Chapter 2244 Being held back
Life will not become colorful just because you make a few more friends.
Friends, how can it be so easy to make friends?
In the dream, Qiao Nan had worked so hard, and besides having a good relationship with her high school roommate, she had the best relationship with Shi Qing. Later, when she went to college, she had another senior schoolmate. In the dream, Qiao Nan already felt that she was very lucky and blessed at that time, to have met so many friends worth making friends with.
"Dad, Mom, why are you still talking about this? Is someone spreading rumors again?"
"..." Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang were speechless, because Qiao Nan was right, someone was doing something.
Qiao Nan didn't like to socialize with people. After living in the military compound in the capital for so long, Qiao Nan had almost no contact with his neighbors, making him look like a lone wolf. If it weren't for the Zhai family, Qiao Nan's style and behavior would be no different from that of a lone wolf.
How can we stop chatting?
In the past, when everyone disliked Qiao Nan and thought that Qiao Nan was not worthy of being their neighbor, Qiao Nan rarely went out and did not come to make friends with them. Everyone thought that Qiao Nan was being self-aware. He knew that he was incompatible with the people in this compound and was not of the same kind. He could only save his face by staying out and attracting others' attention.
Things are very different now. Many people wonder why the daughter-in-law of the Zhai family never shows up in their compound to communicate with others. Is it that Qiao Nan herself is unwilling to communicate, or is it that the people of the Zhai family have some purpose to restrain Qiao Nan and not let her communicate with others?
Except when the baby was one month old, Qiao Nan, who never showed up, almost gave people the illusion that she was a tool specially hired by the Zhai family to give birth to the baby. After the baby was born, Qiao Nan went from being a childbearing woman to a babysitter.
The Zhai family was extremely helpless about this, especially Zhai Yaohui. They had a long-standing friendship. On the premise of taking good care of their own land, why didn't they pay more attention to the development of the country when there were so many national affairs? Was he old enough to learn the gossips of a woman's wife?
Zhai Yaohui asked Qiao Nan to make friends, not to clarify this misunderstanding, he simply felt that Qiao Nan had always been too lonely. In the past, because of the Qiao family, she had no spare time except for working. After marrying into the Zhai family, she got pregnant in the shortest time, and had to study with a big belly. In the past year or so, Qiao Nan had almost no chance to relax. He naturally hoped that Qiao Nan could have her own personal time and world.
After discussing it with Miao Liang, they decided that while the three babies were still alive, they should take care of them as much as possible, so that Qiao Nan could go out into the world and expand her circle of friends.
It's not important for others to misunderstand that the Zhai family treats Qiao Nan as a tool for giving birth to and raising children, but it's a big problem if Qiao Nan has such a misconception.
b "No, nothing, nothing." Miao Liang smiled awkwardly. She didn't expect Qiao Nan to guess it right. Without any preparation, when Qiao Nan asked her this question, Miao Liang couldn't even smile naturally.
Well, seeing Miao Liang's reaction, how could Qiao Nan believe it? "Dad, Mom, I think that life is lived behind closed doors. Whether you are good or not, others can't tell for sure, only you know it best in your heart. I think I am fine now. Taking care of three children at once is definitely very busy. But if you really let me not mix in the matter of three children and give me time to make friends on purpose, first of all, I will feel empty and panic. Secondly, I think the friends I make under this situation are not reliable."
You don't make friends with a specific purpose in mind. If you make friends just for the sake of making friends, then the friends you make are not friends in the true sense of the word.
After spending so much time and effort, the goal has not been achieved. What's the point? I'm exhausted. When it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan doesn't force it at all. For this kind of thing, you can only let nature take its course.
Qiao Nan had already made such a reasonable statement, so Zhai Yaohui put his mind at ease. His original meaning was that his own people were more important, and he did not have such an idea just for the sake of what others said. He always felt that Qiao Nan was not well educated, but a very insightful person. The more he met her, the more Zhai Yaohui was sure of his idea.
After Qiao Nan went to school, Zhai Yaohui saw that Qiao Nan, despite being half-suspended from school, still managed to get third place in the exam last year. He said that Qiao Nan was not only a child with high emotional intelligence, but also had a high IQ.
Such an excellent child was born in the Qiao family. It was wronged and was held back by the Qiao family. As long as Qiao Nan was given a chance to develop, she would definitely be able to show her talents instead of being a "vassal of someone else" in the eyes of outsiders.
If Qiao Nan had not grown up in a family like the Qiao family, if Zhai Sheng still married Qiao Nan in the end, that would not be right. Now when outsiders mention the couple, when they mention Qiao Nan, they don’t say “Oh, the woman that Zhai Sheng married”, but “Oh, the man that Qiao Nan married”.
Zhai Yaohui didn't know that his thoughts at this moment were real in Qiao Nan's dream, and he was not overthinking. When Qiao Nan appeared in public, people never described her as "Zhai Sheng's wife". When she met Zhai Sheng, some people would say "You are Qiao Nan's other half".
"You two are really..." Seeing that Zhai Yaohui "compromised" so quickly, Miao Liang was unhappy: "Nannan, you often go to school now, but haven't you met a girl you get along with?" No, are the friends you make in school considered pure friends? Nannan is studying in school, isn't it a good time to make friends?
Taking advantage of this moment, Qiao Nan finally solved her lunch problem: "Mom, don't worry about me. The school I'm attending now is different from the school in your concept. Your school is a school that students enter and come into contact with, while my school is a place for learning and self-improvement in a pure sense."
Anyone who goes to adult college does so either for a diploma or for a more far-reaching purpose. The former is to pay money to get a diploma, while the latter is to absorb knowledge or gain results. Making friends is not very realistic.
Of course, Qiao Nan didn't say anything too absolute. Nothing is absolute. It's just that she has never had any good luck since she was a child, except for marrying Zhai Sheng and entering the Lie family. So when it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan doesn't have the slightest intention of forcing her.
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