must be much more educated than him.
Hearing Qiao Dongliang's proud tone, Qiao Zijin sneered inwardly: "Dad, I know what you mean, don't worry, I understand everything."
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