Chapter 1298: Change of Strategy
"Now that you understand, use your brain more in the future and don't be so impulsive like last time. Think about it now. Is it appropriate to quarrel with your parents for a man? If this man is really the one who can give you a lifetime of happiness, I think it is more or less worth it. If not, do you feel embarrassed to make your parents angry?"
Well, now that her emotions had calmed down, Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang for her willfulness.
Fang Fang smiled awkwardly: "I was pushed into a corner, wasn't I? Otherwise, what else can I do? If I encounter such a situation again in the future, how should I deal with it better?"
Fang Fang likes her current boyfriend very much. She thinks he is very considerate and gentle, and treats her very well. He is nothing like the "good son-in-law" her parents talk about, who always bullies her.
However, after getting married and living together for life, Fang Fang no longer had this level of confidence in her boyfriend.
"Stupid, if arguing is useful, then why would you run to my mother-in-law's house to complain to me and ask for support? In that case, you can just make things clear in a calm manner, why do you have to argue? The more you argue, the more your parents will think that you are acting on impulse, not rationally."
"It's no use for me to remain calm. They won't believe it." Fang Fang complained. She was quarreling because she was extremely angry.
Qiao Nan took a sip of water to moisten her throat. If she had no other options in the future, she could open a psychological counseling company, or be someone who specializes in listening to people complain and chatting with them. At worst, she could be a matchmaker and get red envelopes. "If you lose your temper, won't anyone believe you? No matter what, no one will believe you. You will hurt yourself and your parents by losing your temper. Explain your thoughts clearly, then stick to what you believe and get out of here. If you do that, you won't feel a lot less guilty towards your parents when you receive a call like today."
"..." Fang Fang was speechless, but had to agree with Qiao Nan's words.
This time when she returned to school, she often thought of that situation.
Thinking of her mother's angry eyes and her father's aging body trembling slightly, Fang Fang, as a filial daughter, blamed herself. Her mind was always torn between being filial to her parents and striving for her own happiness. After returning to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights. She even refused her boyfriend's invitation to dinner three times.
In this way, it seems that people on both sides of her are hurt: "What should I do in the future?"
"Think about the future, didn't your parents compromise? Now that you feel guilty, spend more time with your parents after the semester ends and you return to your parents' side, talk to them, take them for walks, and visit the park with them. Also, if you have nothing else to do, call home two or three times a week and talk to your parents about your life at school, whether you are happy or not, and what happened to you. With more conversations, your parents will understand you, and they will no longer argue with you over an 'outsider' in the future."
Qiao Nan's tone was full of temptation: "Your parents like Gao Yan so much because there is one thing that you cannot compare to Gao Yan. Gao Yan is so sweet in front of your parents, as if he is their son. The problem is that you are their biological son. Gao Yan can do it. You have to do better than Gao Yan and win your parents' heart back from Gao Yan. Without your parents' support, whoever you marry in the future will Gao Yan have any say over?"
The more Fang Fang listened, the more it made sense. The reason she almost gave in was precisely because of her parents' attitude.
If her parents favor her in the future and no longer pay so much attention to Gao Yan, then Gao Yan's words will mean nothing and she should not be in a hurry.
The key to the key is who her parents are on!
Fang Fang was enlightened, as if her Ren and Du meridians were opened. She was in high spirits, and she was like a rooster with high morale. "Nannan, you are really my best friend. Your words can wake me up. After listening to your words, I understood everything. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future and I won't let Gao Yan take advantage of me again."
Judging from the phone call from Chongjin's father, no matter how good her parents say Gao Yan is and that he is a role model for all their children, she is still the only one who is their biological daughter, and her parents' hearts are ultimately with her, not with Gao Yan.
She has been taking advantage of their blood relationship. How shameful would it be for her to lose to Gao Yan again?
With Qiao Nan as her back-up advisor, Fang Fang, who was usually a man of few words, had more contact with her family and would chat with them from time to time.
At first, Fang's parents were a little uncomfortable and didn't understand why Qiao Nan wanted their daughter to do this. However, more communication between parents and children is always a good thing.
Gradually, Fang's mother understood what Qiao Nan meant and knew the purpose of these calls: "Oh, it's so late now, it's not particularly safe, you'd better not go out. If you really want to go on a date, it's in vain."
"Is that so? It's not that I don't want you to experience life. You are still a student now, so study is your priority. When you graduate, even if you want to stay at home and let me and your dad support you, I won't agree."
"You want to live outside? Are you still considering it? What do I think? What I think is not important, what is important is what you think. Okay, then, you just listen to me, and you make your own decision on what to do. Fangfang, you are an adult, and Mom believes in your judgment. As for you, let alone how much it costs to rent a house outside, Mom is most worried about safety. You live on campus, and there are several roommates in one dormitory, so Mom can rest assured. Otherwise, Mom will be so worried that she won't be able to sleep."
As a student, even in college, for a top student like Fang Fang, life is still very monotonous, with all they do is study.
Fang Fang communicated more with her parents and talked more, but there was very little to talk about.
After talking about study, Fang Fang would occasionally mention her boyfriend. Her idea was to boil a frog in warm water. Unfortunately, in the end, she was the frog in the pot.
It was Fang's mother who found a solution. She calmed down her tone and no longer said a single word to the boy. From the beginning to the end, she spoke from the perspective of caring about her daughter, which allowed Fang Fang to slowly accept her "opinion".
A date at midnight? What if that bastard takes advantage of Fang Fang?
Working outside? She and her husband just said a few good things about Gao Yan, but Fang Fang was so jealous. If she really went out into society to experience life, she would definitely be furious. In this way, wouldn't that stinky guy have the opportunity to comfort Fang Fang?
Moving out?! Dream on!
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