Chapter 2025 Cannot be erased
In this case, raising a daughter is really a huge loss. In this situation, it is just like raising someone else's son.
Anyway, she would not do that. If she had money and could make money, she would definitely find a way to spend all her money on her parents. After all, these people are her closest relatives. Living together, the relationship between them is not something that ordinary people can compare to.
Instead of wasting huge amounts of money on a stranger who is just a "husband", it is better to spend it on your own parents, brothers and sisters.
Ding Jiayi thought this made a lot of sense. She gave birth to Qiao Nan and raised her up. Qiao Nan finally learned how to make money, but she wanted to use the money to support others and to be filial to other people's elders. She and Qiao Dongliang had to take a long way behind. What was the basis for this?
Rather than letting others enjoy the fruits of her labor for nothing, she should firmly grasp the fruits of her labor in her own hands. At least, she must put all the money that Qiao Nan earned before getting married into her own pocket.
Qiao Nan is so good at making money, she can make 200,000 to 300,000 a year. After five years of making money, Qiao Nan will be almost a millionaire. Why should Qiao Nan marry into another family with a million dollars, and then use the million dollars to spend on her husband and share with her parents-in-law, but she and Lao Qiao can't enjoy any of the blessings.
Under the influence of Qiao Zijin, Ding Jiayi became more and more overbearing, and her demands on Qiao Nan became higher and higher. Ding Jiayi never thought that there was anything wrong with what she did, and that it was an excessive behavior towards Qiao Nan.
All irrational behaviors were rationalized by Qiao Zijin's distorted explanations. Ding Jiayi simply regarded this set of ideas as a guide for life, and she would refer to it for everything.
In the past, with Qiao Nan around, how could Ding Jiayi possibly set her sights on Qiao Zijin? Now that Qiao Nan is gone as a shield, and Ding Jiayi's thinking hasn't changed at all, what's wrong with applying the reasonable guidelines she applied to Qiao Nan to Qiao Zijin?
Ding Jiayi disagreed with Qiao Zijin's scolding and accusation. She felt that she was wronged. "Why was I bad to Qiao Nan? Didn't you tell me that instead of letting Qiao Nan spend all the money she earned on outsiders, it would be better to honor me and your father. You have a lot of money now, shouldn't you be filial to me and your father?"
It was just a cell phone bill, a hundred bucks at most. Zijin had to argue with her over such a trivial matter, complaining that she was too demanding as a mother. If this was considered demanding, then what were her demands on Qiaonan over the years?
Ding Jiayi knew it very well. Compared with her previous request to Qiao Nan, her words to Qiao Zijin were nothing. Even here, she was scolded by Qiao Zijin. Who is the mother and who is the daughter?
Qiao Zijin certainly didn't remember what she had taught Ding Jiayi. But after Ding Jiayi's reminder, Qiao Zijin had some impression: "Mom, this society is changing. You can't keep thinking so old-fashioned and self-contained. You haven't made any progress. My daughter has grown up and married. What's wrong with eating and drinking at her husband's house and giving a little to her husband's house? Also, my daughter has grown up and has her own life. You have to let us be independent. This independence should be personality independence, life independence, and economic independence."
She has done very well. In today's society, there are many people who live off their parents. She has money in her pocket, and she doesn't think of spending her parents' money. She spends her own money on everything. Compared with those people who live off their parents, she is a filial daughter. She doesn't have so many requirements for her mother, so why does her mother have so many requirements for her?
Qiao Zijin's biological mother, what does Qiao Zijin's economic independence mean? Others may not understand, but Ding Jiayi does. The so-called economic independence means that all the money in Qiao Zijin's pocket belongs to Qiao Zijin, and she should not interfere, let alone take Qiao Zijin's money. This is Qiao Zijin's economic independence.
For money, the mother and daughter, who have always been very close to each other, quarreled directly in the police station, which stunned the people in the police station and made them speechless. They talked about money all the time, and quarreled in front of their relatives in the police station. No wonder the aunt's lover was so cold when he received their call. Not only was he not nervous, but he also said that he would come to pick her up in an hour.
The content of the conversation between the two was too simple, without much connotation. Anyone with ears and brains could understand what the mother and daughter were arguing about. The mother asked her daughter to pay for the phone bill, but the daughter thought her mother was not financially independent enough, so she kept sucking her daughter's blood and finding all kinds of excuses to spend her daughter's money.
Based on this conversation, the police said: Neither of the mother and daughter is a good person, no wonder they were on the news. It seems that the reports in the later period of the news are all true. During the quarrel, the mother and daughter never stopped talking about "money". Not only did they regard money as more important than family affection, but they almost regarded money as more important than life.
Qiao Dongliang certainly didn't know about the quarrel between Ding Jiayi and Qiao Zijin in the police station. The Zhai family had a luncheon, not a dinner. So, it ended around 2pm. The important guests were escorted by Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang, and the younger peers were naturally arranged by Zhai Hua.
Seeing that most people had left, Qiao Dongliang stood up and said, "Nannan, you have a child who will be blessed in the future. What happened in the past was wrong, it was wrong, we can't go back, and we can't change anything. You are...very good now, just keep it like this. What if one day, I am gone, I will not be able to take care of them. You should do things according to your conscience, don't push away the things you should take care of, and don't take on the things you shouldn't take care of. Since ancient times, only parents raise children, and children give back to their parents. Your sister is so old, and she is still a mother, it doesn't make sense for you to take care of her and raise her for the rest of her life. Your sister is not decent, don't bother with her anymore in the future."
Qiao Nan nodded and called out "Dad" very calmly. These instructions came too late for Qiao Nan. The past years could not be returned, and it was useless to continue to brood over them. But this did not mean that Qiao Nan could completely forget the harm he had suffered in the Qiao family in the past.
Everything she had gone through could not be easily erased by her father's few words of comfort, which were neither serious nor sincere. After the comfort, could she pretend that the incident had never happened, or could the suffering she had endured really become a thing of the past?
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